Beloved Flower Lover,
We invite you to think about what you desire in life. If you desire something you have to give a little of the thing or experience you want. It will come back to you in feedback.
Now lets ignore the guilt and fear thing, or the obligation thing. No that is not giving in gratitude. No one has all the answers for you, only you can decide. Some people use fear to control you and you need to recognise what you need to do for yourself to let your energy flow.
Prime the pump is your own sacrifice , or give something in order to get return. Give a little bit of what you want so you can get something back. This is your inner environment which is the inner womb for your abundance to be expressed externally.
The London Flower Lover