Flowers for a husband and father dealing with challenges of being a husband and a father and prepared to do differently

Beloved Flower Lover,

It’s time to start a fresh, to start anew and we were really intrigued by a story of a couple who found their way through emotional turmoil to the place of healing. Please watch Iyanla guide a willing couple back to wholeness over 60 days or more.

Our simple flowers are our way of saying thank you to Ms Vanzant and the couple for sharing their intimate lives with us. For allowing us to feel their pain and the release of it too. Thank you for showing us how we too if we choose to, if we give ourselves permission to, if we remain open to, can see that change is not just possible. But that it happened by healing that part of us all that needs to come back home and feel cared and loved.

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In peace and joy

The Team

The London Flower Lover


About Thelondonflowerlover

Welcome to The London Flower Lover. We are florists who create floral collections to tell your real life story. With colour and texture, we take floristry into an entirely new direction based on the challenges and joys of your life. Offering what we call 'heart based floristry' we use style, fashion, and life situations and merge them with heart based lifestyle support. This inspiring blend creates so much more for those who love flowers. Using flowers in the traditional way of course, but always using flowers to open up a floralicious conversation about relationships of all kinds. We are a sort of work in progress of compassionately confirming how we are already on the inside, the love we want to see out in the world. That is mission of The London Flower Lover. So saying yes to recognising that is at the heart of this blog and using flowers to honour that inner world is how we use the beauty of giving and receiving flowers. This blog is your blog. It's as much about cultivating your heart, as it is about enjoying the physical beauty of flowers. It offers story, poems and video to reflect the life you actually live whilst showing beautifully inspiring collections of flower designs. Hand-tied bouquets, arrangements and more. All this with sought after tips from well established experts on how to keep a happy heart. This is what makes The London Flower Lover unique and magical. Yes, and that's how we make the difference that we do. When life looks, feels, or sounds challenging, we offer a sanctuary that you may dip into. A well of refreshment and strength that you may draw from. Sharing what others have found to be successful ways of being happy in the face of challenges, whilst letting flowers do the talking when we have no other way to interpret what is going on. Use flowers to help you re-discover, reveal and remember how you can still be despite challenges. Use flowers to celebrate and to embody the possibility of your heart felt desire, fulfilled. Use flowers in your life, to remind you of the beauty of your life. Use The London Flower Lover today. We invite you to stay curious in this floral universe as you explore the love in the heart. This is a floralicious world.
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2 Responses to Flowers for a husband and father dealing with challenges of being a husband and a father and prepared to do differently

  1. Another beautiful, challenging and powerful photo-essay that invites us to assess our assumptions and find more loving ways to move forward together. Lovely.


    • Firstly,we are picturing your big smile, a great source of your power and we give thanks for you popping by. We feel your sense of joy. Your own beacon nature kathryn and your comment, radiating outwards is filled with so much confidence. It’s a two way process,giving and recieving.Your commenting fulfils the circle of life.

      Next,…this is a deep dive we too have taken for ourselves…as well as for others. Tenderly, gently, making new connections, being drawn into the energy of timeless love, bringing the light of the solutions we all seek. Feeling mutual nurturing love now drawn to us. Connecting us with all solutions. that’s the power of connection, growing and growing in our hearts from gentle encouragement. Those seeds are planted!

      The past where we had a story of things that we did not like does not have to dictate our future. That vibration, that energy, that feeling has it’s own colours, it’s own direction, it’s own look and feel. We wonder where it might take us we wonder about it? and if we feel that we do not want to fully inhabit that feeling, we can choose, decide, or think about repositioning ourselves in our hearts,again.

      This is the guide that a so called negative past offers us. It always offers us a chance to reconsider, re-evaluate our learnings.

      This amazing couple and their wonderful guide, Ms Vanzant share this private yet public journey. They have been given to us as a mega gift. Reflecting back to us, our own love.Privately and publically. We trust, relax and are open to this awakening for us, others, the world, our communities.

      So as we design flowers, we keep coming up across the crossroads that we all face in our lives and that’s why we keep uncovering these amazing stories about how we feel about childhood.

      Just by designing with flowers, clients, customers, friends, family, communities invite us to open up the space for investigation. So by answering those questions we honour and then witness ourselves. That’s how we have come to understand how to create a peaceful energy using flowers as a focal point.

      We then re-design and re-create from a place of re-discovery. That’s how we find the link with flowers and their design.And by the way, when we say we, we use the inspiraitonal ‘we’ meaning you tooooooooooooooooooo!

      It makes such a big difference we find, to share situations where we witness and honour others who are willing to offer more honuring.We can re-script ourlives. Beyond the fear, shame and doubt.We embrace, self love, which over flows to others.

      And as we are given the right understanding and the right tools we can get on with creating the love in our hearts through our day to day lives.

      Flowers make us think about the ‘fairytale of living happily every after’. That’s a cross roads story in itself and just by taking that journey, we can, if we choose learn so much. We see this all the time as we design and reconnect the dot’s backwards. We see how the way we or others are makes sense.

      We ask do we want certain things for ourselves, as well as how do we want to be in the world. What do we want to be possible? and what are we willing to do to make that possible? That’s the gift of this work.

      We learnt…we allow and accept….more and more…and more….and so much more…………..

      Don’t give up is also the other message, because the answer is inside, not outside. Love is in the heart beat..this couple show us how to breathe it in and out.

      So when we ask ourselves what are we learning, flowers, tuulips, daffodils, orchids, roses and more come to us as symbols of love. And the love energies, the emotion of giving and recieving from the heart is what we are inspired to consciously create from.

      Stumbling blocks, drawbacks, set backs and obstacles provide the manure for listening to our heart beat and breathe with it. And the new beginning energy that this couple breathe is so exciting. It’s tingling and such a revealing, trusting process. To just stop listen and breathe to the beat of the heart.

      This video essay, using flowers to encourage us to relearn our loving connection with ourselves and others is a rescripting…thanks for recognising it.

      Thank you always for circling back and offering us comments.It’s really important for us….thank you, thank you, thank you.

      We love to hear from you. You are so loving…thank you for all you do and are!


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