Thoughts of abundance and flowers during winter time-anticipate the joys of summer now!

Beloved Flower Lover,

We just had to share Kidest Om, as we were planning to do some flower work later in the week and thinking about conversations we have already on Jan 2nd with a client who was talking about not being sure what she was doing with her life.
That conversation led us back into the studio, back to planning flower work and back to Kidest Om.

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Kidest teaches us that,

“A negative environment is one in which you anticipate denial of your desires, wants, and/or needs from the world.
The root of it is a premise that says your environment, the world, the universe cannot or will not give you your desire, cannot or will not meet your needs, cannot or will not fulfill your wants, cannot or will not support you in the ways you desire to be supported. In short, it is a belief in an unresponsive Universe. “

Kidest goes onto to say that
“It’s a premise that says you live in an unsupportive universe, you live in an unsupportive world, you live and have your being in an environment that will resist or deny supporting you in your fulfilment, one that will not respond to you in the way you need and desire.
Kidest eloquently says that, ” The master construct or filter here is something like “my needs, my wants, my desires will not be met” or “my world, my environment, my universe will not respond to or support my needs, wants, desires” – it is a master construct used in various relationship contexts from relationships to others, your relationship to your workplace, your city, your country and so on.”

The psychology of this is something you can look at within yourself. You firstly extend this image of an unsupportive or unresponsive environment before yourself – you project this negative or hostile or unfriendly or inattentive environment, and then you live in reaction to it. You mentally put a static image or a set of static images negating your desired outcome, your fulfilment, your satisfaction in front of yourself. You project conversations, scenes and scenarios of a negating quality or of an emotional tone that says “I can’t have this and this is why”. This “I can’t have this” resonance can be framed in a variety of ways from “they won’t let me have this” to “I’m not good enough to have this” to “it is not going to work out for me to have this” to “it’s not fair for me to have this when other’s don’t” and a myriad of other versions that all accomplish one thing – they negate your desired fulfilment, they negate your ability to have and experience your preferred outcome.
We just had to share Kidest Om, as we were planning to do some flower work later in the week and thinking about conversations we have already on Jan 2nd with a client who was talking about not being sure what she was doing with her life.

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That conversation led us back into the studio, back to planning flower work and back to Kidest Om. We are grateful for all those who come our way, because as Kidest puts it, when you see yourself as living in a world that is unsupportive or unresponsive and then relate to that world through this lens, you can’t help but exclude and forget all the ways in which life is continually and endlessly making your existence effortless. You perceive a world that takes effort, force, striving, struggling, battling, negotiating, bartering, and the like. You move yourself into victim and competitive consciousness which is a denser and slower spinning field of perception than the frequency of your core wholeness. You move through your world as though it is happening to you within the constraints you’ve mentally constructed.
We are grateful and are in gratitude of the ability to choose to see the abundance in our world, especially during winter time.
Winter is here The London Flower Lover
This time is your ally. Flowers are your ally and allow them to let you discover and reveal more and more of the abundance that comes through you.
The Team,
The London Flower Lover

About Thelondonflowerlover

Welcome to The London Flower Lover. We are florists who create floral collections to tell your real life story. With colour and texture, we take floristry into an entirely new direction based on the challenges and joys of your life. Offering what we call 'heart based floristry' we use style, fashion, and life situations and merge them with heart based lifestyle support. This inspiring blend creates so much more for those who love flowers. Using flowers in the traditional way of course, but always using flowers to open up a floralicious conversation about relationships of all kinds. We are a sort of work in progress of compassionately confirming how we are already on the inside, the love we want to see out in the world. That is mission of The London Flower Lover. So saying yes to recognising that is at the heart of this blog and using flowers to honour that inner world is how we use the beauty of giving and receiving flowers. This blog is your blog. It's as much about cultivating your heart, as it is about enjoying the physical beauty of flowers. It offers story, poems and video to reflect the life you actually live whilst showing beautifully inspiring collections of flower designs. Hand-tied bouquets, arrangements and more. All this with sought after tips from well established experts on how to keep a happy heart. This is what makes The London Flower Lover unique and magical. Yes, and that's how we make the difference that we do. When life looks, feels, or sounds challenging, we offer a sanctuary that you may dip into. A well of refreshment and strength that you may draw from. Sharing what others have found to be successful ways of being happy in the face of challenges, whilst letting flowers do the talking when we have no other way to interpret what is going on. Use flowers to help you re-discover, reveal and remember how you can still be despite challenges. Use flowers to celebrate and to embody the possibility of your heart felt desire, fulfilled. Use flowers in your life, to remind you of the beauty of your life. Use The London Flower Lover today. We invite you to stay curious in this floral universe as you explore the love in the heart. This is a floralicious world.
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