Beloved Flower Lover,
The most difficult relationships are our fast track to love ourselves. When we think of flowers, a number of feelings can be triggered. For an example, those most turbulent relationships or lack of relation are indeed a fast track to guiding you, us, we, to learn to love self as much as we desire it from others to do.
All those ‘issues’ with self, family, romantic, platonic, work, money, health, relationships are actually invitations to go back within and practice the discipline of touching your own heart and loving yourself.
Sometimes we have simply acknowledge that we have got into bad habits of seeing our magnificent self. For an example, panic is a bad habit of spinning yourself like a top. Instead practise slowing right down.That’s the way to stop interfering with your change.It’s the way of keeping the oven door closed rather than constantly opening the oven door. It takes a little while to decide to stop frantically running to and fro from person to thing to idea. But you can choose just sit still . Breathe. Look at beauty and chuck away the garbage of what you are carrying. The self blame and self criticism. Instead allow beauty to comfort you. Perhaps use flowers are your personal reminder of the best ever and most beautiful capabilities.
Listening to yourself means casting of your training wheels and noticing how you feel comfort as you slow down. Rather than grabbing at straws, get into the habit of allowing yourself to relax on how you really want to feel allows. Get into the habit to take in the comfort of what love feels like to you. Let that feeling really penetrate you and comfort you. Allow the practice to change you. Allow yourself to recieve.
The London Flower Lover