We invite you to use flowers and lessons from Nancy Levin who learnt how to move on from divorce in a peaceful way

Beloved Flower Lover,

Sometimes it feels like we are in a tiny niche market as we write about the topics of life, love, loss and flowers. Sometimes we feel so compelled to explore how to use flowers to help soothe us as we explore our inner world in this blog, that we wonder if topics like jealousy and loss are what people want to know about when they look at pretty pretty flowers.

This is even more powerful for us as we consider that we are in the wedding season here and we also know that marriages can end up in divorce.

What do people want flowers use to symbolise?  Well we want them to reflect all parts of life. In fact we want flowers to validate love for our imperfection. This is self love. We give ourselves permission to continue to love ourselves despite that fear. We guess we are in the self love business using flowers. The sort of self love that reclaims the less than pretty parts of us, that we project onto others. So for us, flowers are linked to that inside journey.

Nancy Levin in ‘Reclaiming the Lost Pieces of Me’, shares the one thing that saved her life as her 18-year marriage ended–the courage to invite and welcome change, instead of fearing and hiding from it. She guides people on how to deal with change in their own divorce journey, to heal and grow

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We offer this post as a guide to redirect suffering to peace, love and joy. We are curious how you have been able to use what you have found here.

 

The Team

The LondonFlower Lover

 

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About Thelondonflowerlover

Welcome to The London Flower Lover. We are florists who create floral collections to tell your real life story. With colour and texture, we take floristry into an entirely new direction based on the challenges and joys of your life. Offering what we call 'heart based floristry' we use style, fashion, and life situations and merge them with heart based lifestyle support. This inspiring blend creates so much more for those who love flowers. Using flowers in the traditional way of course, but always using flowers to open up a floralicious conversation about relationships of all kinds. We are a sort of work in progress of compassionately confirming how we are already on the inside, the love we want to see out in the world. That is mission of The London Flower Lover. So saying yes to recognising that is at the heart of this blog and using flowers to honour that inner world is how we use the beauty of giving and receiving flowers. This blog is your blog. It's as much about cultivating your heart, as it is about enjoying the physical beauty of flowers. It offers story, poems and video to reflect the life you actually live whilst showing beautifully inspiring collections of flower designs. Hand-tied bouquets, arrangements and more. All this with sought after tips from well established experts on how to keep a happy heart. This is what makes The London Flower Lover unique and magical. Yes, and that's how we make the difference that we do. When life looks, feels, or sounds challenging, we offer a sanctuary that you may dip into. A well of refreshment and strength that you may draw from. Sharing what others have found to be successful ways of being happy in the face of challenges, whilst letting flowers do the talking when we have no other way to interpret what is going on. Use flowers to help you re-discover, reveal and remember how you can still be despite challenges. Use flowers to celebrate and to embody the possibility of your heart felt desire, fulfilled. Use flowers in your life, to remind you of the beauty of your life. Use The London Flower Lover today. We invite you to stay curious in this floral universe as you explore the love in the heart. This is a floralicious world.
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4 Responses to We invite you to use flowers and lessons from Nancy Levin who learnt how to move on from divorce in a peaceful way

  1. I am the incredibly fortunate third wife of a man who was previously married to two really wonderful women, but with whom the marriages ended in divorce. In both cases, perhaps, the marriages had ‘run their course’ and the partners needed to move on to separate new lives, but despite the happy long-term outcome for all parties, the divorces were of course pretty terrible times. The marvelous thing is that all of them were smart, kind people at heart, and through the struggles they managed to learn and grow and move forward in healthy ways. The end result is that my spouse and I are friends with both women and *their* subsequent spouses, quite close in fact, with his first wife. And I married a man who already knew some of the things he particularly wanted to cultivate in our relationship and marriage. We are beyond lucky, beyond blessed. In all of this, I think that an appreciation for each other’s goodness despite knowing our flaws and weaknesses has (no pun intended) bloomed into greater patience, forgiveness, compassion and encouragement among us all. Flowers, as you know, are the perfect representatives for all of these good attributes, so we treasure a beautiful bouquet or garden all the more these days in our happiness!
    Much love to you,
    Kathryn

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    • Kathryn, you are super cool.We give thanks for you!

      Thank you for sharing your open hearted experience. You defy the statistics about divorce. There is something else that you are doing. Maybe? Could you share it. How did you really prepare yourself to be able to learn and grow. How did you deal with rejection, and any other fears? How did you deal with wounds and open up again for love. How did he? Thank you Beloved Kathryn for sharing, please help us more with your kind advice and shared experience.

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