Have you ever blamed someone and made yourself a righteous victim … well then maybe its time to rebalance that picture and go into your inner garden and give yourself your hero flowers again!

Beloved Flower Lover,

A stressed out woman who has to lead her family, her children, and herself has no time to relax, get calm and ‘smell the roses. She finds herself increasingly unbalanced either blaming others or herself. Making them the villain or herself. An essentially disempowering herself.

A man who has been looking after a brother who does not pay rent, suddenly becomes ill and cannot cover the bills anymore. The brother gets very angry and wants to get into a fight with him. What could be the antidote?

Reginald Martin puts it well he says that ” the world outside of you is a reflection of your inner beliefs and emotions. Don’t hope and wait for the storm to subside so that you may find peace. Find peace and the storm will become quiet.”

This is in fact a process of self care and self love which is in fact teaching us to move away from the limited thinking.

Self care is also about releasing the limited thinking. Giving self opportunities to grow. Opposition is not a punishment. Its opportunities to master and balance natural laws. This approach to using flowers is about gaining wisdom within our hearts. Information that stays in our hearts from life experiences becomes wisdom. That beautiful inner contemplation of information becomes wisdom.

The way we see it is this. In both the above situations there is a ‘wanting to follow rules’, of obligation. We would suggest that is really about fear. We ask ourselves is that about how sometimes we feel powerless and want our lives ordered. So we like rules. But rules allow you to not have to take responsibility for your actions. You can say, well, that’s the way it is. When you follow rules that others have set you don’t have to think anymore. What we do here is untethering yourself from the matrix so to speak. You take responsibility for your life and not try to change everyone else. We see that you are the creator of your reality when you understand these concepts. You can recognize that you can make mistakes. They are a gift because they are a learning opportunity, not the end of the world.

You are to be you and not live in someone else’s box.

We would add, remember your inner garden. The beautiful space is your true nature. That is who you actually are, not all this other overlaid stuff.

Wonder what you think?

The Team,

The London Flower Lover

About Thelondonflowerlover

Most busy people struggle with knowing how to really give themselves the time they deserve for genuine self caring. They can get so lost in their daily responsibilities that they lose themselves. They can get sick, tired, or just lose their way. We provide self caring and self loving packages that make use of the natural relaxing abilities of tools like flowers, and so much more, all designed to give a reliable, regular, rebalancing booster, to recharge their inner batteries so that they can enjoy life again. So welcome to this Floralicious universe, where you are the hero. Yes, that's right. We know that you have one clear desire. To be happy. We also know that something is stopping you from getting it. That is where we step in.a Things get done because you allow them to. We are your guide florists who provide you with answers for that stress. We do this using baby steps, providing you with relaxing and beautiful flowers to help you connect with your wellness. In our baby step plans we combine flowers, with a holistic appreciation of what it takes for you to be free of your challenge. In our opinion you are a hero, not a helpless victim. It is our belief that no one needs to struggle with stress if they are guided properly. We gently guide those who are stressed at work, at home or anywhere in between. We guide those who have declared that its time to stop dabbling with what they desire. And using those baby steps, we carefully guide those who are ready to experience a transformation. We would never deny the fact that flowers for your birthday, holidays and special occasions are amazing to send and receive. Those florist that specifically specialise in that line of floristry are fantastic. Yet what we are doing here points you in another direction. It's deeper. It points your attention inwards. To self. To boost yourself up on a REGULAR basis. That's a part of how we guide you through to become free of your stress. We invite you to see how life is breathing you and how you are part of life's nature. So what you uncover is really you discovering your own awesomeness. You learn how that is natural and not an exception. From that point of view , we are inviting you to let go of dabbling around . This process that aligns you with the truth of your nature,puts asleep those doubts that interfere with your desires.Putting asleep the elephant in the room and inviting you to discover your own process of moving from feeling stressed to calm, from feeling uncertainty to being confident, from feeling lonely to being in gratitude for the connections with others. We recognise what you want. We know. We have been there ourselves. We know how it feels and that all you need is a guide, to give you a plan to help you win the day. So we invite you to take the next baby step. If we don't call you to take action, then we are not helping you and life will only stay the same. It will reflect an unexplored set of feelings about your self that could harm your future. Lets put those to sleep and be focused on what is awake within you. We invite you to go forward and take the first tinniest baby step now. THE FLORALICIOUS PLAN Step 1 Sign up to The London Flower Lover blog. Open up your Floralicious conversation about relaxation, perception and flowers of all kinds. Step 2 Sign up for the empowerment plan that will work for you. At this stage are really ready to commit to your self caring. So choose your plan carefully. Each plan makes you available to the mechanics of your personal wholeness because you allow yourself to. No one is forcing you. Each plan gives you a reliable schedule of activity to bring your attention back to yourself. These plans use a mixture of techniques to awaken you . Repeatedly offered through story, gratitude journaling and more as you reflect the life you desire to breathe life into. By using flowers, you experience the boost of beautifully inspiring collections of flower designs. All you need to do is to align with that feeling. This is what makes this package a personal attunement to your natural aliveness and abundance! Step 3 You are now ready to use very specific flowers and self gifting to help you express yourself. You are ready to give yourself a licence to express yourself like never before. No longer intimidated by stress, you use flowers and self gifting to express the life that is breathing you. Your awesomeness is re-discovered, revealed and remembered. We invite you into your own Floralicious universe as you unwind, relax and enjoy happiness beyond stress.
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