How to master your woman?

The London Flower Lover

The London Flower Lover

Beloved Flower Lover,

We are seeing more and more men come get flowers from us and then the question arises. How to get the best out of their woman? and versions of that question.

We say, the best “way” is to use a woman’s own responses to life and then keep touching those sweet buttons. Find out how she expresses love, the love of life, an enjoyment of life and then when you are ready keep touching those buttons.

So rather than seeking to create something that is not there, instead seek to call to mind or bring to mind  what IS already there. Stimulate it to life, seize hold of it and direct it . Yep, just keep reminding her about the things she loves and she will open up, up, up!

In other words, we say,  really listen to her, find out what’s important to her about the things she loves, and then use what is given to us by the other person. Stir up in her mind what is really important to her. Suggest at times the things she is into. It shows you are listening and wow, will she provide more of herself to you.

Remember this, if you are having problems, just keep listening. She is giving you clues all the time. She is showing you the way. She is your guidance system. Just listen to her. She is in fact giving the answers to the’ exam’ all the time. So by just paying attention you open her up, up up.

Once you have a really good idea of what she is into and know how to adequately amplify them when you are talking with her, she will then only relate good feelings to you. Better still she will  only want to connect and reconnect to you.

Make it your business to master how to really stimulate  her. You do this by getting her to talk about the things she responds well  to. No do not talk about  the sad stuff, get to her to talk about what she loves and then just notice what she says, like” other men don’t do this” etc, and then and only then can you begin to deepen your own relationship with her in other  ways.

Tune in…listen…use our intuition…use your ability to stimulate what she is into in her to life. You may seem to the untrained to be “sensitive” but in fact, you are providing a STRONG lead the entire time.

To balance this strong intent…STRONGLY LEADING…yet being open to her responses. THAT is the secret. Try it out, don’t take our word for it, experiment with all of this, really master it and then come back and  tell us how well things work out with your woman.

The Team

The London Flower Lover

p.s order your flowers from us for your dates


About Thelondonflowerlover

Welcome to The London Flower Lover. We are florists who create floral collections to tell your real life story. With colour and texture, we take floristry into an entirely new direction based on the challenges and joys of your life. Offering what we call 'heart based floristry' we use style, fashion, and life situations and merge them with heart based lifestyle support. This inspiring blend creates so much more for those who love flowers. Using flowers in the traditional way of course, but always using flowers to open up a floralicious conversation about relationships of all kinds. We are a sort of work in progress of compassionately confirming how we are already on the inside, the love we want to see out in the world. That is mission of The London Flower Lover. So saying yes to recognising that is at the heart of this blog and using flowers to honour that inner world is how we use the beauty of giving and receiving flowers. This blog is your blog. It's as much about cultivating your heart, as it is about enjoying the physical beauty of flowers. It offers story, poems and video to reflect the life you actually live whilst showing beautifully inspiring collections of flower designs. Hand-tied bouquets, arrangements and more. All this with sought after tips from well established experts on how to keep a happy heart. This is what makes The London Flower Lover unique and magical. Yes, and that's how we make the difference that we do. When life looks, feels, or sounds challenging, we offer a sanctuary that you may dip into. A well of refreshment and strength that you may draw from. Sharing what others have found to be successful ways of being happy in the face of challenges, whilst letting flowers do the talking when we have no other way to interpret what is going on. Use flowers to help you re-discover, reveal and remember how you can still be despite challenges. Use flowers to celebrate and to embody the possibility of your heart felt desire, fulfilled. Use flowers in your life, to remind you of the beauty of your life. Use The London Flower Lover today. We invite you to stay curious in this floral universe as you explore the love in the heart. This is a floralicious world.
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7 Responses to How to master your woman?

  1. created2bless says:

    This is such a truthful article. My opinion to learn best how to keep touching those sweet buttons, purchase the book “The Five Love Languages” and fill your spouse or significant others love tanks to the brim. Surprise her with a new bouquet every week. hey do not have to cost much, but the thought, sweet fragrance &/or delightful beauty will surely bring a smile to her face and inspire her to reciprocate in ways you will appreciate. Lavender works best for women who work and are exhausted at the end of the day, need to unwind and chill. Place a few Lavender sprigs next to her side of the bed on a night stand or place several bunches in a baggie, poke several holes in the baggie and place under the seat of her car to help her de-stress on the way home.
    Just some ideas that have worked for me and friends alike. 🙂


  2. beautiful i hope many men are reading this and take note.. 😛


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