Allow yourself to play and be daft-its ok to have the imagination to use flowers

Beloved Flower Lover,

Adults are taught to work, children to play.

Adults need to be careful not to dull children with too much work. Children can help adults to play.





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Healing with Flowers is the New Black


Beloved Flower Lover,

Iyanla Vanzant has a show called fix my life and has a sobering episode healing female felons. She says,

“if a mother stays lost , that her children have nothing to follow”, and until they know how to feel free themselves, that they will continue to do the say. Iyanla decides to interpret that pattern.

Ms. Iyanla talks about how their personal dreams became too far or too big. She talks about how they went to jail because they had no identity and she definitely pushed them out of their comfort zone with the many truths she shared with them.

She asked them

” how old where you when you gave up on yourself?

and as the answers came along with tears she said,

” you can feel bad and recover”

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Healing is the New Black and we were inspired to offer flowers to these ladies, who must now learn that they were imprisoned before they got locked up. that they must change the distorted narrative otherwise they will remain inside a prison, broken within their hearts.

After we share this video, please come back and think about how you can give flowers to yourself, to that part of you that needs to be freed. Give it to yourself first before someone else.

Is there a young child within you that needs healing?

After watching this video please think what you can do for your inner child and really begin to talk with her so you can heal.

Change the story-change the narrative.

Thank you Lyanla

So maybe its time to think about what next?

We found the work of Doris E Cohen who talks about how you can heal your inner child to free your inner story, that story that may be imprisoning yourself now.

How you can change the story about knowing who you are.

  1. Think of a number between 1-10.
  2. Then see him or her of that age in your inner mind
  3. then go to her in your inner mind and comfort him or her….
  4. after you that , tell your inner child that you will never abandon her or him and tell the child that you will return
  5. Cohen says you must do that for 40 days.


Until you close your eyes and go into your heart, you will not know how to free yourself” Vanzant.


Take a long  breathe outward,know that there are other options and that their is help for you to achieve your dreams.


The Team,

The London Flower Lover

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Enact the inner invisible process of thanks with flowers this Autumn

Beloved Flower Lover,

The heart of Autumnal thanksgiving is internal and is usually invisible and unnoticed by everyone else.

It starts with your internal confirmation that you are thankful and then you find external affirmations for that.

Give thanks for  the obvious delights that have fruited in your life. Equally significant is how you  give thanks for the challenges- and how they have come to grow you and how they have produced fruits in your life.

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By enacting the inner thanks process with a physical ritual like giving and receiving flowers, we can both recognize and make concrete our inner process that is part of our reality as a person.

September 22 this year is our Autumn equinox, the time to acknowledge your life cycle. In doing so, you are honoring, not only your own growth and light within, but the ancient wisdom that has served our health and wellness for thousands of years.Take the 15 minutes before and 15 minutes after the precise moment of the equinox to sit quietly on the ground in thoughtfulness and give thanks for the abundance of the source of all.

We invite you to give and receive flowers.

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The Team,


The London Flower Lover

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Autumn Equinox on its way-choose flowers to renew and reinvent your life by giving thanks for your amazing year-challenges included!

Beloved Flower Lover,

We all found ourselves smiling about our amazing year and listing out the many things that delighted us during 2018 (including the challenges).  Then we noticed that the Autumn equinox is on its way. So we gently became aware that we are in the actual physical process of renewal through the active process of giving thanks for the fruits of this year.

The autumn equinox arrives at 9:54 PM on Saturday, September 22, 2018, officially marking the beginning of fall in the Northern Hemisphere and the start of spring in the Southern Hemisphere.

The word “equinox” comes from Latin and means “equal night,” referring to the roughly 12-hour day and 12-hour night that occurs only on the two equinox days of the year.

We know for sure that the Autumn Equinox is a meaningful time of year to honor the harvest. Whether that be a “real” harvest of the things planted in your garden or the harvest of efforts and intentions for your life path that you set earlier in the year.

We invite you to make a list of all the things that you are thankful for. The obvious delights and also the challenges that became an invitation to rebuild and renew yourself.

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The Team,


The London Flower Lover

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Clear clutter and put things right with yourself and others using flowers and your clear intention

Beloved Flower Lover,

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The London Flower Lover

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