Beloved Flower Lover,
We are seeing more and more men come get flowers from us and then the question arises. How to get the best out of their woman? and versions of that question.
We say, the best “way” is to use a woman’s own responses to life and then keep touching those sweet buttons. Find out how she expresses love, the love of life, an enjoyment of life and then when you are ready keep touching those buttons.
So rather than seeking to create something that is not there, instead seek to call to mind or bring to mind what IS already there. Stimulate it to life, seize hold of it and direct it . Yep, just keep reminding her about the things she loves and she will open up, up, up!
In other words, we say, really listen to her, find out what’s important to her about the things she loves, and then use what is given to us by the other person. Stir up in her mind what is really important to her. Suggest at times the things she is into. It shows you are listening and wow, will she provide more of herself to you.
Remember this, if you are having problems, just keep listening. She is giving you clues all the time. She is showing you the way. She is your guidance system. Just listen to her. She is in fact giving the answers to the’ exam’ all the time. So by just paying attention you open her up, up up.
Once you have a really good idea of what she is into and know how to adequately amplify them when you are talking with her, she will then only relate good feelings to you. Better still she will only want to connect and reconnect to you.
Make it your business to master how to really stimulate her. You do this by getting her to talk about the things she responds well to. No do not talk about the sad stuff, get to her to talk about what she loves and then just notice what she says, like” other men don’t do this” etc, and then and only then can you begin to deepen your own relationship with her in other ways.
Tune in…listen…use our intuition…use your ability to stimulate what she is into in her to life. You may seem to the untrained to be “sensitive” but in fact, you are providing a STRONG lead the entire time.
To balance this strong intent…STRONGLY LEADING…yet being open to her responses. THAT is the secret. Try it out, don’t take our word for it, experiment with all of this, really master it and then come back and tell us how well things work out with your woman.
The London Flower Lover
p.s order your flowers from us for your dates