The London Flower Lover
Beloved Flower Lover,
We are seeing more and more men come get flowers from us and then the question arises. How to get the best out of their woman? and versions of that question.
We say, the best “way” is to use a woman’s own responses to life and then keep touching those sweet buttons. Find out how she expresses love, the love of life, an enjoyment of life and then when you are ready keep touching those buttons.
So rather than seeking to create something that is not there, instead seek to call to mind or bring to mind what IS already there. Stimulate it to life, seize hold of it and direct it . Yep, just keep reminding her about the things she loves and she will open up, up, up!
In other words, we say, really listen to her, find out what’s important to her about the things she loves, and then use what is given to us by the other person. Stir up in her mind what is really important to her. Suggest at times the things she is into. It shows you are listening and wow, will she provide more of herself to you.
Remember this, if you are having problems, just keep listening. She is giving you clues all the time. She is showing you the way. She is your guidance system. Just listen to her. She is in fact giving the answers to the’ exam’ all the time. So by just paying attention you open her up, up up.
Once you have a really good idea of what she is into and know how to adequately amplify them when you are talking with her, she will then only relate good feelings to you. Better still she will only want to connect and reconnect to you.
Make it your business to master how to really stimulate her. You do this by getting her to talk about the things she responds well to. No do not talk about the sad stuff, get to her to talk about what she loves and then just notice what she says, like” other men don’t do this” etc, and then and only then can you begin to deepen your own relationship with her in other ways.
Tune in…listen…use our intuition…use your ability to stimulate what she is into in her to life. You may seem to the untrained to be “sensitive” but in fact, you are providing a STRONG lead the entire time.
To balance this strong intent…STRONGLY LEADING…yet being open to her responses. THAT is the secret. Try it out, don’t take our word for it, experiment with all of this, really master it and then come back and tell us how well things work out with your woman.
The Team
The London Flower Lover
p.s order your flowers from us for your dates
About Thelondonflowerlover
Most busy people struggle with knowing how to really give themselves the time they deserve for genuine self caring. They can get so lost in their daily responsibilities that they lose themselves. They can get sick, tired, or just lose their way. We provide self caring and self loving packages that make use of the natural relaxing abilities of tools like flowers, and so much more, all designed to give a reliable, regular, rebalancing booster, to recharge their inner batteries so that they can enjoy life again.
So welcome to this Floralicious universe, where you are the hero. Yes, that's right. We know that you have one clear desire. To be happy. We also know that something is stopping you from getting it. That is where we step in.a
Things get done because you allow them to. We are your guide florists who provide you with answers for that stress. We do this using baby steps, providing you with relaxing and beautiful flowers to help you connect with your wellness. In our baby step plans we combine flowers, with a holistic appreciation of what it takes for you to be free of your challenge. In our opinion you are a hero, not a helpless victim. It is our belief that no one needs to struggle with stress if they are guided properly.
We gently guide those who are stressed at work, at home or anywhere in between. We guide those who have declared that its time to stop dabbling with what they desire. And using those baby steps, we carefully guide those who are ready to experience a transformation.
We would never deny the fact that flowers for your birthday, holidays and special occasions are amazing to send and receive. Those florist that specifically specialise in that line of floristry are fantastic. Yet what we are doing here points you in another direction. It's deeper. It points your attention inwards. To self. To boost yourself up on a REGULAR basis. That's a part of how we guide you through to become free of your stress.
We invite you to see how life is breathing you and how you are part of life's nature. So what you uncover is really you discovering your own awesomeness. You learn how that is natural and not an exception. From that point of view , we are inviting you to let go of dabbling around . This process that aligns you with the truth of your nature,puts asleep those doubts that interfere with your desires.Putting asleep the elephant in the room and inviting you to discover your own process of moving from feeling stressed to calm, from feeling uncertainty to being confident, from feeling lonely to being in gratitude for the connections with others.
We recognise what you want. We know. We have been there ourselves. We know how it feels and that all you need is a guide, to give you a plan to help you win the day. So we invite you to take the next baby step. If we don't call you to take action, then we are not helping you and life will only stay the same. It will reflect an unexplored set of feelings about your self that could harm your future. Lets put those to sleep and be focused on what is awake within you. We invite you to go forward and take the first tinniest baby step now.
THE FLORALICIOUS PLAN
Step 1
Sign up to The London Flower Lover blog. Open up your Floralicious conversation about relaxation, perception and flowers of all kinds.
Step 2
Sign up for the empowerment plan that will work for you. At this stage are really ready to commit to your self caring. So choose your plan carefully.
Each plan makes you available to the mechanics of your personal wholeness because you allow yourself to. No one is forcing you. Each plan gives you a reliable schedule of activity to bring your attention back to yourself. These plans use a mixture of techniques to awaken you . Repeatedly offered through story, gratitude journaling and more as you reflect the life you desire to breathe life into. By using flowers, you experience the boost of beautifully inspiring collections of flower designs. All you need to do is to align with that feeling. This is what makes this package a personal attunement to your natural aliveness and abundance!
Step 3
You are now ready to use very specific flowers and self gifting to help you express yourself. You are ready to give yourself a licence to express yourself like never before. No longer intimidated by stress, you use flowers and self gifting to express the life that is breathing you. Your awesomeness is re-discovered, revealed and remembered.
We invite you into your own Floralicious universe as you unwind, relax and enjoy happiness beyond stress.
The London Flower Lover 
This is such a truthful article. My opinion to learn best how to keep touching those sweet buttons, purchase the book “The Five Love Languages” and fill your spouse or significant others love tanks to the brim. Surprise her with a new bouquet every week. hey do not have to cost much, but the thought, sweet fragrance &/or delightful beauty will surely bring a smile to her face and inspire her to reciprocate in ways you will appreciate. Lavender works best for women who work and are exhausted at the end of the day, need to unwind and chill. Place a few Lavender sprigs next to her side of the bed on a night stand or place several bunches in a baggie, poke several holes in the baggie and place under the seat of her car to help her de-stress on the way home.
Just some ideas that have worked for me and friends alike. 🙂
So lovely, thank you so much
This morning, feeling a bit down, reading this has uplifted me, I am going to avoid being argumentative, and confrtonational and accept the situation….thansk for remeinding me that …..I love all your blogs….geninue good reads
I wish he would, was my complaint, but you know….take a chill pill I say now…and go get some lovely flowers for myself….thanks
beautiful i hope many men are reading this and take note.. 😛
So many men are wonderful, we credit them, because we meet them all the time. Thank you
So many men and women are in amazing transitions and flowers kinda remind them of a very special place…..broken things can be fixed, and beauty just flips that switch into love…nice