ACIM Lesson 75 and flowers

Beloved Flower Lover,

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Its not coming, its already here!


The light has come.

The light has come. You are healed and you can heal. The light has come. You are saved and you can save. You are at peace, and you bring peace with you wherever you go. Darkness and turmoil and death have disappeared. The light has come.

Today we celebrate the happy ending to your long dream of disaster. There are no dark dreams now. The light has come. Today the time of light begins for you and everyone. It is a new era, in which a new world is born. The old one has left no trace upon it in its passing. Today we see a different world, because the light has come.

Our exercises for today will be happy ones, in which we offer thanks for the passing of the old and the beginning of the new. No shadows from the past remain to darken our sight and hide the world forgiveness offers us. Today we will accept the new world as what we want to see. We will be given what we desire. We will to see the light; the light has come.

Our longer practice periods will be devoted to looking at the world that our forgiveness shows us. This is what we want to see, and only this. Our single purpose makes our goal inevitable. Today the real world rises before us in gladness, to be seen at last. Sight is given us, now that the light has come.

We do not want to see the ego’s shadow on the world today. We see the light, and in it we see Heaven’s reflection lie across the world. Begin the longer practice periods by telling yourself the glad tidings of your release:

The light has come. I have forgiven the world.

Dwell not upon the past today. Keep a completely open mind, washed of all past ideas and clean of every concept you have made. You have forgiven the world today. You can look upon it now as if you never saw it before. You do not know yet what it looks like. You merely wait to have it shown to you. While you wait, repeat several times, slowly and in complete patience:

The light has come. I have forgiven the world.

Realize that your forgiveness entitles you to vision. Understand that the Holy Spirit never fails to give the gift of sight to the forgiving. Believe He will not fail you now. You have forgiven the world. He will be with you as you watch and wait. He will show you what true vision sees. It is His Will, and you have joined with Him. Wait patiently for Him. He will be there. The light has come. You have forgiven the world.

Tell Him you know you cannot fail because you trust in Him. And tell yourself you wait in certainty to look upon the world He promised you. From this time forth you will see differently. Today the light has come. And you will see the world that has been promised you since time began, and in which is the end of time ensured.

The shorter practice periods, too, will be joyful reminders of your release. Remind yourself every quarter of an hour or so that today is a time for special celebration. Give thanks for mercy and the Love of God. Rejoice in the power of forgiveness to heal your sight completely. Be confident that on this day there is a new beginning. Without the darkness of the past upon your eyes, you cannot fail to see today. And what you see will be so welcome that you will gladly extend today forever.

Say, then:

The light has come. I have forgiven the world.

Should you be tempted, say to anyone who seems to pull you back into darkness:

The light has come. I have forgiven you.

We dedicate this day to the serenity in which God would have you be. Keep it in your awareness of yourself and see it everywhere today, as we celebrate the beginning of your vision and the sight of the real world, which has come to replace the unforgiven world you thought was real.



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It started with her own break up,flowers changed her mind during the Winter Solstice Heb Neb

Beloved Flower Lover,

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and now approaching the Heb Neb Winter Solstice,(Dec 21st -24th) the inner fulcrum for social change.We are at the most auspicious time of the year.

The time to renew the spirit, by reflecting on the real principles of peace and joy in situations which seem rough.

Don’t quit on yourself during the winter solstice time period. It’s the centre of our inner purpose.

Restore the love you feel about yourself as you take yourself to your deep places in the underworld of love. That is the call of the winter solstice fulcrum.

Perhaps let flowers be your personal choice of the beauty of this repaired love. A picture of a better world which comes from reflecting on making contact within yourself to a part of yourself that seems so unavailable to love.

Let the love conversation be available to us on the outside and lets see how we all heal each other by taking the time to make contact to that inner part of us that was hurting. Nourish that conversation by nourishing it with inner love.

Let’s see our world change, with love.That’s the call and purpose of the winter solstice Heb Neb. Let’s see ourselves change inwardly in peace towards the most parts of our lives that feel so unavailable to love, peace, abundance, beauty and joy. Lets!


Count us in!


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Winter Solstice Wedding Flowers inspired by Haville Hendrix Imago Theraphy

Beloved Flower Lover,

You are both so  happy!

How did you make a difference? we asked…..they had had a very dramatic love life.

How did you prepare yourself for marriage after your relationship was going so badly?

Imago growth and healing, she replied…..

He did not meet my needs, I did not meet his. It felt hopeless. I was in love with someone who was not compatible with me. It was horrible. I quit and then I had an insight that I needed to create a scene in life that needed to be repaired.Then I came across Harvlle Hendrix. He was perfect because he helped me to reset up the context that I needed to soothe. He could not give me my needs. He was unavailable, and that became my strongest growth point. It was like I wanted something from someone who could not give it to me. I learnt giving him what he needed when I did not want to, meant I became more of who I am. So did he.

That was their gift to the world for the Heb Neb winter solstice.


Use gifts of peace to heal.

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Guardians of the Heart: Developing Relationships and Healing Archetypal Wounds using flowers affects our mind, our bodies and our culture

Beloved Flower Lover,

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As part of the Dr. Mario Martinez Floral Season we have been looking at his work around the mind, the body and the culture and how we have learnt from him that we need to give ourselves opportunities for love sometimes in small dosages and sometimes through small sub cultures, who actually enjoy, the rich fuel of love.

Today we are looking at The Mind-Body Code which has case studies complemented by relaxing yet potent mind-body meditations to help you balance every facet of your life, from relationships and aging to abundance and ambitions.

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We love the symbols of love that we use in our culture, like flowers and we value them as a connection to the interconnectedness of happiness that exists naturally in our hearts. With that in mind, we are really curious about how you are finding Dr Martinez’s work on the mind, the body and culture.


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Healing the Wounds of Shame, Abandonment and Betrayal by creating a new subculture of love. Create a floral support group of love and see what actually happens between you all

Beloved flower Lover,

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As part of our Dr Martinez season, we decided to explore more techniques to resolve embarrassment, isolation or anger with flowers as we enter the Season of peace, joy and happiness.

As we have been creating these healing fields of love, we know we needed to support ourselves whilst we continued to offer support. Today, we are inviting you as part of our community to continue to share what we have here in our flower family of love. To share this post and any others with those who are open to heal their shame, abandonment and betrayal. The video of Dr Mario Martinez talks to us about how can we support ourselves to feel honour, loyalty, and commitment as part of befriending those feelings of shame, abandonment and betrayal. We are really open to what you learn from it and haring from you about that because we feel that we share a covenant of safety between us. We wonder how we can use this commitment to heal our challenges together using flowers.  As Martinez says, let’s explore our real challenges and create more symbols of love using flowers and see what really happens between us.

Yes, messages of honour, commitment, and appreciation are the feelings we convey as we use our flowers as unchanging symbols of the love, to ourselves and to others in this world. And thats our invitation to you. That’s our dear, dear invitation to you right now.

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Some of us can only take ‘Joy’ in small dosages says Dr Mario Martinez. Simple little flowers could be used as part of those very small measures

Beloved Flower Lover,

The holiday season is apon us and symbols of love and happiness  are all around us. However we find that for us they can be quite challenging, especially if you don’t feel like your own reference group allows for it.  Dr Mario Martinez talks to us about how the cultural groups that we belong to affect affect our thoughts about how much love peace and joy is allowable for us to experience.

We have learnt through our floristry practise that we can tell ourselves lots of lovely words but do we really believe them. Some of us would rather hang onto our pain and suffering rather than change and enjoy peace, happiness and love.

Not for everyone, just some of us. This post is for those who might like to change their approach to recieving and enjoying love. And we see how the symbol of giving small tokens of flowers can help us increase our sense of worthiness.

The sason of peace joy and love is upon us right now and we really invite you to listen to Dr Martinez  in these videos. He teaches us to let go to things that feel comfortable but are not useful to us now. Love is an act of courage for us all and during this time of peace and joy we may want to find more and more ways of expressing it, that fits with our own sense of who we really are.

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Imagination is more important than knowledge.” Albert Einstein: Perhaps we wonder if the real power is through pleasure? We invite you to use flowers to help you to imagine yourself as who you really are

Beloved Flower Lover,

They say that the real key to turning imagination into reality is acting as if the imagined scene were real and already accomplished.


We added one more massive secret.

You must enjoy it. Love it. Feel blissed by it. Yes it’s about the pleasure you attach to this image.

That’s the real engine of imagination. The joy part!

So instead of pretending it is a scene from the future, imagine it as though you are truly experiencing the pleasure in the present.

mmmmm yes allow it……

…………………….yep…..breathe and see it as a really joyful event in the now.

It’s a practise, it’s a skill. It’s something to cultivate.

Vision needs nuturing!

Have the courage to nurture your pleasure!

The greats of antiquity have told use through the ages that whatever you imagine through the feelings of great, intense pleasure is the source of making things happen.

We found that this makes sense when you, we, I allow ourselves to appreciate that this is based on natural laws. Like the law of gravity. Its reliable. So perhaps if you imagine and enjoy the picture of you in the now, giving and receiving the best of you, irrespective of whats going on on the outside world then  you will direct the energies of life to make things happen from a place of joy and peace. That in itsefl may be what you,and we are here to  learn from keep that picture of ourselves based on the truth of who we really are.


Ok…we are moving with this idea….and may then the challenges become a gift to make us feel smoother about ourselves and our situations rather than to imagine the impossible. I am possible becomes revealed to ourselves.

OK…take a little time and breathe to digest this if you are new to this blog or digest it more so if you are a regular reader. Are you up for it?


Allowing pictures of yourself enjoying yourself in your minds eye, especially if you are in a challenging situation right now.

Is that the real gift of this truism?

Well we are in your service. Service to beauty. Service to peace. So we will continue to be inspired by this pracitse and by using flowers express this over and over again.

Now that sounds like something to recieve and give!

Using our imaginations to actively imagine who we really are  and to re imagine peace and joy even when life is challenging us is what we have the gift of life to do.

Beauty then is our guide to reorientate our compass is we get lost and keep us on track!

It can be a legitimage place to  recieve the enjoyment of ectasy!

Yes, the imagination is the place where we enjoy the solutions and experience the ‘pleasure’, of the beauty that surrounds us. This is the tool to draw for especially on the most difficult times in our lives because we are so much more.

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Perhaps flowers can be a simple guide. Natures signpost to guide our natural life force. Maybe that’s what we are unlocking when we use beauty to affirm ourselves and flowers can help us to affirm and cultivate our vision.

Mmmm, flowers are like that what we are. Beautiful, becuase I am that, which I am…

We appreciate you, we so do.Thank you for reading, sharing and liking this post.

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He asked for pink roses from us to use for today’s full moon. He had a plan….we wondered what

Beloved Flower Lover,

He came in and asked for pink roses…..he was quite sure about it. We asked him for what purpose. He then said he was opening himself up for love.
It occurred to us that he was doing a ritual to help to more deeply awaken his spiritual self and help him to connect with his inner core, other people, nature, and everything in the world. At its core, a ritual helps us acknowledge the important moments in our life and to give these moments meaning.
His focus was love and having fun with it too!


So here it is, here’s a full moon  and he is focusing his whole energy on feeling loving, being loving towards himself and others on this full moon and we pondered on how he was using the pink roses he got from us.

Known as the Beaver Moon, this full moon is often associated with the Hindu goddess Lakshmi who brings to us love, beauty and wealth.


We pondered and paused.


We also got a message from a woman who sent us a message about this time. When she spoke to us, she began to talk more about what it meant. She suggested that its a time to take a Love Bath an hour or two before the moonrise.

Surround your tub with pink or red candles and some roses.

Add a little rose oil and if you will you can also add a few drops of:

  • Ylang Ylang – to balance your male & female energies.
  • Sandalwood -great for attracting love.
  • Jasmine – said to be a favorite of Cleopatra’s and very seductive.
  • Soak in the tub while focusing your attention on your heart and imagining the joy and fulfillment of being in the arms of your soulmate.

Then, go to the most romantic place in nature you can get to – a place that you want to someday take your soulmate to.

Plan to be there just before the moonrise time.

Bring a crystal, charm, or piece of jewelry with you to hold in your hand to charge with these full moon energies. Once charged, you can place this on your altar.

Also bring a blanket or pillow to sit on (ideally pink or red) and bring a favorite celebratory beverage and a champagne flute.

You will need a journal, a container of sea salt and a bell (if you have one).

Find a comfortable place to sit and before you sit, place your blanket or pillow on the ground and then make a wide circle around it with sea salt, then sit down.

Ground yourself by imagining your energies connecting deeply with the earth.
Write in your journal what you are most grateful for about the life you now lead, and what you are grateful for that is soon to come with the arrival of your soulmate. Then close your eyes and say a prayer of gratitude and meditate for awhile.

When you are ready, open your eyes and gaze at the moon, drawing the energy and the light of the moon into your body, mind, spirit and heart.

When you are done, pour your drink and raise a toast to your soulmate and tell him or her (in your heart) that the welcome mat is out.


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Pleasure yourself through your nature and allow youself to notice the flowers….allow….allow….allow it Menopausal woman….allow it

Beloved Flower Lover,

“Life on earth is sexually transmitted” Dr Christine Northrup

And all women, all women need to make pleasure part of their lives. Especially the menopausal women, especially!

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Make pleasure the whole point.

What ever age you are, know that orgasmic burst of pleasure,  that orgasmic joy blisses you out, and enjoy the delight of life.

Take care of your deepest self. Love up who you are. Give that joy a place to manifest itself.

Perhaps give and recieve flowers.

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Flower and Flourish in November: Reclaim the true picture of who you are by making your enjoyment of beauty your focus today!

Beloved Flower Lover,

It’s as simple as that. You allowing yourself to recieve a clear and strong picture of beauty. Enjoying it and knowing it reflects back to you, who you really are.

That’s the gift of flowers this November.

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Reclaim the true picture of who you were always imagined to be…..beautiful!

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