We have noticed that we have not posted for what seems an age. We have been back out into the wider community and like many of you adjusting.
So we decided to revisit our roots and went through all our throwback pictures. Yes there are loads.
We rediscovered our theme.
Discover how to nurture yourself through flowers, gifts and more.
We can see that we have been on a journey with you to guide you with tips to build your self love confidence. Bringing to you the best of the floral and feminine world into one place. It was always and continues to be about helping you to go beyond your daily frustrations, pains, irrirations and roadblocks stemming from lies someone or you may have told yourself about love and in fact self love. We keep going back to the root. It starts with you.
So that is our reminder to you today as it is for us.
Sometimes it feels awkward, sometime liberating, what ever, we are here to provide you with a plan, simple steps to retrieve your real identity and to always use flowers as a continual internal and external reminder of your true essence. Yes, its beautiful like that flower you most adore.
This is not a place for everyone, we get it, we do love you and are glad you are part of our wider community. perhaps its a place for those who are looking for a softer, more sensitive space to discover and rediscover who they are.
We invite you always to come back and to enjoy your personal liberation as we encourage you to bring more flowers into your life.
Autumn Equinox 2021 in Northern Hemisphere will be at 20:20 (UK) on Wednesday, 22 September. And it’s a time for being grateful for all the achievements, accomplishments and successes from the previous year. It’s essentially a time of harvest. A time of joy.
Yet despite all the time that some people had in the pandemic, some of us had it real rough this year. Death, loss of jobs, loss of home and so much more. Because of that you may have neglected your Self care routine. You may have not made the time for it and got caught up with other things and therefore overlooked your need for care and nurturing of your own dreams .
You may be having a hard time, or you may not. Where ever you are on that continuum of personal accomplishment, Autumn is a time to go inwards and count your blessings. Now is the time to take stock and find ways to adjust your approach to yourself. To do so gently, gently gently.
We get it at the London Flower Lover, we understand about the struggle, stress and the frustrations that some people are going through right now and we have helped many people to find a way to empower themselves by learning more about going inwards , using their real nature to guide them and to indeed to guide them to blossom.
Autumn we find is a perfect time to raise your vibration. Flowers are a perfect way to remind yourself of higher vibration.
Yes and we mean this for r anyone who is struggling, or frustrated with life, especially if you are returning to the office, or you have children who need you, or looking after elderly parents, you may like to restore yourself through some routine of self care and self love. Now is a time to raise your vibration.
We do this with a three step plan in mind.
1 Identify what your vision of success looks like for the coming next three months
2 Review your current ways of self care, and look at what you can possible change in the next 15 minutes. That is all. Really.
We are not asking you to go heavy with yourself at all. In at this time of year the plan is all about relaxing allowing yourself to relax
3 Add flowers to your surroundings. Select flowers that reflect your dreams and vision. Place them in places in your home where you will always see them. Always be reminded of your dream. Let it settle into your inner world.
We all can’t do this you might say!
And yes, we get it, not everyone can get real flowers. You may find that if you don’t have the funds for fresh flowers. We invite you to use faux flowers or other symbols of flowers, in the form of a note book, planner with flowers on the cover, or floral print. Use flower essences, use floral perfume, anything that makes you dreamy , gentle and relaxed.
The premise of our Autumn Self Care plan for you is to relax, relax, relax. Autumn is a beautiful moment of letting go of that which is not of service and of planting dreams and visions.
Think about it, so much is now being harvested. The forest floor is currently littered with conkers and acorns. The future generation.
And it is in these darker months where we dream, meditate and vision. Allow these dreams to germinate in you without a pressure of action. Remember that the acorn has all it needs to survive the winter and will start to grow with the warmth of the spring. That’s you to.
Select flowers that reflect your highest vibration. Give yourself permission to slow down. Go within your dreams and vision to discover them and when you return from that dream quest, bring with you the flower that expresses it the most. The vision of a life you most desire!
A stressed out woman who has to lead her family, her children, and herself has no time to relax, get calm and ‘smell the roses. She finds herself increasingly unbalanced either blaming others or herself. Making them the villain or herself. An essentially disempowering herself.
A man who has been looking after a brother who does not pay rent, suddenly becomes ill and cannot cover the bills anymore. The brother gets very angry and wants to get into a fight with him. What could be the antidote?
Reginald Martin puts it well he says that ” the world outside of you is a reflection of your inner beliefs and emotions. Don’t hope and wait for the storm to subside so that you may find peace. Find peace and the storm will become quiet.”
This is in fact a process of self care and self love which is in fact teaching us to move away from the limited thinking.
Self care is also about releasing the limited thinking. Giving self opportunities to grow. Opposition is not a punishment. Its opportunities to master and balance natural laws. This approach to using flowers is about gaining wisdom within our hearts. Information that stays in our hearts from life experiences becomes wisdom. That beautiful inner contemplation of information becomes wisdom.
The way we see it is this. In both the above situations there is a ‘wanting to follow rules’, of obligation. We would suggest that is really about fear. We ask ourselves is that about how sometimes we feel powerless and want our lives ordered. So we like rules. But rules allow you to not have to take responsibility for your actions. You can say, well, that’s the way it is. When you follow rules that others have set you don’t have to think anymore. What we do here is untethering yourself from the matrix so to speak. You take responsibility for your life and not try to change everyone else. We see that you are the creator of your reality when you understand these concepts. You can recognize that you can make mistakes. They are a gift because they are a learning opportunity, not the end of the world.
You are to be you and not live in someone else’s box.
We would add, remember your inner garden. The beautiful space is your true nature. That is who you actually are, not all this other overlaid stuff.
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Learning to tune up your vibrations will improve your life. Flowers can remind you to keep your energy high, in the space that reflects your desire. Flowers help you to keep you connected to your highest vibration.
We have been thinking about how to share stories with you so you can value not only yourself but flowers too. We came across a principle called .priming the pump which means for us, what you put out, it what you get back. We know that this is based on your vibration. This includes obviously choice of flower, colour, plus the intention behind that choice. We think the principle expresses why we are here to guide you. We know that this principle is expressed in many different ways. “For example, do unto others, as you would have them do unto you.”
We know as our clients choose flowers that they want the best for others and themselves so we are here to help them with whatever their desire in life is. We want to help them choose flowers and we say let that start with you first. So ,you must first give those lovely flowers to yourself first to get it the good vibe back. Another way of saying it is that you give a little first so the universe knows what to send you. That’s priming the pump.
We are using the old well water pump as an analogy to understand the universal law. With the old pumps, you would have to pour a little water into the suction valve in order for the pump to bring you the underground water. You gave a little in the suction valve in order to bring up more.
Let’s bring this to real life. If you want more good vibes in your life, love, peace, money, you need to give a little with gratitude. Its like when we tell people, when they buy something from say us, or another business, that will help that business’s family. So if you want more love in your life, give love to others. You want a promotion on a job, give your talents by learning the job you want to be promoted for and doing it before you get promoted. If want to feel sunshine, flowers and more, give what you desire.
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