London Florists find research about how to stay out of divorce and in love

Beloved Flower Lovers,

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As you might know we are in the wedding and self love business. We post pictures about flowers and how they relate to our everyday lives. We are of use to our community because we offer flower arrangements that people can use to convey feelings of genuine love and kindness.

Seems so simple. So effective. We find that just by giving and receiving flowers people’s stress levels reduce. For both giver and receiver.  So these simple acts of loving kindness act like a subtle health insurance on the whole heart.

The flowers are really a part of an emotional coaching kit and connection building activity that results in creating safer spaces for the free flow of love and the airing out of bad feelings between people. Great value for money we feel for whole hearted wellbeing.  Anyway, after hearing about the book ‘Wabi Sabi’ love by Arielle Ford, we found her comments about the research by John Gottman about staying out of divorce and being in love breathtaking. We found his research provided lots of little tips that linked with so much other research we have found about kindness, the heart and sharing beauty from nature.

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On reflection, love is not exclusive to romantic relationships as Robert Holden’s book on ‘Loveability’ reminds us. In fact we are deeply aware of not getting lost in the false notions of romantic love as being our only source of love. Love is in all our relationships. Smiling we feel richly warmed by Harville Hendricks reminder that we can heal each other into wholeness through our intimate romantic relationships. Or as Iylanya Vazant says, “feel the peace from broken pieces”.


Any way, as you look at this short clip you may like to note down the ratio of loving kind acts that you may need to put into action to compensate for just one negative behaviour in your relationship.

So it seems that our emotional bank accounts needs a 5 to 1 ratio top up. An investment that plants seeds which pay back and pay forward in our lives. And it starts with us. Our own love for self.

Five positive acts for one negative seems to be the plan. Now of course we are going to suggest that maybe flowers might be involved with expressing just one of those loving acts of kindness. Sorry we are really laughing at ourselves here, such a blatant plug. Anyway let’s get back to the education. What else does this prompt you to give as a loving act of kindness?

five to one ratio

Peace and joy from the laughing team!

The Team

The London Flower Lover

p.s. what follows is a lot more great research on marriage which may give good ideas for giving and receiving flowers.

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Most busy people struggle with knowing how to really give themselves the time they deserve for genuine self caring. They can get so lost in their daily responsibilities that they lose themselves. They can get sick, tired, or just lose their way. We provide self caring and self loving packages that make use of the natural relaxing abilities of tools like flowers, and so much more, all designed to give a reliable, regular, rebalancing booster, to recharge their inner batteries so that they can enjoy life again. So welcome to this Floralicious universe, where you are the hero. Yes, that's right. We know that you have one clear desire. To be happy. We also know that something is stopping you from getting it. That is where we step in.a Things get done because you allow them to. We are your guide florists who provide you with answers for that stress. We do this using baby steps, providing you with relaxing and beautiful flowers to help you connect with your wellness. In our baby step plans we combine flowers, with a holistic appreciation of what it takes for you to be free of your challenge. In our opinion you are a hero, not a helpless victim. It is our belief that no one needs to struggle with stress if they are guided properly. We gently guide those who are stressed at work, at home or anywhere in between. We guide those who have declared that its time to stop dabbling with what they desire. And using those baby steps, we carefully guide those who are ready to experience a transformation. We would never deny the fact that flowers for your birthday, holidays and special occasions are amazing to send and receive. Those florist that specifically specialise in that line of floristry are fantastic. Yet what we are doing here points you in another direction. It's deeper. It points your attention inwards. To self. To boost yourself up on a REGULAR basis. That's a part of how we guide you through to become free of your stress. We invite you to see how life is breathing you and how you are part of life's nature. So what you uncover is really you discovering your own awesomeness. You learn how that is natural and not an exception. From that point of view , we are inviting you to let go of dabbling around . This process that aligns you with the truth of your nature,puts asleep those doubts that interfere with your desires.Putting asleep the elephant in the room and inviting you to discover your own process of moving from feeling stressed to calm, from feeling uncertainty to being confident, from feeling lonely to being in gratitude for the connections with others. We recognise what you want. We know. We have been there ourselves. We know how it feels and that all you need is a guide, to give you a plan to help you win the day. So we invite you to take the next baby step. If we don't call you to take action, then we are not helping you and life will only stay the same. It will reflect an unexplored set of feelings about your self that could harm your future. Lets put those to sleep and be focused on what is awake within you. We invite you to go forward and take the first tinniest baby step now. THE FLORALICIOUS PLAN Step 1 Sign up to The London Flower Lover blog. Open up your Floralicious conversation about relaxation, perception and flowers of all kinds. Step 2 Sign up for the empowerment plan that will work for you. At this stage are really ready to commit to your self caring. So choose your plan carefully. Each plan makes you available to the mechanics of your personal wholeness because you allow yourself to. No one is forcing you. Each plan gives you a reliable schedule of activity to bring your attention back to yourself. These plans use a mixture of techniques to awaken you . Repeatedly offered through story, gratitude journaling and more as you reflect the life you desire to breathe life into. By using flowers, you experience the boost of beautifully inspiring collections of flower designs. All you need to do is to align with that feeling. This is what makes this package a personal attunement to your natural aliveness and abundance! Step 3 You are now ready to use very specific flowers and self gifting to help you express yourself. You are ready to give yourself a licence to express yourself like never before. No longer intimidated by stress, you use flowers and self gifting to express the life that is breathing you. Your awesomeness is re-discovered, revealed and remembered. We invite you into your own Floralicious universe as you unwind, relax and enjoy happiness beyond stress.
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4 Responses to London Florists find research about how to stay out of divorce and in love

  1. Alastair says:

    I want to thank you for your support yesterday. Normally when I have a weak moment, I sort it out. I don’t normally crash like I did. So thank you. 🙂

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