Beloved Flower Lover,
To clear these blocks, it takes high self-esteem and courage to look in the mirror and see what adjustments may need to be made to clear the blocks. That usually is going to mean assimilating the experience. Assimilating the experience means that you will bring the situation to an emotionally balanced state.
A person with positive self-esteem does not seek to be the dominant individual in the relationship. They recognize a loving partnership. They will recognize that the partnership is like a dance. But each will lead at different times. But both recognize the relationship will be for the upliftment and illumination of both. This does not mean that the partnership will always be easy. It means that both are committed to the relationship so that working through the issues and finding resolutions is the goal and not trying to dominate the other.
Having this perspective will take both individuals trusting the other. This is also part of being vulnerable.
We both take care of each other. In this way, trust is built, and compassion becomes a major component of the relationship. Love relationships can be very challenging but also rewarding. It is at least a spoken agreement between both parties. Both will need to honour the relationship in the way YOU BOTH choose. No assumptions. Talk it out. Even write it out if needed. No need to conform to the standards of society. Make it work for you.
Both partners need to be upfront and honest about their wants and needs. If you are not sure about what is being expected, then ask questions for clarification. Disaster lurks when either or both parties make assumptions. You cannot be afraid to speak up. Fear of losing the other is usually the culprit of accepted assumptions.
Know that part of growing in love is knowing that you do not NEED to be with someone; you CHOOSE to be with them. Being alone is not scary when you know thyself and are comfortable with your own company.
Start to link giving yourself flowers as a symbol of you taking care of that important part of yourself. Start to recognise your intention each time you buy them for yourself that you are in fact expressing self-appreciation and acceptance for who you are today. This is self-love.
Visualise and imagine you giving yourself flowers and feeling that surge of a constant flow of self-appreciation, and the energy of self-acceptance, fizzing all around you as you bubble within with self-appreciation. Those flowers are a wonderful renewing reminder of that feeling.
The London Flower Lover