How being annoyed with the play, fun and good life of other people, may help us to draw beautiful flowers into your life

Beloved flower Lover,

We were thinking about the Facebook phenomena, where people post happy smiley faces,a wonderful life with all their successes and achievements. Knowing that that is often fake we began to think about how sometimes we reject the play, flowers and beauty in our lives and how its useful to be aware that it might even irritate us if we see it in other people’s lives, even in a photo.

Is that familiar?

Is this a commitment to being one down,  seeing ourselves as an underdog, seeing ourselves as a victim, who will ‘never’ be able to have what we want to be?love, freedom,peace?

Making beauty, play, flowers bad and wrong as we work to raise our families. Raising our eyebrows at the thought of  making enjoyment, playfulness, flowers and beauty  apart of our lives whilst we are responsible for our families.

Is it possible to consider this.


“I am a workhorse and I am lazy”

“Responsible and irresponsible.”

I am all of this and it’s ok


Find lazy in ourselves as well as beauty, as we look at the lives of others and ourselves, may help us to begin to clarify our real purpose and where true self love comes from. When there is no wrong way to live our lives when we come from a place of peace about our worthiness and the future we want to live into.

Not a big believer in just manifesting, we have to bring in some clear action. We have to meet the desire with action, so all parts of us, the workhorse and the lazy one become as one.

Maybe just a quick examination of beliefs. To journal, to write down on paper the beliefs we currently have about money and work. Then go one by one and finding a counter example to that belief. Then create a new empowering belief which we can use in place. You are allowed to rethink about yourself as worthy!

We are all one!

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Stand up for yourself as you allow yourself to stand up for the yumminess of life for us all.

Perhaps, just do nothing for a little bit and reminding yourself that you are worthy just as you are, even if you have not got it all together-(so called)!


The Team,

The London Flower Lover

p.s. perhaps we can expand the capacity to have and recieve all parts of ourselves without beating ourselves up……stand up for what you deserve to recieve

About Thelondonflowerlover

Welcome to The London Flower Lover. We are florists who create floral collections to tell your real life story. With colour and texture, we take floristry into an entirely new direction based on the challenges and joys of your life. Offering what we call 'heart based floristry' we use style, fashion, and life situations and merge them with heart based lifestyle support. This inspiring blend creates so much more for those who love flowers. Using flowers in the traditional way of course, but always using flowers to open up a floralicious conversation about relationships of all kinds. We are a sort of work in progress of compassionately confirming how we are already on the inside, the love we want to see out in the world. That is mission of The London Flower Lover. So saying yes to recognising that is at the heart of this blog and using flowers to honour that inner world is how we use the beauty of giving and receiving flowers. This blog is your blog. It's as much about cultivating your heart, as it is about enjoying the physical beauty of flowers. It offers story, poems and video to reflect the life you actually live whilst showing beautifully inspiring collections of flower designs. Hand-tied bouquets, arrangements and more. All this with sought after tips from well established experts on how to keep a happy heart. This is what makes The London Flower Lover unique and magical. Yes, and that's how we make the difference that we do. When life looks, feels, or sounds challenging, we offer a sanctuary that you may dip into. A well of refreshment and strength that you may draw from. Sharing what others have found to be successful ways of being happy in the face of challenges, whilst letting flowers do the talking when we have no other way to interpret what is going on. Use flowers to help you re-discover, reveal and remember how you can still be despite challenges. Use flowers to celebrate and to embody the possibility of your heart felt desire, fulfilled. Use flowers in your life, to remind you of the beauty of your life. Use The London Flower Lover today. We invite you to stay curious in this floral universe as you explore the love in the heart. This is a floralicious world.
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