Do you have a good reason for ‘postponing’ your pleasure? for life? for flowers? for joy? Even though Summer is ending and we are turning towards the Autumn?

Beloved Flower Lover,

It’s a time, when we might be looking back over the summer as we approach autumn.  Some of might be counting every pleasure and desire fulfilled and noticing how satisfied we really are. Some of us  might  be scared about the aftermath of summer, not taking any time to count all the good things that we had desired, however small that came into fruition.

What are you doing?

“When we fall into the trap of postponing pleasure until we’ve produced what we believe we need to in order to be worthy and enough OR postponing pleasure until we’ve pushed, deprived or restricted ourselves (including our bodies) enough to feel that we deserve to relax and enjoy ourselves and our lives for a change, then it takes getting to the point of feeling totally run down, burnt out, depleted and drained to completely empty to remind us that we are meant for so much more than we are allowing ourselves to experience and to wake us up to why we are here in the first place and what our purpose truly is….which is to know joy, to feel good, and to experience the full range of pleasure on all levels.” Salona Carlise

gift of autumn flowers

Without the fuel or feeling of pleasure, you will not be able to fulfill your purpose.


The Team,


The London Flower Lover

p.s. Perhaps do this exercise for the autumn equinox. Count all the desires you have had fulfilled and give thanks for them, however small. Notice how good it feels to be so full. Celebrate!


About Thelondonflowerlover

Welcome to The London Flower Lover. We are florists who create floral collections to tell your real life story. With colour and texture, we take floristry into an entirely new direction based on the challenges and joys of your life. Offering what we call 'heart based floristry' we use style, fashion, and life situations and merge them with heart based lifestyle support. This inspiring blend creates so much more for those who love flowers. Using flowers in the traditional way of course, but always using flowers to open up a floralicious conversation about relationships of all kinds. We are a sort of work in progress of compassionately confirming how we are already on the inside, the love we want to see out in the world. That is mission of The London Flower Lover. So saying yes to recognising that is at the heart of this blog and using flowers to honour that inner world is how we use the beauty of giving and receiving flowers. This blog is your blog. It's as much about cultivating your heart, as it is about enjoying the physical beauty of flowers. It offers story, poems and video to reflect the life you actually live whilst showing beautifully inspiring collections of flower designs. Hand-tied bouquets, arrangements and more. All this with sought after tips from well established experts on how to keep a happy heart. This is what makes The London Flower Lover unique and magical. Yes, and that's how we make the difference that we do. When life looks, feels, or sounds challenging, we offer a sanctuary that you may dip into. A well of refreshment and strength that you may draw from. Sharing what others have found to be successful ways of being happy in the face of challenges, whilst letting flowers do the talking when we have no other way to interpret what is going on. Use flowers to help you re-discover, reveal and remember how you can still be despite challenges. Use flowers to celebrate and to embody the possibility of your heart felt desire, fulfilled. Use flowers in your life, to remind you of the beauty of your life. Use The London Flower Lover today. We invite you to stay curious in this floral universe as you explore the love in the heart. This is a floralicious world.
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