What is your own relationship with pleasure? Prioritize your sweet spot and let flowers take you on that journey

Beloved Flower Lover,

Honor the space between no longer and not yet- Nancy Levin

“Focus on what lights you up….. Cultivate the most important relationship with yourself between you and you.” She had heard all these phrases from her Aunt, now she was thinking about it by herself, for herself. Her choice.

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She was in between relationships and was thinking about what to do next. She knew that she would need to to focus on her own feelings first but was well-out of practice. She used to be the sort  of woman who if her partner was feeling rainy, so would get her umbrella out!

She was dictated by someone else’s weather. Yet she decided to take a long honest look at her past .  She wanted to come back together with her own self.

With that on her mind, she began to notice how she became alive around flowers and a thought popped in her head. she was not upset at herself  about not taking her own temperature using flowers. She instead decided to figure herself for unwittingly using someone else’s temperature as her own. She was a little tender.

She forgave herself for having rationalized herself out of the equation of self love. She practiced this using flowers too , making beautiful spaces in her home to remind her to connect to the highest vision she had for herself. She was a little tender.

What is the highest priority she has for herself? she wondered- rather than the payoff  she got from helping others. She was a little tender.

Getting to know her self more  she noticed each time she surrounded herself with flowers  that she only thought about her own pleasure and priorities. She was a little tender.

Clearer and clearer ,whenever she had the impulse she kept on buying her own flowers to reinforce her own relationship with herself. To stop the perpetuation of ignoring her own priority. She stopped her own figure pointing at herself. She was a little tender.

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Who am I?

Who am I?

Who am I?

A floral dialogue began out her silence.


What does my heart long for?

What does my heart long for?

What does my heart long for?

and finally


What am I grateful for?

Who am I grateful for?

Who am I grateful for?


A long deep breathe inward, she let go . She invited an intention just for herself for the next day-into her awareness. She allowed it to crystallize and nestle into her heart She raised her chest upwards. Took a long deep breathe outward and let it all go.


She allowed it to ripple through herself. Ripple and ripple and ripple. Taking a long deep breath inward and letting it go. Her back arched. She gently released it. She sealed this connection with herself with this long slow deep breath inward. By this time her eyes where shut closed an she was looking at the soft gentle darkness behind her eyelids. They fluttered.

She allowed herself to go soft, to arrive at the inner space of deep  mean unexpected anger that violently came up. The anger deep below her soft skin may be clearing herself out- a guide from beyond to tend to the tender sore wound. The relationship was poking her already tender wound. She realized she was  very angry and decided to make deep deep peace with that part of her heart. She knew she could not run around and convince others to be her. To be peaceful.

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She indulged her own priority for self love and vibration of her space went upward. Sweetly looking at her choice of flowers. Finding herself talking long slow deep breathes outward . Again, again and again. Innocently she would watch her own breathe flow inward and outward as she connected to her own sweet spot. She opened her eyes looked at her flowers and bowed her head. I honor the space of beauty and peace in you and in me.  She was operating from her sweet spot.


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Thank you for this floral sandbox that she could play in!

The Team,

The London Flower Lover

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Welcome to The London Flower Lover. We are florists who create floral collections to tell your real life story. With colour and texture, we take floristry into an entirely new direction based on the challenges and joys of your life. Offering what we call 'heart based floristry' we use style, fashion, and life situations and merge them with heart based lifestyle support. This inspiring blend creates so much more for those who love flowers. Using flowers in the traditional way of course, but always using flowers to open up a floralicious conversation about relationships of all kinds. We are a sort of work in progress of compassionately confirming how we are already on the inside, the love we want to see out in the world. That is mission of The London Flower Lover. So saying yes to recognising that is at the heart of this blog and using flowers to honour that inner world is how we use the beauty of giving and receiving flowers. This blog is your blog. It's as much about cultivating your heart, as it is about enjoying the physical beauty of flowers. It offers story, poems and video to reflect the life you actually live whilst showing beautifully inspiring collections of flower designs. Hand-tied bouquets, arrangements and more. All this with sought after tips from well established experts on how to keep a happy heart. This is what makes The London Flower Lover unique and magical. Yes, and that's how we make the difference that we do. When life looks, feels, or sounds challenging, we offer a sanctuary that you may dip into. A well of refreshment and strength that you may draw from. Sharing what others have found to be successful ways of being happy in the face of challenges, whilst letting flowers do the talking when we have no other way to interpret what is going on. Use flowers to help you re-discover, reveal and remember how you can still be despite challenges. Use flowers to celebrate and to embody the possibility of your heart felt desire, fulfilled. Use flowers in your life, to remind you of the beauty of your life. Use The London Flower Lover today. We invite you to stay curious in this floral universe as you explore the love in the heart. This is a floralicious world.
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