Flowers for overachieving women workers and entrepreneurs – overworked, overburdened,overstressed-what next?

Beloved Flower Lover,

Over-achieving women workers and entrepreneurs, this post has been inspired by you.But first, do you recognise yourself? Look at the following poll and see.

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She wasn’t born with a silver spoon. She worked hard to earn scholarships to be able to attend university. Her parents didn’t buy her a car.  She bought her own. Her parents couldn’t help her with a deposit. Instead she had helped her siblings with their mortgage.  With time, she cultivated an array of  skills to compete at work. But she only explored fulfilling ‘girly’ things when no one was not looking. She was a little curious about her friends who talked about freedom, from the inside out.

However, somewhere along the way, she over-did the overachieving. Her mind was racing and she didn’t even realize it, and she was fighting through life… just to prove that she was worth something- and she did not even know it, let alone admit to it.


It got all to much. When  her long-term marriage headed straight for divorce, after they both had a business together. She had a flash that she would end up, peri- menopausal, jaded, divorced, broke, raising children as a single mother and agressively shouting at people as she dreamt about having done things VERY differently when she was younger. And in secret  she wondered, what did the female arts offer her……. She choose a different path at this darkest hour.

Flowers offered her a very private personal compass to remind her that she could just relax….

Rose posy The London Flower Lover

This story was inspired after listening to story-teller, teacher and youth leadership champion, Larry,who  has a really interesting way of encouraging over achieving women, face themselves

Will you allow yourself to relax? even a little?

What can you do to swap stress for relaxation and peace?

The Team,

The London Flower Lover

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  • if you make yourself too busy to invest in yourself, the best asset you have then don’t use flowers to relax into your feminine strength
  • if you just want to make a living, rather than a thriving,then don’t use flowers to relax into your feminine strength
  • if your vocabulary starts with, “I can’t afford…”then don’t use flowers to relax into your feminine strength
  • if  you value keeping up with the Jones’ more than fulfillment and philanthropy,then don’t use flowers to relax into your feminine strength
  • if you use your children or life partner as an excuse to not cultivate your feminine powers, then don’t use flowers to relax into your feminine strength
  • if you listen to your fears more than to your dreams,then don’t use flowers to relax into your feminine strength

About Thelondonflowerlover

Most busy people struggle with knowing how to really give themselves the time they deserve for genuine self caring. They can get so lost in their daily responsibilities that they lose themselves. They can get sick, tired, or just lose their way. We provide self caring and self loving packages that make use of the natural relaxing abilities of tools like flowers, and so much more, all designed to give a reliable, regular, rebalancing booster, to recharge their inner batteries so that they can enjoy life again. So welcome to this Floralicious universe, where you are the hero. Yes, that's right. We know that you have one clear desire. To be happy. We also know that something is stopping you from getting it. That is where we step in.a Things get done because you allow them to. We are your guide florists who provide you with answers for that stress. We do this using baby steps, providing you with relaxing and beautiful flowers to help you connect with your wellness. In our baby step plans we combine flowers, with a holistic appreciation of what it takes for you to be free of your challenge. In our opinion you are a hero, not a helpless victim. It is our belief that no one needs to struggle with stress if they are guided properly. We gently guide those who are stressed at work, at home or anywhere in between. We guide those who have declared that its time to stop dabbling with what they desire. And using those baby steps, we carefully guide those who are ready to experience a transformation. We would never deny the fact that flowers for your birthday, holidays and special occasions are amazing to send and receive. Those florist that specifically specialise in that line of floristry are fantastic. Yet what we are doing here points you in another direction. It's deeper. It points your attention inwards. To self. To boost yourself up on a REGULAR basis. That's a part of how we guide you through to become free of your stress. We invite you to see how life is breathing you and how you are part of life's nature. So what you uncover is really you discovering your own awesomeness. You learn how that is natural and not an exception. From that point of view , we are inviting you to let go of dabbling around . This process that aligns you with the truth of your nature,puts asleep those doubts that interfere with your desires.Putting asleep the elephant in the room and inviting you to discover your own process of moving from feeling stressed to calm, from feeling uncertainty to being confident, from feeling lonely to being in gratitude for the connections with others. We recognise what you want. We know. We have been there ourselves. We know how it feels and that all you need is a guide, to give you a plan to help you win the day. So we invite you to take the next baby step. If we don't call you to take action, then we are not helping you and life will only stay the same. It will reflect an unexplored set of feelings about your self that could harm your future. Lets put those to sleep and be focused on what is awake within you. We invite you to go forward and take the first tinniest baby step now. THE FLORALICIOUS PLAN Step 1 Sign up to The London Flower Lover blog. Open up your Floralicious conversation about relaxation, perception and flowers of all kinds. Step 2 Sign up for the empowerment plan that will work for you. At this stage are really ready to commit to your self caring. So choose your plan carefully. Each plan makes you available to the mechanics of your personal wholeness because you allow yourself to. No one is forcing you. Each plan gives you a reliable schedule of activity to bring your attention back to yourself. These plans use a mixture of techniques to awaken you . Repeatedly offered through story, gratitude journaling and more as you reflect the life you desire to breathe life into. By using flowers, you experience the boost of beautifully inspiring collections of flower designs. All you need to do is to align with that feeling. This is what makes this package a personal attunement to your natural aliveness and abundance! Step 3 You are now ready to use very specific flowers and self gifting to help you express yourself. You are ready to give yourself a licence to express yourself like never before. No longer intimidated by stress, you use flowers and self gifting to express the life that is breathing you. Your awesomeness is re-discovered, revealed and remembered. We invite you into your own Floralicious universe as you unwind, relax and enjoy happiness beyond stress.
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2 Responses to Flowers for overachieving women workers and entrepreneurs – overworked, overburdened,overstressed-what next?

  1. Briana says:

    AMAZING! I love your posts. Thank you we have the same customer. Thank you for treating her with such kindness and love. It is what I strive to do as well. Love Briana

    • Gosh, she is at our hearts….this woman….this customer….she is us….we are her….her life matters so much….to us….to her……and she offers us a compass to open up our hearts….to heal the busyiness …to heal the hearts sadness and to soothe the heat of that overwork that makes so many of us angry because it takes us away from our feminine dreams……however this overburden in another way is an invitation that we are being offered to open up our hearts to the tools, gifts and help that is around….

      ……gosh we really felt that and just know that it is beauty that can soothe at these times…..the true beauty of knowing our real source……is infinite…..and thus offers us infininte possiblities to do things differently…..if we just allow ourselves to listen and know we are held from deep within those arms of peace…..mmmmm

      Love you Briana xxx

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