Vulva owners your pleasure matters, make a commitment to your pleasure and give yourself flowers

Beloved Flower Lover,

We invite you to turn away from the chaos in the world and turn  inwardly to your own pleasure. To a place which is dedicated to your creativity.

What’s your understanding about how to look after an take care of yourself? How do you understand the value of your self care?

Are we holding ourselves back from pleasure. Have we internalize beliefs that hold you back? Lets not blow this out of proportion. This is a serious topic. Let’s bring it back to basics. Since we don’t know whether to turn left or right.

Pleasure the london flower lover

Did you know that our sexual pleasure starts in our own brain is so powerful. But  if you tell yourself  negative  stuff,  then you will break your arousal. If you hold negative feelings of guilt, shame, resentment you switch off your own power.

Let’s get back to basics. You will need to  break the cycle so you can release your creativity. Creativity is not simply arts and crafts. Its your ability to solve problems to your own life. Your sexual pleasure is your own gift.  Appreciate your gift. You deserve pleasure.

This matters to mothers, as well as women without children. This matters so much for care givers. The woman who is doing it all. Caring for everyone needs the most.

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Explore your threshold for pleasure.

Sexual arousal starts in the brain, and sometimes it shrinks if you are not stimulating it. how do you think about yourself. Where you are when it comes to your pleasure expression? Count it, count it, count  how long it takes you to hold an amazing image of yourself enjoying inner pleasures. Please do not be afraid to try different ways.

Think about doing this pleasure threshold without a partner. Your partner is not responsible for your orgasm you are.

So start with giving yourself flowers as a way to tell yourself how much you appreciate yourself. The good thing about pleasure. Is that it comes back around.

The Team,

The London Flower Lover

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Flowers & Lifestyle: Was 2020 a dream or nightmare? Choose a flower to choose to reflect

Flowers and lifestyle is a way of thinking about your life where you use flowers to help yourself and others in our everyday lives. For an example, flowers are an important way to remind someone that we care and also can be used to encourage ourselves and others. Giving and sending flowers releases Oxytocin, the bonding hormone. Giving and receiving flowers can also release dopamine as the flower feels like a reward.

Self care comes in many forms, yet it has one focus,to build your self esteem and help you to reorganise your idea about yourself so you experience more positive possibilities. Selfcare is important to maintain a healthy relationship with yourself as it produces positive feelings and boosts your confidence and self-esteem. It can also lead to all sorts of health problems, from anxiety and depression to insomnia and heart diseases. Everyone has their preference for self care. Ours is of course involves the use of flowers.

We invite you to choose beauty. Natural beauty has been shown by research to help reduce stress. Now this year has had some major stress. Some even considered it to be a nightmare year.

A great teacher we know recently reminded us that,


A nightmare/bad dream is usually a message that you truly need to understand. You have ignored the information consciously and intuitively. So the soul will send you the message in different forms. First it might be a normal waking experience.

Then the message might be sent through a sexual experience (higher energy more pleasure). If the doesn’t work they send a dream to scare the shit out of you and then you ask, what was that about?

As soon as you ask the question you become an observer. You may not understand the dream consciously, but then your intuition will kick in and you will get it at a subconscious level. Mission accomplished, from the perspective of the soul, no more nightmare.
Believe it or not, your dream experience is the same as if you died. In other words, if you have ever wondered what death is like, simply pay attention to your dream EXPERIENCE.

If the lesson you incarnated to learn was a major one, say like appreciating your individuality and self-love, then you will incarnate into a new life with the same lesson to learn but most likely a different twist on how the lesson is taught, so to speak. So you get the opportunity to learn the lesson over and over. You will not lose an opportunity.

R Martin
Did we get the message from 2020?

Think about what sort of beauty to fill your home with. What flower really makes you feel better. Close your eyes and choose. This can open up an inner portal back to feeling more relaxed and calmer in life. A doorway back to heaven.

The Team,

The London Flower Lover

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Can flowers help men to go beyond hyper masculinisation? does it even matter

Beloved Flower Lover,

We are all products of our environment and we conform to those influences as we grow throughout our lives. Some of us wake up and can see through the fog of other’s defining our destiny. Once we reprogram ourselves with true knowledge about ourselves we live life free from oppressive external forces. Yes, I agree that hyper masculinity has robbed (some) men of mental and emotional health and support for their fellow men. When people lack knowledge, their primary survival mechanism is to adapt to expectations, be they positive or negative. This state of mind is where most people live. A place between programmed beings and free thinking beings. This place is where we live, move, and act accordingly. Until we know better.

J.Martin

This quote triggered us to think about the power of the mind. Not in terms of magical thinking but the power of the mind to shape our experiences.

First we wanted to start with the acknowledgement that if we do not consider our thoughts then we bring our history, our conditions and all the associations that go along with that into our present. That many mean struggle with expressing themselves.

We have been thinking about how to talk with men about how to allow an idea to use us. What do we mean by that. We have noticed that most us attempt to use ideas and if our minds are not that accepting of it then find that we are impeded with doubt, stagnation and procrastination.

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We invite men to choose flowers as a way to welcome a new conversation with themselves.

We welcome men to take the time for a pause and care to care for themselves. To select a flower that resonates with them and open up a new story for themselves.

The Team,

The London Flower Lover

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The light of the world comes forward as of the Flower Woman

Beloved Flower Lover,

She closed her eyes, went inwards, gathered something, we could tell she smiled, then slowly opened up and turned to us, and the glory of her eyes fell about like an effulgence.

She had shown us how to shine in our own effulgence, and borrowed no light from anyone else. Our mutual radiant effulgence of light all around us, clarifying, growing was evident to all.

The Team,

The London Flower Lover

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Creating your own floral placebo

Beloved Flower Lover,

We can literally enter into parts of our lives, our bodies through our imagination and heal things.   You can create your own floral symbols for what the unhealthy life, or body part may look like and what a healthy life or body part may look like.   You can create a floral symbol for the pain and a specific flower that dies as it takes away the pain. Do what comes natural for you.
Think of it like you are listening to music and the song can carry you away to where you are conscious and awake but not focused on what you are doing. Yes, when you are just flowing, enjoying yourself, where you might be lost in thought. Those times are when you are in a different state of consciousness.

In those states, you can mentally and visually enter into areas of your life, or your body and heal itself in some way using floral tools that you prefer. The icing on the cake maybe  is you  being given a gift of flowers once the healing is done.  


You have agency. You decide.  

The Team,

The London Flower Lover
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