Flowers as a ‘feminine prayer’ tool-let’s overhaul your approach to the beautiful art of prayer…

Beloved Flower Lover,

Have you thought about prayer and that flowers express the abundance of life and that is in fact a prayer. This is not left field. Bear with us. We want to bring an idea to you.

Think about this you are always praying. You are always ‘priming the pump’ with something for something.

Flower to express gratitude for the abundance of life.

You life is the reflection of that. Part of updating your mind to overhaul your approach to the subconscious programming conscious.

That’s why tuning into your emotions is so effective for bringing your subconscious beliefs to the surface and into the light. Why? Because your emotions ALWAYS follow your beliefs about events, people, and situations in your life.

When you are feeling obligation and sacrifice it is rooted in the vibration of fear which is the opposite of your soul’s purpose for you in this life. Fear can bring more clarity by defining for you what you don’t want. But living in fear will not give you direction nor allow you to follow your soul’s purpose for you

You may not consciously know why your mood shifted at first. But, it shifted. When it does you can begin to trace back what you thought about something or was thinking. 

Then you can begin to put yourself in observer mode. Some of you may not have gotten to that lesson yet so I won’t spoil it.

Give an offering or prime the pump with gratitude for your desire. Do so with the perspective that you are ALREADY enjoying or experiencing your desire. Seeing AND feeling it in advance will set up the environment for your desire. 

Do this with flowers!

The Team,

The London Flower Lover

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When I desire to start anew I remember flowers

Beloved Flower Lover

The Team,

The London Flower Lover

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You find yourself in a ‘cost of living crisis conversation’ and then you decide to buy flowers. Which feeling are you feeding? We would love to know…

Beloved Flower lover,

As you know this blog is about transformation and how we experience and understand it. Flowers are often used as the proxy to explain and experience said transformation.

So we came across a familiar quote about which wolf are you feeding and borrowed the idea to think about flowers.

Let us share the story with you:

One evening an elder Cherokee told his grandson about a battle that goes on inside all people. He said: “My son, the battle is between two wolves inside us. One is Fear. It carries anxiety, concern, uncertainty, hesitancy, indecision and inaction. The other is Faith. It brings calm, conviction, confidence, enthusiasm, decisiveness, excitement and action.” The grandson thought about it for a moment and then meekly asked his grandfather: “Which wolf wins?” The old Cherokee replied, “The one you feed.”

A client of ours, told us about how she would perceive debt before thinking about using flowers in her life. It was huge and a monster. It had power, she did not. It told her what to do, and she could just follow. She had no idea of possibility. It was breathing on her neck, and was strict and stern. She described how she would tiptoe and feel sick in her tummy. She would imagine that she weren’t there and would never look at her bills because it might come out and really tell her off. She would not dare to look at money.

Economists say money is money; two plus two equals four. Financial decisions are mathematics.

Here we disagree. Money is emotional and we often go for happiness / survival / convenience instead of numbers.

Sometimes it leads to paid-off mortgages and gifts like flowers.

At other times, it leads to debt and being told off for ‘wasting’ money you did not have.

Our client felt ashamed of her debt. This is very common we found in our buyers. Yet we never focused on her shame in our conversation.

Here’s why:

– When you analyse your problems, you only become an expert on your problems

– When you focus on the past, you neglect the present and the future

– When you’re interested in either of the above, you want psychoanalysis, not coaching.

What did we do instead?

Got quiet and gentle.

We step away from force by using practical principles, like you are already whole and other principles of wholeness( See Connie Andreas wholeness principles) Only after establishing a mindset, a set or presuppositions to work from did we begin to look ask her to closely at and started reshaping spending behaviours, set financial goals, come up with a Debt Repayment Action Plan, explored ways to make more money

Our client told us she felt that she had finally turned around and took a good look at the monster right behind her.

No hesitation. No shame. No fear.

Just knowing that she was OK. 

She started feeding the right wolf.

Wishing you the same. We wish that you can chose the flowers that reflect who you really are!

The Team,

The London Flower Lover

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30 days of joy, money and flowers- there is more of that, from where that came from

Beloved Flower Lover,

Rishi Sunak has just been elected to be the Prime Minster and right now in London, we keep hearing about the cost of living crisis. Hearing people talk about food shortages, energy blackouts and even suicide. Can we bring the loving vibe to our current situation? That was the question here in London.

We are aware of genuine systemic injustice and not seeking to make light of them, we said that we choose to expand our vision of what is possible for us all. We love sharing ideas of what is possible and collaborating and that is what this blog does.

We turn to natural principles.

Nature teaches us about sowing and growing into life and choosing what we believe in as it affects what we notice in life. Anyone who is regular here knows that we are consistently listening to others who have overcome these challenges, either personally or as a group.

Financially free when you feel too old is the focus of Marta’s coaching. She provides guidance to ensure that your attention is focused on possibility. Then investor Arian Simone talks about how to create an abundance mind-set in challenging times and we here at The London Flower Lover focus on reminding you that flowers can remind you that your personal development starts with energy of welcoming your beauty and joy now.

We recognise you and we gift you another flower today.

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Day 2: You can be at rock bottom and you can still start today to change your situation. Jeanette Haviland’s research confirms that flowers makes you happy- we invite you to add it into your life to help build meaning into your life.

Beloved Flower Lover,

In London right now, we have lost a Queen, gained a King, lost a Prime Minster, gained a Prime Minster who lasted for a few weeks, and now we have another Prime Minster,Rishi Sunak.

While all of that was going on, many people are struggling financially with the fall out from the previous Chancellor’s mini budget. Mortgages going up, rents going up, real hard conversations about monies are going on.

We know that the idea of flowers at this time is ‘pure luxury’ for many at this time. It was before today, and it is even more so now. Yet we cannot help to notice that people give flowers to people that they love to as a way to exchange the energy of love.

The presence of flowers gives you a greater life satisfaction, triggers your happy emotions and increases your feelings of life satisfaction and has a real positive effect on social behaviour too and all to a greater extent that has previously been considered.

“What’s most exciting about this study is that it challenges established scientific beliefs about how people can manage their day-to-day moods in a healthy and natural way,” said Jeannette Haviland-Jones, Ph.D., Professor of Psychology at Rutgers and lead researcher of a study on the subject.

The results of a ten-month study show that flowers are a natural and healthy moderator of moods. A team of researchers concluded that flowers have an immediate impact on happiness. All study participants expressed “true” or “excited” smiles upon receiving flowers, demonstrating extraordinary delight and gratitude. This reaction was universal across every demographic groups.

Flowers truly are extraordinary having a long-term positive effect on moods. Specifically, study participants reported feeling less depressed, anxious and agitated after receiving flowers, and demonstrated a higher sense of enjoyment and life satisfaction.

“Common sense tells us that flowers make us happy,” said Dr. Haviland-Jones. “Now, science shows that not only do flowers make us happier than we know, they have strong positive effects on our emotional well-being.

The team,

The London Flower Lover

Next step-Use the sheet below and list out what makes you happy.

Make your gratitude list here

Knowing that the energy of flowers is a current of energy, we thought that you may benefit from expanding a vision of that love energy by making a list of people and things you are grateful for. Please list situations, people, things, and anything else you grateful for next to each flower.

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