Call your bluff and choose flowers as a way of feeling good about yourself and see what happens- Has your self-perception caught up with our present capability and readiness for love,beauty and joy in your life?

Beloved Flower Lover,

We recognized that some peoples  self-perception has not caught up with their readiness to express more in  life. Many want to express more with their lives (more love, esteem, health, career fulfillment, balance, etc.) however being ready to express a greater capacity is quite another thing.


Been there?

When one has sincerely engaged any self-improvement (in whatever ways resonate) it can’t help but promote a greater readiness (ability) to express and fulfill the potential which all intentions, desires and goals represent.

However one culprit commonly undermines exercising the readiness that enables you to realize desires is the arch-enemy of progress; the root often times of doubt, procrastination and self-sabotage. That culprit is a static self-perception.

It’s powerful. Many older cultures knew this and had certain ways to refocus the identity. Hetheru, Aphrodite,Venus, Hathor, Mami Wata, Oshun were all focused on addressing ones self perception. Being the source of their own beauty comes from putting in a mental deposit into yourself.


Het Heru: British Museum-The London Flower Lover

Het Heru: British Museum-The London Flower Lover

When one is unconsciously tied to a historically, familiar perception of one’s self coming from a past challenge, or so-called failure, patterns and habits, it is like an invisible quarantine imprisoning one’s present readiness for you today.

Because you are so ‘intimate’ with your identity, it is easy for your growing ability and readiness to be blanked out by your intimate identification with your past.


This old inner photograph of your familiar identity can remain the reference point holding your present readiness in place. A bit like a hostage. Even though you have released or reconciled old issues, triggers and ideas, you still feel like, well, you.

Yet its not a bad thing.

The truth is that even as you get more involved with your potential and possibility you will  feel like you . Mistakenly assuming that, that “you” – represents the limited you; when that familiar sense of you actually represents the  ‘real you’ – even when the most limited, restricted capacity of you was expressing itself.

If you really get with this you will notice that it’s  a game-changer in enjoying your inner fulfillment.

Many of us are facing this.

Really what this is about is that our self-perception has not caught up with our present capability and readiness.

Our suggestions is that we can deal with this in two essential ways.

Its a bit like“Calling the Ego’s Bluff.”

1)   No longer allow yourself to be victimized by self-doubt.

Start doing the things your self-doubt  says you can’t accomplish with the awareness that the ‘inner chat’ is nothing more than familiarity with old self-perception. It will fill your mental bank.

2)      Recognize that confidence is increased by exercising your present readiness  i.e. not by waiting to feel more confident. Again, fill your mental bank.

As you keep doing this steadily from exercising your present readiness you begin to  regard yourself  in a way that  is more relevant to who you are today. Yes.

Confidence in your ability to fulfill is increasingly gained through letting your present readiness come out and play.

Call the Ego’s Bluff- by filling your mental bank with the joys of life….and that could be flowers-for yourself or others!

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The team,


The London Flower Lover

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About Thelondonflowerlover

Welcome to The London Flower Lover. We are florists who create floral collections to tell your real life story. With colour and texture, we take floristry into an entirely new direction based on the challenges and joys of your life. Offering what we call 'heart based floristry' we use style, fashion, and life situations and merge them with heart based lifestyle support. This inspiring blend creates so much more for those who love flowers. Using flowers in the traditional way of course, but always using flowers to open up a floralicious conversation about relationships of all kinds. We are a sort of work in progress of compassionately confirming how we are already on the inside, the love we want to see out in the world. That is mission of The London Flower Lover. So saying yes to recognising that is at the heart of this blog and using flowers to honour that inner world is how we use the beauty of giving and receiving flowers. This blog is your blog. It's as much about cultivating your heart, as it is about enjoying the physical beauty of flowers. It offers story, poems and video to reflect the life you actually live whilst showing beautifully inspiring collections of flower designs. Hand-tied bouquets, arrangements and more. All this with sought after tips from well established experts on how to keep a happy heart. This is what makes The London Flower Lover unique and magical. Yes, and that's how we make the difference that we do. When life looks, feels, or sounds challenging, we offer a sanctuary that you may dip into. A well of refreshment and strength that you may draw from. Sharing what others have found to be successful ways of being happy in the face of challenges, whilst letting flowers do the talking when we have no other way to interpret what is going on. Use flowers to help you re-discover, reveal and remember how you can still be despite challenges. Use flowers to celebrate and to embody the possibility of your heart felt desire, fulfilled. Use flowers in your life, to remind you of the beauty of your life. Use The London Flower Lover today. We invite you to stay curious in this floral universe as you explore the love in the heart. This is a floralicious world.
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