She was aging ten years more quickly ….curious to change, she got a floral gift of pleasure after submitting to Nobel Prize Winner Elizabeth Blackburn

Beloved Flower Lover,

no time to love up on beauty,

too much on her plate….or that’s what she percieved….


muffin top, feeling fat, frazzled, and feeling unjuicy

a pre menopausal over giver….

children, work, husband….she almost dropped from over work and less than her need for 8 hugs a day…

married to Mr Cortisol….

pleasure deficient

last thing on her mind was sex….

she didn’t even know she had been robbed of her 8 hugs that day…

blaming herself about the pleasure island that she could never get too….


no pleasure,

running and spinning class,

she wanted to be rewarded by the images of male productvity

scared to have an awesome dance party with her friends and children…

it got too much…..she went back to the drawing board,

resetting the system,

she opened a new door,

even though some of the pleasures looked ridiculous

she breathed out….and

brought to her eyes and nose a scene and scent of natural beauty,

her left hand outstretched and open she was given the darkest dark chocolate she had seen and felt it sitting  on her tongue and tenderly melting,

music seemed to hold her hand,

she was given a pleasure cocktail of omega 3, phosphastidly serine,rhodolia and holy basil in mango juice…followed with dark cacoa chocolate.

she began to sway, smile and take tiny baby steps of dancing with the stress….

then gifted a flower of her choice to leave with,

her perception of the stress on her plate totally changed and her age slowed down…

she danced and without shame she admitted,

“I can’t control myself”…I need a hug…she was a recovering stress junkie

self  blame had left the room and self-love filled it up….the sandalwood and epsom bath was now being set…

pure pleasured was rocking the room…

….and he knew it.

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The Team,

The London Flower Lover,

p.s.omg…eat, move and gift with pleasure. Listening to Dr Sara Gottfried and get your permission to embrace your pleasure and soften into the feminine nuture.

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About Thelondonflowerlover

Most busy people struggle with knowing how to really give themselves the time they deserve for genuine self caring. They can get so lost in their daily responsibilities that they lose themselves. They can get sick, tired, or just lose their way. We provide self caring and self loving packages that make use of the natural relaxing abilities of tools like flowers, and so much more, all designed to give a reliable, regular, rebalancing booster, to recharge their inner batteries so that they can enjoy life again. So welcome to this Floralicious universe, where you are the hero. Yes, that's right. We know that you have one clear desire. To be happy. We also know that something is stopping you from getting it. That is where we step in.a Things get done because you allow them to. We are your guide florists who provide you with answers for that stress. We do this using baby steps, providing you with relaxing and beautiful flowers to help you connect with your wellness. In our baby step plans we combine flowers, with a holistic appreciation of what it takes for you to be free of your challenge. In our opinion you are a hero, not a helpless victim. It is our belief that no one needs to struggle with stress if they are guided properly. We gently guide those who are stressed at work, at home or anywhere in between. We guide those who have declared that its time to stop dabbling with what they desire. And using those baby steps, we carefully guide those who are ready to experience a transformation. We would never deny the fact that flowers for your birthday, holidays and special occasions are amazing to send and receive. Those florist that specifically specialise in that line of floristry are fantastic. Yet what we are doing here points you in another direction. It's deeper. It points your attention inwards. To self. To boost yourself up on a REGULAR basis. That's a part of how we guide you through to become free of your stress. We invite you to see how life is breathing you and how you are part of life's nature. So what you uncover is really you discovering your own awesomeness. You learn how that is natural and not an exception. From that point of view , we are inviting you to let go of dabbling around . This process that aligns you with the truth of your nature,puts asleep those doubts that interfere with your desires.Putting asleep the elephant in the room and inviting you to discover your own process of moving from feeling stressed to calm, from feeling uncertainty to being confident, from feeling lonely to being in gratitude for the connections with others. We recognise what you want. We know. We have been there ourselves. We know how it feels and that all you need is a guide, to give you a plan to help you win the day. So we invite you to take the next baby step. If we don't call you to take action, then we are not helping you and life will only stay the same. It will reflect an unexplored set of feelings about your self that could harm your future. Lets put those to sleep and be focused on what is awake within you. We invite you to go forward and take the first tinniest baby step now. THE FLORALICIOUS PLAN Step 1 Sign up to The London Flower Lover blog. Open up your Floralicious conversation about relaxation, perception and flowers of all kinds. Step 2 Sign up for the empowerment plan that will work for you. At this stage are really ready to commit to your self caring. So choose your plan carefully. Each plan makes you available to the mechanics of your personal wholeness because you allow yourself to. No one is forcing you. Each plan gives you a reliable schedule of activity to bring your attention back to yourself. These plans use a mixture of techniques to awaken you . Repeatedly offered through story, gratitude journaling and more as you reflect the life you desire to breathe life into. By using flowers, you experience the boost of beautifully inspiring collections of flower designs. All you need to do is to align with that feeling. This is what makes this package a personal attunement to your natural aliveness and abundance! Step 3 You are now ready to use very specific flowers and self gifting to help you express yourself. You are ready to give yourself a licence to express yourself like never before. No longer intimidated by stress, you use flowers and self gifting to express the life that is breathing you. Your awesomeness is re-discovered, revealed and remembered. We invite you into your own Floralicious universe as you unwind, relax and enjoy happiness beyond stress.
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