Beloved Flower Lover, A Netmums website survey found 60% of couples need to plan for lovemaking. It seems that they schedule for it by putting a date in the diary so they lock in their sexy energy between each other. Our breath sped up, in and out, in and out, in and out, like a breath of fire. We felt gripped by the practice. Our breathe of fire began. What a deep honest breath of air, we said here! Before we knew it, we began talking about some setting the alarm clock for early morning loving, some organising a specific night every week, like every Friday night. Or some writing onto their calendars a love heart symbol to remind each other that that was the time when they enjoy each other intimately. We kept deepening the breathing. Rapidly. The things we resist the most are the things we need the most. So we kept it going, it felt great, taking a deep breath in, as we talked about how to bust through the busy schedule and make intimate connections again, and again and again.We had to amp it up. So yes some say that it lacks spontaneity yet others say by time-tabling sex that it keeps it alive in more ways than just the physical. It keep you talking about, thinking about and looking for ways to improve it. So far from being unromantic, planning just adds a whole lot more spice to something that could be best become bland, or at worst fall of the list all together. Connecting to the breathe for the passions in our life is what keeps us so turned on. So switched on. So sparked. The energy lifted and shifted happens as we make the space for sex. To receive it, to welcome it, to enjoy it, despite the other things in our busy business. We receive it healing, soothing gift. So schedule sex in our life and find other ways to predict how you will have a great sex life, by keeping a deep juicy connection with each other. Sex is the glue that holds a relationship together, even if in your diary initially and prophecy a sexy story in your head of time that sets you up to enjoy each other.
So when you do that which seems so difficult right now, that way of keeping the connection going with your beloved, how do you beautify it. Maybe by bringing some flowers into the story. For the men, how about predict how giving her some flowers, or just by setting the mood with the flowers in the room will amplify the enjoyment between each other. For the women, how about looking at flowers and receive the message that is sends to you. That you are so beautiful and magnetic just the way you are. Mmmm, these are all simple people tools that keep each other readily open to receive each other warmly and in love.
So what’s your story? How do you keep the intimate side of your life alive? How do you shift the stuck sexy energy moving into a juicy flowing glow? How? we are so wide open to hear from you.
peace and joy