London Florists find research about how to stay out of divorce and in love

Beloved Flower Lovers,

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As you might know we are in the wedding and self love business. We post pictures about flowers and how they relate to our everyday lives. We are of use to our community because we offer flower arrangements that people can use to convey feelings of genuine love and kindness.

Seems so simple. So effective. We find that just by giving and receiving flowers people’s stress levels reduce. For both giver and receiver.  So these simple acts of loving kindness act like a subtle health insurance on the whole heart.

The flowers are really a part of an emotional coaching kit and connection building activity that results in creating safer spaces for the free flow of love and the airing out of bad feelings between people. Great value for money we feel for whole hearted wellbeing.  Anyway, after hearing about the book ‘Wabi Sabi’ love by Arielle Ford, we found her comments about the research by John Gottman about staying out of divorce and being in love breathtaking. We found his research provided lots of little tips that linked with so much other research we have found about kindness, the heart and sharing beauty from nature.

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On reflection, love is not exclusive to romantic relationships as Robert Holden’s book on ‘Loveability’ reminds us. In fact we are deeply aware of not getting lost in the false notions of romantic love as being our only source of love. Love is in all our relationships. Smiling we feel richly warmed by Harville Hendricks reminder that we can heal each other into wholeness through our intimate romantic relationships. Or as Iylanya Vazant says, “feel the peace from broken pieces”.


Any way, as you look at this short clip you may like to note down the ratio of loving kind acts that you may need to put into action to compensate for just one negative behaviour in your relationship.

So it seems that our emotional bank accounts needs a 5 to 1 ratio top up. An investment that plants seeds which pay back and pay forward in our lives. And it starts with us. Our own love for self.

Five positive acts for one negative seems to be the plan. Now of course we are going to suggest that maybe flowers might be involved with expressing just one of those loving acts of kindness. Sorry we are really laughing at ourselves here, such a blatant plug. Anyway let’s get back to the education. What else does this prompt you to give as a loving act of kindness?

five to one ratio

Peace and joy from the laughing team!

The Team

The London Flower Lover

p.s. what follows is a lot more great research on marriage which may give good ideas for giving and receiving flowers.

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About Thelondonflowerlover

Welcome to The London Flower Lover. We are florists who create floral collections to tell your real life story. With colour and texture, we take floristry into an entirely new direction based on the challenges and joys of your life. Offering what we call 'heart based floristry' we use style, fashion, and life situations and merge them with heart based lifestyle support. This inspiring blend creates so much more for those who love flowers. Using flowers in the traditional way of course, but always using flowers to open up a floralicious conversation about relationships of all kinds. We are a sort of work in progress of compassionately confirming how we are already on the inside, the love we want to see out in the world. That is mission of The London Flower Lover. So saying yes to recognising that is at the heart of this blog and using flowers to honour that inner world is how we use the beauty of giving and receiving flowers. This blog is your blog. It's as much about cultivating your heart, as it is about enjoying the physical beauty of flowers. It offers story, poems and video to reflect the life you actually live whilst showing beautifully inspiring collections of flower designs. Hand-tied bouquets, arrangements and more. All this with sought after tips from well established experts on how to keep a happy heart. This is what makes The London Flower Lover unique and magical. Yes, and that's how we make the difference that we do. When life looks, feels, or sounds challenging, we offer a sanctuary that you may dip into. A well of refreshment and strength that you may draw from. Sharing what others have found to be successful ways of being happy in the face of challenges, whilst letting flowers do the talking when we have no other way to interpret what is going on. Use flowers to help you re-discover, reveal and remember how you can still be despite challenges. Use flowers to celebrate and to embody the possibility of your heart felt desire, fulfilled. Use flowers in your life, to remind you of the beauty of your life. Use The London Flower Lover today. We invite you to stay curious in this floral universe as you explore the love in the heart. This is a floralicious world.
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4 Responses to London Florists find research about how to stay out of divorce and in love

  1. Alastair says:

    I want to thank you for your support yesterday. Normally when I have a weak moment, I sort it out. I don’t normally crash like I did. So thank you. 🙂


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