Have you noticed how you feel when you see someone else receive flowers- ask yourself how can you Let flowers help open up your heart so you can release loneliness and experience love? Part 2

Beloved Flower Lover,

Have you noticed how you feel when you see someone else receive flowers- ask yourself how can you Let flowers help open up your heart so you can release loneliness and experience love? Part 2

A healthy self-esteem will empower you to connect to your higher love life self in a way that makes you more intuitive, creative, and independent in your love life. You will be more flexible and willing to admit mistakes and correct them.

The reason for that is simple. A person with low self-esteem already does not have a high opinion of themselves, so being wrong in their love life is a confirmation that something is not right or good about them.

So, they become inflexible and resistant to admit and correct perceived mistakes. A person with a healthy self-esteem will not see a setback in their love life as a failure. It will enable them to search for the lesson that will give them love wisdom.

Those with a poor self-esteem in their love life will look for areas that others can order their lives. They fear being free and independent because the unknown offers a chance for failure rather than an opportunity for advancement.

They seek safety in that which is undemanding. They want the familiar rather than anything that would cause uncertainty.

Walking your love life will put you in spaces and mindsets that are uncertain. The test is to remain calm in knowing that all will be well.

Poor self-esteem shows up in our love life as control freaks, the rigidity of beliefs, and fear of the unfamiliar in our love life. Poor self-esteem would rather conform to prescribed standards and will be defensive when their worldview is challenged.

Understanding how a healthy self-esteem manifests is vitally important to developing loving relationships and trusting your own subjective experience.

This is really hard for most coming out of a tell me what to do mindset. You have been told what to think, how to think, and how to be based on a prescribed concept. Everything has to fit into a certain box for you to belong to the in-crowd. If you steer away from those ideas, you are judged harshly, and even your love life may be at stake. Therefore, you get used to checking with some authority, before you decide on when, and to whom to open up your own heart. Loving yourself first is not even on the agenda. Yet in fact it is the best time to begin to think about forming a self-love connection, without embarrassment. This is the basis to love someone else.

Once you understand the love box, you do not even have to check with anyone or think about it. You comply, and all decisions and responsibility for those decisions are made for you.

Your caregivers gave you those beliefs and now it maybe the time to revisit those self-love beliefs. forgive yourself and others and begin the discovery of who you really are.

Start to link giving yourself flowers as a symbol of you taking care of that important part of yourself. Start to recognise your intention each time you buy them for yourself that you are in fact expressing self-appreciation and acceptance for who you are today. This is self-love.

Visualise and imagine you giving yourself flowers and feeling that surge of a constant flow of self-appreciation, and the energy of self-acceptance, fizzing all around you as you bubble within with self-appreciation. Those flowers are a wonderful renewing reminder of that feeling.

The Team,

The London Flower Lover

About Thelondonflowerlover

Most busy people struggle with knowing how to really give themselves the time they deserve for genuine self caring. They can get so lost in their daily responsibilities that they lose themselves. They can get sick, tired, or just lose their way. We provide self caring and self loving packages that make use of the natural relaxing abilities of tools like flowers, and so much more, all designed to give a reliable, regular, rebalancing booster, to recharge their inner batteries so that they can enjoy life again. So welcome to this Floralicious universe, where you are the hero. Yes, that's right. We know that you have one clear desire. To be happy. We also know that something is stopping you from getting it. That is where we step in.a Things get done because you allow them to. We are your guide florists who provide you with answers for that stress. We do this using baby steps, providing you with relaxing and beautiful flowers to help you connect with your wellness. In our baby step plans we combine flowers, with a holistic appreciation of what it takes for you to be free of your challenge. In our opinion you are a hero, not a helpless victim. It is our belief that no one needs to struggle with stress if they are guided properly. We gently guide those who are stressed at work, at home or anywhere in between. We guide those who have declared that its time to stop dabbling with what they desire. And using those baby steps, we carefully guide those who are ready to experience a transformation. We would never deny the fact that flowers for your birthday, holidays and special occasions are amazing to send and receive. Those florist that specifically specialise in that line of floristry are fantastic. Yet what we are doing here points you in another direction. It's deeper. It points your attention inwards. To self. To boost yourself up on a REGULAR basis. That's a part of how we guide you through to become free of your stress. We invite you to see how life is breathing you and how you are part of life's nature. So what you uncover is really you discovering your own awesomeness. You learn how that is natural and not an exception. From that point of view , we are inviting you to let go of dabbling around . This process that aligns you with the truth of your nature,puts asleep those doubts that interfere with your desires.Putting asleep the elephant in the room and inviting you to discover your own process of moving from feeling stressed to calm, from feeling uncertainty to being confident, from feeling lonely to being in gratitude for the connections with others. We recognise what you want. We know. We have been there ourselves. We know how it feels and that all you need is a guide, to give you a plan to help you win the day. So we invite you to take the next baby step. If we don't call you to take action, then we are not helping you and life will only stay the same. It will reflect an unexplored set of feelings about your self that could harm your future. Lets put those to sleep and be focused on what is awake within you. We invite you to go forward and take the first tinniest baby step now. THE FLORALICIOUS PLAN Step 1 Sign up to The London Flower Lover blog. Open up your Floralicious conversation about relaxation, perception and flowers of all kinds. Step 2 Sign up for the empowerment plan that will work for you. At this stage are really ready to commit to your self caring. So choose your plan carefully. Each plan makes you available to the mechanics of your personal wholeness because you allow yourself to. No one is forcing you. Each plan gives you a reliable schedule of activity to bring your attention back to yourself. These plans use a mixture of techniques to awaken you . Repeatedly offered through story, gratitude journaling and more as you reflect the life you desire to breathe life into. By using flowers, you experience the boost of beautifully inspiring collections of flower designs. All you need to do is to align with that feeling. This is what makes this package a personal attunement to your natural aliveness and abundance! Step 3 You are now ready to use very specific flowers and self gifting to help you express yourself. You are ready to give yourself a licence to express yourself like never before. No longer intimidated by stress, you use flowers and self gifting to express the life that is breathing you. Your awesomeness is re-discovered, revealed and remembered. We invite you into your own Floralicious universe as you unwind, relax and enjoy happiness beyond stress.
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