Daily pleasure dosages: Flowers and more

Beloved Flower Lover,

A half smile on his face…a warm smile on her face. The body language was like a peaceful non verbal, action-love movie.

He came in, very slowly, eyes smiling, gazing softly, the mouth was wrinkled at the corners. The air felt changed.  It totally changed. No longer looking at the movie. We became the movie. Plunged in it. Soothed,at last, we embraced. Chests heaved out as we breathed outwardly. Feeling Safe. It felt like we had all the time we ever needed to be together.

Flowers were offered.

A time of few words.

He said in each hour we should take 3, 30 sec- one minute pleasure breaks and at the end of the day to take 30 mins of pleasure.

His eyes smiled, our lips smiled. We got the picture.

We did not have the whole story…yet the space for possibilities was open.

His pleasure dosage plan was based on his brain research. He also said yawn, close your eyes and see the first big idea that pops into your heart. What we value deeply matters. Makes a difference. It’s important for us to speak to this deepest value.

He whispered a word into my ear.

The pictures of flowers, of beauty, trust,togetherness, warm half smiles changed my world.

“If it honours what the other values greatly then it creates understanding”, he said

We got to the point.

Our habit of love and appreciation grew

The Team

The London Flower Lover

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About Thelondonflowerlover

Welcome to The London Flower Lover. We are florists who create floral collections to tell your real life story. With colour and texture, we take floristry into an entirely new direction based on the challenges and joys of your life. Offering what we call 'heart based floristry' we use style, fashion, and life situations and merge them with heart based lifestyle support. This inspiring blend creates so much more for those who love flowers. Using flowers in the traditional way of course, but always using flowers to open up a floralicious conversation about relationships of all kinds. We are a sort of work in progress of compassionately confirming how we are already on the inside, the love we want to see out in the world. That is mission of The London Flower Lover. So saying yes to recognising that is at the heart of this blog and using flowers to honour that inner world is how we use the beauty of giving and receiving flowers. This blog is your blog. It's as much about cultivating your heart, as it is about enjoying the physical beauty of flowers. It offers story, poems and video to reflect the life you actually live whilst showing beautifully inspiring collections of flower designs. Hand-tied bouquets, arrangements and more. All this with sought after tips from well established experts on how to keep a happy heart. This is what makes The London Flower Lover unique and magical. Yes, and that's how we make the difference that we do. When life looks, feels, or sounds challenging, we offer a sanctuary that you may dip into. A well of refreshment and strength that you may draw from. Sharing what others have found to be successful ways of being happy in the face of challenges, whilst letting flowers do the talking when we have no other way to interpret what is going on. Use flowers to help you re-discover, reveal and remember how you can still be despite challenges. Use flowers to celebrate and to embody the possibility of your heart felt desire, fulfilled. Use flowers in your life, to remind you of the beauty of your life. Use The London Flower Lover today. We invite you to stay curious in this floral universe as you explore the love in the heart. This is a floralicious world.
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2 Responses to Daily pleasure dosages: Flowers and more

  1. Perfectly timed for the upcoming American Thanksgiving holiday. Love and appreciation, most especially those expressed consistently and graciously, are reasons for being profoundly grateful! Thanks for this lovely meditation. And happy Thanksgiving from here!


    • Happy Thanksgiving Kathryn. We give thanks for your comment. Thanksgiving is part of the American mysteries that you cannot fake. It’s a sincere time about life and death and about whats real and not real. Its a time of life wisdom and is innate in this act of love appreciation and thanksgiving. It will have all its opposites and asks us to know that that is the eternal gift. Something we never loose. So the wall of thanksgiving invites us to find meaning, from our stories, told again and again. Thank you for sharing your comment. We are all up for appreciation and flowers in that still and holy place. Flowers reminds us of the beauty of this mystery of appreciation during a time when we can see so much sorrow in the world. Our hearts know its a mystery for us to feel and be touched by as we live life. The wisdom of thanksgiving is to open up our hearts beyond those sorros and to take the time to appreciate what that might feel like. We wonder what flower you will use for this time of appreciation? We hold that space for you.


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