“Tell the truth about how flower makes you feel in your home”, she said to her mother who used to cuss her about spending money on flowers for her own home

Beloved Flower Lover,

We began to wonder, why should any of our lovely readers want to read about flowers in a blog post? then the rest of the day began to reveal the answer to our judgmental judgment of our work.

“notice the most judgmental thing that you think about, notice the thing you are most ashamed of because it is the lie that is most holding you back”. Martha Beck

“Find the place that you are most ashamed of. Then state the judgment of that thing. The opposite of that statement is the best truth for setting you free right now”.
Martha Beck

We came up with a list of the things we were ashamed of and then realised that, if our readers have learnt,
Self care
Self awareness
Self acceptance
Self trust
Self esteem
Self compassion and forgiveness
Self empowerment
Self expression
Self honouring and respect
Self pleasure
Self worth, all using flowers, then we have done our work.

Is it a lie or is it the truth?

The London Flower Lover

The London Flower Lover

That’s how we started out day, then we got a phone call.

“I have handed in my notice at work… I am following my life purpose?

What began was a conversation about how any adversity you have gone through, bless it because it has brought your knowledge and has become your food. It has helped you to generate energies.

“The flowers open me up”…she said

“when my vase is empty,I miss them”.

“They light up my inner world as well as my external world”…”I do feel like I get some guidance from them”.

She was talking about her flowers.

“I find that I get inspiration from my bouquets, they keeps me grounded…they are thought provoking…It’s when I don’t have them that I notice the difference.

She was on a roll.

“I use to hear my mothers voice say, why are you wasting your flowers? they should be outside”…she paused as she listened to her inner truth.”I normally get them cut price…. to me they give me so much joy, like someone who gives themselves cigarettes or a drink…. I put them into my weekly budget, and now my daughter makes sure that I do that.”

….about to put the phone call on loudspeaker so the rest of the team could listen to her truth,but felt better of it.

“I can do without something else like a bag of crisp or chocolate”…

She seemed to light up, golden in her deep down true feelings.

“everyone who comes here notices the flowers”… “Flowers lift the energy of the room and although my rooms are nicely furnished, you would have thought that guests would have been noticed the furnishing, but it’s the flowers that they comment on.” “They make the room feel good.” “They think I live in Downtown Abbey”

She got past the strongest lie that she used to buy into. Right now as she is is perfect.Her door was open to become who she was meant to be.

“Now my mum loves flowers”

What’s your truth?

The Team,

The London Flower Lover

p.s. awakening has been all what these posts have been about from florists who revealed another way of using flowers, please like, share,comment and subscribe!


About Thelondonflowerlover

Welcome to The London Flower Lover. We are florists who create floral collections to tell your real life story. With colour and texture, we take floristry into an entirely new direction based on the challenges and joys of your life. Offering what we call 'heart based floristry' we use style, fashion, and life situations and merge them with heart based lifestyle support. This inspiring blend creates so much more for those who love flowers. Using flowers in the traditional way of course, but always using flowers to open up a floralicious conversation about relationships of all kinds. We are a sort of work in progress of compassionately confirming how we are already on the inside, the love we want to see out in the world. That is mission of The London Flower Lover. So saying yes to recognising that is at the heart of this blog and using flowers to honour that inner world is how we use the beauty of giving and receiving flowers. This blog is your blog. It's as much about cultivating your heart, as it is about enjoying the physical beauty of flowers. It offers story, poems and video to reflect the life you actually live whilst showing beautifully inspiring collections of flower designs. Hand-tied bouquets, arrangements and more. All this with sought after tips from well established experts on how to keep a happy heart. This is what makes The London Flower Lover unique and magical. Yes, and that's how we make the difference that we do. When life looks, feels, or sounds challenging, we offer a sanctuary that you may dip into. A well of refreshment and strength that you may draw from. Sharing what others have found to be successful ways of being happy in the face of challenges, whilst letting flowers do the talking when we have no other way to interpret what is going on. Use flowers to help you re-discover, reveal and remember how you can still be despite challenges. Use flowers to celebrate and to embody the possibility of your heart felt desire, fulfilled. Use flowers in your life, to remind you of the beauty of your life. Use The London Flower Lover today. We invite you to stay curious in this floral universe as you explore the love in the heart. This is a floralicious world.
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2 Responses to “Tell the truth about how flower makes you feel in your home”, she said to her mother who used to cuss her about spending money on flowers for her own home

  1. As a friend told me back in 2007 when I took up blogging: “If you’re willing to blog about it, someone out there is willing to read it.”


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