Power, Money, flowers the intimate conversation begins

Beloved Flower Lover,

TheLondonFlowerLover The conversation, how can i love you more

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Bless someone today with your love, thoughts and flowers!

Beloved Flower Lover,

One of the fastest ways to feel better is to “bless” another  being.

 By “bless” someone we mean to simply thank them deeply for existing, whether they have hurt you or helped you.

 It all takes place in your mind, a word never has to be uttered out-loud.

 Why not practice blessing a five people right now and notice how instantly you feel lighter and filled with gratitude?


blessed fl0wers

The Team,


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Just a glimpse of home life with flowers

Beloved Flower Lover,

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What do you do?


The Team,

The London Flower Lover

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Hiya, how you doing with the heart based flower experiment?

Beloved Flower Lover,

London is looking glorious.

Autumn is stunning. It’s still quite warm and the nights are getting darker earlier. We are wrapping up in slightly warmer clothes a little more and stewing and brewing in our juices!

Our hearts are singing in harmony, despite the challenges of the time and because of all of that we decided to put things in order in our environment.

Simply by looking around us, looking back and checking in with you. We knew it was time to see how easy it has been for you to practice the heart based flower experiment and experience that we talked about in our post on August 26th. How have you used the power of your own heart?


We have stepped away from the soft and squishy image of the heart today and looked instead at empirical heart research. Two clients reported family members with heart problems and because of that,  they had said that they had had to come to terms with heart health.

Perhaps your heart health depends on how you understand what it is and how it functions. So we looked at how it operates. And looked at our own work around heart based floristry.

According to empirical researchers it is more than a blood pump. It’s an intelligence that has been found to have four functions.

The functions are as follows and in no order of importance. Neurological. The heart has a huge nervous system that sends messages straight to the brain. Those messages change from unorganised to organised when they are focused on feelings like calm, comfort, care, love, happiness and love.

It’s a bio-phsycial organ that manages blood pressure in every cell of the body. It’s a hormonal gland that creates oxytocin, the love and bonding with others hormone.

It’s also an electrical organ, creating and sending electrical signals stronger than the brain. These signals broadcast as far as  3-4 feet around our physical bodies. They transmit the messages of our feelings. They send out the vibration, the energy of those emotions and the attitudes that we have. All of these functions change when we feel overwhelmed, anger, grief, sadness, fear, or worry. They also shift when we choose to feel a calm, comforting oasis of feelings like optimism, wonder, kindness, love, joy, care. They alter when we immerse ourselves in feelings of compassion appreciation and care for ourselves and others.

From what we have noticed from our own experiment its a process. It’s an experience you choose to go to daily. It’s a practice and sometimes opening up to others in this experiment affirms ourselves.

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So, how have you been able to allow the situations which normally upset you to be the cause of feeling love, peace, joy and happiness from your heart? what place have your reached? How have you relaxed and let go of mental tightness?

Maybe just today take a day off from mentally trying. Why not?

Be honest because it matters and means that you are appreciating yourself and are open to enjoying the sweetness of who you are.

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Take a look at those flowers you adore in your own heart,sink into their beauty and relax.

antique rose bouquet count on what counts

The Team

The London Flower Lover

p.s. perhaps you might like to revisit the earlier post  inviting you to enjoy the  heart based experiments:  https://thelondonflowerlover.wordpress.com/2013/08/26/would-you-be-open-to-join-us-in-an-experiment-about-flowers-about-our-hearts-intentions-and-so-much-more-the-invitation-is-there/


The Institute of HeartMath is an internationally recognized nonprofit research and education organization dedicated to helping people reduce stress, self-regulate emotions and build energy and resilience for healthy, happy lives. Personal coherence, also known as psychophysiological coherence, refers to the synchronization of our physical, mental and emotional systems. It can be measured by our heart-rhythm patterns: The more balanced and smooth they are, the more in sync, or coherent, we are.

Personal coherence, also known as psychophysiological coherence, refers to the synchronization of our physical, mental and emotional systems. It can be measured by our heart-rhythm patterns: The more balanced and smooth they are, the more in sync, or coherent, we are.

Global coherence refers to the mental, physical, emotional and spiritual well-being of the greater community of human beings, while acting in concert with their own hearts, each other and nation to nation in harmony with our living planet. HeartMath believes coherence on a grand scale is highly achievable when large numbers of people focus their heart intelligence on a common goal.



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How to let go of being jealous of that person who has got it all and even get’s flowers

Beloved Flower Lover,

Can you think of people who are outrageously happy and deeply at peace who have never set a goal or written an intention in their life? And, yet, life goes their way. Things work out for them.


Yes, No, don’t want to say? Can’t admit? Too numb to  notice?

Question: Want to know their secret?????

peace and joy


It’s their joy,which is contagious and their contentment is palpable, that keeps them open to all their good. Try it  for yourself for 30 days, even  90 days and see what happens.


The Team,


The London Flower Lover

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Flowers at home for Self Honouring

Beloved Flower Lover,

No sacrifice here, purely self honouring going on here!

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The Team,

The London Flower Lover


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The least romantic gifts to give

Dear Flower Lover

please take the test

of course you are safe with flowers!

from the Team

The London Flower Lover

The London Flower Lover

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Flowers and the top 5 regrets of those dying

Beloved Flower Lover,

We had the opportunity to enjoy a very personal funeral last friday, and are still smiling. Our work done, we pondered on a life and came across a story about Bronnie Ware, an Australian nurse who spent several years working in palliative care, caring for patients in the last 12 weeks of their lives. She recorded their dying epiphanies in a blog called Inspiration and Chai, which gathered so much attention that she put her observations into a book called The Top Five Regrets of the Dying.

Ware writes of the phenomenal clarity of vision that people gain at the end of their lives, and how we might learn from their wisdom. “When questioned about any regrets they had or anything they would do differently,” she says, “common themes surfaced again and again.”

Here are the top five regrets of the dying, witnessed by Ware:

1. I wish I’d had the courage to live a life true to myself, not the life others expected of me.

“This was the most common regret of all. When people realise that their life is almost over and look back clearly on it, it is easy to see how many dreams have gone unfulfilled. Most people had not honoured even a half of their dreams and had to die knowing that it was due to choices they had made, or not made. Health brings a freedom very few realise, until they no longer have it.”

2. I wish I hadn’t worked so hard.

“This came from every male patient that I nursed. They missed their children’s youth and their partner’s companionship. Women also spoke of this regret, but as most were from an older generation, many of the female patients had not been breadwinners. All of the men I nursed deeply regretted spending so much of their lives on the treadmill of a work existence.”

3. I wish I’d had the courage to express my feelings.

“Many people suppressed their feelings in order to keep peace with others. As a result, they settled for a mediocre existence and never became who they were truly capable of becoming. Many developed illnesses relating to the bitterness and resentment they carried as a result.”

4. I wish I had stayed in touch with my friends.

“Often they would not truly realise the full benefits of old friends until their dying weeks and it was not always possible to track them down. Many had become so caught up in their own lives that they had let golden friendships slip by over the years. There were many deep regrets about not giving friendships the time and effort that they deserved. Everyone misses their friends when they are dying.”

5. I wish that I had let myself be happier.

“This is a surprisingly common one. Many did not realise until the end that happiness is a choice. They had stayed stuck in old patterns and habits. The so-called ‘comfort’ of familiarity overflowed into their emotions, as well as their physical lives. Fear of change had them pretending to others, and to their selves, that they were content, when deep within, they longed to laugh properly and have silliness in their life again.”

We paused, exhaled deeply felt the rebirth of our smile and smiled even more brightly.

Take from this what you wish, we have.

Love, peace and joy

The Team

The London Flower Lover

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Regena Thomashauer (Mama Gena) reminds us why a woman giving herself a simple pleasure like flowers is a stand for the peace and joy of women and men worldwide

Beloved Flower Lover,

Just got the children back into the school routine, just got selves back into the work schedule. Still  popping over town every other day looking after elder parents and still reminded ourselves that, we as women, flower when we remind ourselves that pleasure, rather than stressing is our guiding force. The autumn is a time of withdrawing deeper into the feminine powers. Sometimes consciously, sometimes not at all.

Still aware of making less than men financially, still aware of the tendency to push hard rather than stepping into the sense of joy and peace as an engine. Still aware of looking at the bottom line at the expense of personally recognising that love, joy and peace can be a way of ‘womaning up’, rather than manning up via ‘work,work, work’ and striving,without pleasure.

Still aware.

We get quietly reminded that we have 8000 nerve endings only dedicated to pleasure. Yes women have that many nerve endings dedicated only to pleasure. That flood the body with a sense of joy, connection and empowerment. That shuts down the cortisol, the stress stuff flowing in the body.

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Then we get a reminder from a woman who has made it her business to pay attention to the valuing of the feminine. Not all weirdo. Just straight talk. Mama Gena, also known as Regena Thomashauer  has just released a very provocatively entitled book. And Marie Forleo interviews  her. Marie considers Regena Thomashauer’s bold and controversial book  as a  wake-up call for any woman ( and friends of women) who wants to reclaim her source of feminine power.

After we watched the video we were reminded not to ignore ourselves.

We know that after putting on our headphones as we listened to this interview we too were reminded that  the ability to cultivate personal pleasure in any way we like ( including using flowers). is a direct antidote to stress because worthy of being named as worthy.

We have time for ourselves. We have time for our own pleasure. We have time.

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The London Flower Lover

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Flowers for her who is so angry that a loving man did not come into her life when she could have had children and now he has appeared. Is this our mission to feel it, to heal it!

Beloved Flower Lover,

I have to forgive self for every choice in my life.

I have to be with this deepest grief.

This darkest space has opened up for healing.

This is not about an abortion, it’s not about that.

It’s not about adoption either.

It’s about just that dark, dark space of anger

being so conscientious

never been a nun either

now being with a wonderfully loving man .

reciprocal love


He said it: want us to have a child

She did not answer out loud

but did inside

I can’t.

Said it. At last.

It’s done!


Flowers seem to be a sort of embracing coach, who can soak up the cleansing tears. Flowers are a reminder of the beauty in all. That this situation is exactly as it should be.  This super power of beauty and peace comes up right about now,so this can be  cleaned up as it should.

Still can’t look him in the eye

Still can’t speak

The radical grief which is infinitely here is wide open to fully embrace self instead.We have been told from the beginning that

‘she would bring a child forward’


the greatest joy for a woman is to have a child


who wants a child at your age!

is that true? really?

This whole subject really needs so much more light.

White flowers Take Neither Gain Nor Loss to heart is Peace The London Flower Lover

I accept divine love.

I accept divine love

I accept divine love.

Putting the pieces back together again, and considering the truism that,

‘Everything here is to serve and comes here to heal ‘.

We get real and today we name it. To Heal it.

Perfect time to love this  darkest womb place

Time to love




The Team,

The London Flower Lover

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