Beloved Flower Lover,
We got a text yesterday from a client who said she had been in her garden collecting all the wild flowers she could for her summer solstice vase .
She had been listening to us talk about how anyone can celebrate the fullness of this midsummer’s time despite the humidity and rain in London. And that it’s the ideal time for giving thanks for what’s around in nature. Including the challenges too, because they help to shape us into the beauties we are.
She said she was calmly and quietly inspired.
Since then she said she had been going into the garden of her parents home and cutting fresh flowers. Roses, sweetpeas, irises and more.
She was putting the flowers in the empty vases in the usually empty living room….
Well it was not technically empty. It had every picture of the children and grandchildren smiling from all the windowsills. Every ornament, Every modern electronic gadget turned on, but with no one watching anything or talking to each other.
Believe it or not she had noticed that her elderly parents who where usually in two separate rooms. One watching another tiny TV, the other sewing, where now coming into the living room and sitting together.
Talking…
She had noticed this happening ever since she had been putting flowers in there.
Last night her senior mother blurted out
“I used to do what you are doing….It was my chore to do it in the family …My dad used to make me do that every day after sweeping and shining the floor before I went to school. That was my job too.”
Now in reflection that was nice enough but what was even more powerful was considering this in light of the situation that this grown woman was speaking from. She herself had had to return back home with her daughter after having her own home repossessed and having had no money to pay for her divorce. She had returned home to an angry elderly mother who would criticise her for the way she raised her granddaughter and for working outside the home
Disappointment in her daughter had turned into outrageous hostility and anger. Anger that did not instruct or elevate or inform.
You see she had moved seven times in the last eight years and refused to take government monies because…..well….
Our client however had chosen to build the value of her precious relationship with her ‘one time miserable mother’, with peace and sweetness instead. She had accepted that peace and sweetness has it’s own intelligence and would be using that now as her guide.
‘Mindshift flowers’, she called them.
She was using them to help her plunge headlong into letting go of ‘her bellyfat’ of doubts and let go of her ‘hips’ of humiliation and ‘arms’ of shame, all having had come from desperately wanting to impress her family.
She had more to offer the women, the men in her family.
After acknowledging that she was no longer going to live that way she decided to change. Educating herself and those around her through her own practise of peace,happiness and pleasure on what ever monies she had…
She used a simple flower as her game changer.
The team
The London Flower Lover
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Most busy people struggle with knowing how to really give themselves the time they deserve for genuine self caring. They can get so lost in their daily responsibilities that they lose themselves. They can get sick, tired, or just lose their way. We provide self caring and self loving packages that make use of the natural relaxing abilities of tools like flowers, and so much more, all designed to give a reliable, regular, rebalancing booster, to recharge their inner batteries so that they can enjoy life again.
So welcome to this Floralicious universe, where you are the hero. Yes, that's right. We know that you have one clear desire. To be happy. We also know that something is stopping you from getting it. That is where we step in.a
Things get done because you allow them to. We are your guide florists who provide you with answers for that stress. We do this using baby steps, providing you with relaxing and beautiful flowers to help you connect with your wellness. In our baby step plans we combine flowers, with a holistic appreciation of what it takes for you to be free of your challenge. In our opinion you are a hero, not a helpless victim. It is our belief that no one needs to struggle with stress if they are guided properly.
We gently guide those who are stressed at work, at home or anywhere in between. We guide those who have declared that its time to stop dabbling with what they desire. And using those baby steps, we carefully guide those who are ready to experience a transformation.
We would never deny the fact that flowers for your birthday, holidays and special occasions are amazing to send and receive. Those florist that specifically specialise in that line of floristry are fantastic. Yet what we are doing here points you in another direction. It's deeper. It points your attention inwards. To self. To boost yourself up on a REGULAR basis. That's a part of how we guide you through to become free of your stress.
We invite you to see how life is breathing you and how you are part of life's nature. So what you uncover is really you discovering your own awesomeness. You learn how that is natural and not an exception. From that point of view , we are inviting you to let go of dabbling around . This process that aligns you with the truth of your nature,puts asleep those doubts that interfere with your desires.Putting asleep the elephant in the room and inviting you to discover your own process of moving from feeling stressed to calm, from feeling uncertainty to being confident, from feeling lonely to being in gratitude for the connections with others.
We recognise what you want. We know. We have been there ourselves. We know how it feels and that all you need is a guide, to give you a plan to help you win the day. So we invite you to take the next baby step. If we don't call you to take action, then we are not helping you and life will only stay the same. It will reflect an unexplored set of feelings about your self that could harm your future. Lets put those to sleep and be focused on what is awake within you. We invite you to go forward and take the first tinniest baby step now.
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Step 2
Sign up for the empowerment plan that will work for you. At this stage are really ready to commit to your self caring. So choose your plan carefully.
Each plan makes you available to the mechanics of your personal wholeness because you allow yourself to. No one is forcing you. Each plan gives you a reliable schedule of activity to bring your attention back to yourself. These plans use a mixture of techniques to awaken you . Repeatedly offered through story, gratitude journaling and more as you reflect the life you desire to breathe life into. By using flowers, you experience the boost of beautifully inspiring collections of flower designs. All you need to do is to align with that feeling. This is what makes this package a personal attunement to your natural aliveness and abundance!
Step 3
You are now ready to use very specific flowers and self gifting to help you express yourself. You are ready to give yourself a licence to express yourself like never before. No longer intimidated by stress, you use flowers and self gifting to express the life that is breathing you. Your awesomeness is re-discovered, revealed and remembered.
We invite you into your own Floralicious universe as you unwind, relax and enjoy happiness beyond stress.
The London Flower Lover 
Repossession +
Disgruntled Grieving Matriarch +
Wild, Flowery, Domestic Clusters
= (EQUALS) Peace and Joy?
Yay!! Go Girl!
Give thanks!!!
All Love,
GebMama xXx
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Wow. What an inspiring story.
Things happen to us us all to help us bring heaven down to earth.It’s lovely how old childhood patterns that emerge can change through peace and flowers. Thank you for popping by.
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it was a vibration of love, peace and joy that she was holding and expressed through flowers. She created more wellnes in the family home and the attitude of peace vibrated through the home for herself and others. She sent forth a vibration rocket that thrilled us. Flowers expressed the vibration of that peace love and joy. The precursor. The flowers reflected her within the relationship she desired. The flowers reflected the creator in her. Her prosperity in relation with everything that exists. We hold steady for this and give thanks for it.