Sankofa Flowers: Re-creating intimacy after a history of hurt

Beloved Flower Lover,

As part of this season where we are all being drawn inwards, homebound, deeply into the center of our hearts we have created our Sankofa seasonal displays.

It’s  time for us to quietly go into our hearts and through understanding, through self forgiveness, release what keeps away intimacy and to truly embrace that which we hold precious in our hearts. The link between us and our highest most sweetly held desire, fulfilled is what this time reveals to us. Stripping away anything that is keeping us away from that truth, so we can be open to coming together with our true purpose.


We breathe out, as we consider the feeling and move it into our bodies from out of our heads.

It’s a time to embrace the most vulnerable side of ourselves and love it unconditionally. To protect it is to really embrace it and allow it to be what ever it is in its essence.

The gentle strong woman in this next video really inspired us about the power of soft tender vulnerability as she took of her makeup of strength in publi. We wept.

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The London Flower Lover Sankofa flowers sankofa lovers

The woman in this  next video really made it very clear how some of us put things in the way. We put our hands to that. We surrender to how to use our dignity to  reclaim what we most deeply desire.

TheLondonFlowerLover The conversation, how can i love you more

Loving the unlovable can seem like a big ask sometimes.

Sometimes we have to build up to it. Learn about it, become aware how it is holding us back from our most deeply held desires too. To become peaceful about those most familiar parts of ourselves which we sometimes want to ignore, discard or just tolerate creates more loving spaces  within ourselves. And creates that space for others to come in and share. We offer tools to do just that. flowers and all the other tools, techniques, ideas and more that we have offered here at The London Flower Lover.

Both men and women benefit from flowers. You know the ones you give or receive when you least expect it. Those that light you up. Those silent communicators of that precious love we hold in our hearts today.

Yes, we agree that flowers can be given in a very unconscious way. They can be given or received out of  habit without any heart based thought, however we imagine anyone reading this is going to be ready to experience real intimacy today. So why not enjoy your readiness today.

The Team

The London Flower Lover


About Thelondonflowerlover

Welcome to The London Flower Lover. We are florists who create floral collections to tell your real life story. With colour and texture, we take floristry into an entirely new direction based on the challenges and joys of your life. Offering what we call 'heart based floristry' we use style, fashion, and life situations and merge them with heart based lifestyle support. This inspiring blend creates so much more for those who love flowers. Using flowers in the traditional way of course, but always using flowers to open up a floralicious conversation about relationships of all kinds. We are a sort of work in progress of compassionately confirming how we are already on the inside, the love we want to see out in the world. That is mission of The London Flower Lover. So saying yes to recognising that is at the heart of this blog and using flowers to honour that inner world is how we use the beauty of giving and receiving flowers. This blog is your blog. It's as much about cultivating your heart, as it is about enjoying the physical beauty of flowers. It offers story, poems and video to reflect the life you actually live whilst showing beautifully inspiring collections of flower designs. Hand-tied bouquets, arrangements and more. All this with sought after tips from well established experts on how to keep a happy heart. This is what makes The London Flower Lover unique and magical. Yes, and that's how we make the difference that we do. When life looks, feels, or sounds challenging, we offer a sanctuary that you may dip into. A well of refreshment and strength that you may draw from. Sharing what others have found to be successful ways of being happy in the face of challenges, whilst letting flowers do the talking when we have no other way to interpret what is going on. Use flowers to help you re-discover, reveal and remember how you can still be despite challenges. Use flowers to celebrate and to embody the possibility of your heart felt desire, fulfilled. Use flowers in your life, to remind you of the beauty of your life. Use The London Flower Lover today. We invite you to stay curious in this floral universe as you explore the love in the heart. This is a floralicious world.
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4 Responses to Sankofa Flowers: Re-creating intimacy after a history of hurt

  1. Ann Koplow says:

    I’m so glad I discovered your blog today. It’s wonderful. And what I’m reading very much connects with my thoughts and feelings today. Thank you!


    • We are so glad we have discovered you too. This is not by chance. We see things as we are not as they are and thats really been the sentiment we have used to create and maintain this blog. We do look forward to you coming back and sharing your thoughts and feelings.

      All the very best for the New Year from us here.


  2. elena says:

    you have a excellent blog here! would you like to have the invite articles on my weblog?


    • Thank you. We create to help ourselves as well as others. Thank you. It’s all about the love from the heart and how we can use flowers as resources to remind us of our inner assets. So anything that helps us to remember and focus on peace and joy,particulary between people comes from seeing thtt first in ourselves. Flowers, the very gifting of them to ourselves and others can help with that process. Thank you for popping by.


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