Flowers for her who is so angry that a loving man did not come into her life when she could have had children and now he has appeared. Is this our mission to feel it, to heal it!

Beloved Flower Lover,

I have to forgive self for every choice in my life.

I have to be with this deepest grief.

This darkest space has opened up for healing.

This is not about an abortion, it’s not about that.

It’s not about adoption either.

It’s about just that dark, dark space of anger

being so conscientious

never been a nun either

now being with a wonderfully loving man .

reciprocal love


He said it: want us to have a child

She did not answer out loud

but did inside

I can’t.

Said it. At last.

It’s done!


Flowers seem to be a sort of embracing coach, who can soak up the cleansing tears. Flowers are a reminder of the beauty in all. That this situation is exactly as it should be.  This super power of beauty and peace comes up right about now,so this can be  cleaned up as it should.

Still can’t look him in the eye

Still can’t speak

The radical grief which is infinitely here is wide open to fully embrace self instead.We have been told from the beginning that

‘she would bring a child forward’


the greatest joy for a woman is to have a child


who wants a child at your age!

is that true? really?

This whole subject really needs so much more light.

White flowers Take Neither Gain Nor Loss to heart is Peace The London Flower Lover

I accept divine love.

I accept divine love

I accept divine love.

Putting the pieces back together again, and considering the truism that,

‘Everything here is to serve and comes here to heal ‘.

We get real and today we name it. To Heal it.

Perfect time to love this  darkest womb place

Time to love




The Team,

The London Flower Lover


About Thelondonflowerlover

Welcome to The London Flower Lover. We are florists who create floral collections to tell your real life story. With colour and texture, we take floristry into an entirely new direction based on the challenges and joys of your life. Offering what we call 'heart based floristry' we use style, fashion, and life situations and merge them with heart based lifestyle support. This inspiring blend creates so much more for those who love flowers. Using flowers in the traditional way of course, but always using flowers to open up a floralicious conversation about relationships of all kinds. We are a sort of work in progress of compassionately confirming how we are already on the inside, the love we want to see out in the world. That is mission of The London Flower Lover. So saying yes to recognising that is at the heart of this blog and using flowers to honour that inner world is how we use the beauty of giving and receiving flowers. This blog is your blog. It's as much about cultivating your heart, as it is about enjoying the physical beauty of flowers. It offers story, poems and video to reflect the life you actually live whilst showing beautifully inspiring collections of flower designs. Hand-tied bouquets, arrangements and more. All this with sought after tips from well established experts on how to keep a happy heart. This is what makes The London Flower Lover unique and magical. Yes, and that's how we make the difference that we do. When life looks, feels, or sounds challenging, we offer a sanctuary that you may dip into. A well of refreshment and strength that you may draw from. Sharing what others have found to be successful ways of being happy in the face of challenges, whilst letting flowers do the talking when we have no other way to interpret what is going on. Use flowers to help you re-discover, reveal and remember how you can still be despite challenges. Use flowers to celebrate and to embody the possibility of your heart felt desire, fulfilled. Use flowers in your life, to remind you of the beauty of your life. Use The London Flower Lover today. We invite you to stay curious in this floral universe as you explore the love in the heart. This is a floralicious world.
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