Beloved Flower Lover,
According to Dr Diana Kirschner , “Go on dates that are exciting, novel and get the adrenaline pumping”.
” Novel experiences can stimulate adrenaline and give you a rush while exciting dates produce dopamine, the brain chemical of love. Go on a roller coaster at the amusement park, rock climbing at your gym, take a helicopter ride, try hiking on a high, winding trail or wind-surfing, make a mad dash to catch sunset at the beach, scream yourselves silly at a football game or the racetrack. Studies show that people who are emotionally aroused, whether by joy, fear, or any feeling, fall in love more easily. As two love researchers once wrote, “Adrenaline makes the heart grow fonder.”
See him in his element. Plan a date around skiing, a performance of his rock band, a wine-tasting event or whatever he excels at. You will catch sides of him you haven’t seen before. His personal power and charisma will be at their height and just may open up a host of juicy feelings.
Try turning yourself on first. Go on a date wearing your sexiest lingerie under your clothes. Flirt with him, get touchy-feely, whisper in his ear and maybe kiss him.
We would add, give yourself flowers that you most love first. Do this so you do not want for them. So if you receive them or not on your dates you still have experienced the joy of the flowers you associate with the best in your life.
Fill yourself up first with happy heart felt memories of yourself. Run through the best images you have about yourself enjoying life, smiling, laughing, and just being joyful or peaceful in your inner heart before you go out . Make that a whole hearted priority. The cause of your intense heart loving feelings is yourself. So why not feel how great it is to keep giving to yourself first from your own heart . Enjoy the heart energy of those feeling of how great it is to give and receive heart felt love.
Just take a moment to breathe in and allow yourself to get into your heart center and feel that energy of loving yourself and receiving that love. If it is trickery if it odd, perhaps suggest you are open to
Energetically, allow it, allow that emotional energy and image to grow bigger, stronger, more powerful, more intense. Make that emotional energy your direction. Just by investing in your energy first to fill up your own heart first, means you will notice different things in your life. Keep it going and discover what happens in your life as you enjoy yourself as being the source of these amazingly intense passionate feelings.
We celebrate your desires and passion manifested in peace and joy
The London Flower Lover