Flowers & Lifestyle: Was 2020 a dream or nightmare? Choose a flower to choose to reflect

Flowers and lifestyle is a way of thinking about your life where you use flowers to help yourself and others in our everyday lives. For an example, flowers are an important way to remind someone that we care and also can be used to encourage ourselves and others. Giving and sending flowers releases Oxytocin, the bonding hormone. Giving and receiving flowers can also release dopamine as the flower feels like a reward.

Self care comes in many forms, yet it has one focus,to build your self esteem and help you to reorganise your idea about yourself so you experience more positive possibilities. Selfcare is important to maintain a healthy relationship with yourself as it produces positive feelings and boosts your confidence and self-esteem. It can also lead to all sorts of health problems, from anxiety and depression to insomnia and heart diseases. Everyone has their preference for self care. Ours is of course involves the use of flowers.

We invite you to choose beauty. Natural beauty has been shown by research to help reduce stress. Now this year has had some major stress. Some even considered it to be a nightmare year.

A great teacher we know recently reminded us that,


A nightmare/bad dream is usually a message that you truly need to understand. You have ignored the information consciously and intuitively. So the soul will send you the message in different forms. First it might be a normal waking experience.

Then the message might be sent through a sexual experience (higher energy more pleasure). If the doesn’t work they send a dream to scare the shit out of you and then you ask, what was that about?

As soon as you ask the question you become an observer. You may not understand the dream consciously, but then your intuition will kick in and you will get it at a subconscious level. Mission accomplished, from the perspective of the soul, no more nightmare.
Believe it or not, your dream experience is the same as if you died. In other words, if you have ever wondered what death is like, simply pay attention to your dream EXPERIENCE.

If the lesson you incarnated to learn was a major one, say like appreciating your individuality and self-love, then you will incarnate into a new life with the same lesson to learn but most likely a different twist on how the lesson is taught, so to speak. So you get the opportunity to learn the lesson over and over. You will not lose an opportunity.

R Martin
Did we get the message from 2020?

Think about what sort of beauty to fill your home with. What flower really makes you feel better. Close your eyes and choose. This can open up an inner portal back to feeling more relaxed and calmer in life. A doorway back to heaven.

The Team,

The London Flower Lover

About Thelondonflowerlover

Welcome to The London Flower Lover. We are florists who create floral collections to tell your real life story. With colour and texture, we take floristry into an entirely new direction based on the challenges and joys of your life. Offering what we call 'heart based floristry' we use style, fashion, and life situations and merge them with heart based lifestyle support. This inspiring blend creates so much more for those who love flowers. Using flowers in the traditional way of course, but always using flowers to open up a floralicious conversation about relationships of all kinds. We are a sort of work in progress of compassionately confirming how we are already on the inside, the love we want to see out in the world. That is mission of The London Flower Lover. So saying yes to recognising that is at the heart of this blog and using flowers to honour that inner world is how we use the beauty of giving and receiving flowers. This blog is your blog. It's as much about cultivating your heart, as it is about enjoying the physical beauty of flowers. It offers story, poems and video to reflect the life you actually live whilst showing beautifully inspiring collections of flower designs. Hand-tied bouquets, arrangements and more. All this with sought after tips from well established experts on how to keep a happy heart. This is what makes The London Flower Lover unique and magical. Yes, and that's how we make the difference that we do. When life looks, feels, or sounds challenging, we offer a sanctuary that you may dip into. A well of refreshment and strength that you may draw from. Sharing what others have found to be successful ways of being happy in the face of challenges, whilst letting flowers do the talking when we have no other way to interpret what is going on. Use flowers to help you re-discover, reveal and remember how you can still be despite challenges. Use flowers to celebrate and to embody the possibility of your heart felt desire, fulfilled. Use flowers in your life, to remind you of the beauty of your life. Use The London Flower Lover today. We invite you to stay curious in this floral universe as you explore the love in the heart. This is a floralicious world.
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