Happy, Happy, Happy 2013

vintageonbedBeloved Flower Lover,

“Baby girl, the scene is set, another year is ahead and has whispered it’s gifts into our hearts already”…he slowly kissed her neck…”we’ve already resolved what we want to bring forward during the Great Stillness Time,The Winter Solstice”…he held her hand and nibbled her ear, “now let’s party…put on your happiness dress, we are going to party and then come home and party like never before”…

He was in a really good mood,  yes really good mood and promised to show her the line dance, the candy dance, the electric slide…and  generously give her flowers to boot.

He looked her in the eye, held her face and said, “watch what I build for us, not what I say. That’s what will matter between us. Just watch.”

She was curious what had been seeded consciously and what still needed her private sweet attention.

She set her bath with 5 drops of her May Tang essential oil and began to get ready for the great night. Hair, make up, new pretty undies. She was peaceful. Certainly not wrestling with the sometimes tense situations she had experienced all year long any longer. She had opened fully to  her natural calm. By the stillness she now loved to immerse in. She was magnetically calm.

So she lit the candles and slid into her inviting bath. She smiled as she felt the waters warmth. She moved in slow motion in the water, eased back. Her eyelids closed slowly. She smiled

He peeked in too, smiled and let her get on with it. He knew he really had decided to live up to those words he had declared.  He was finally working at his professional heavy weight class.

‘Don’t you quit on this just because I am growing in a way I least expected it’, his own conscience was talking to him.

He went and put and put a flower on the bed with her clothes. This was so new for him. Would she notice.

He had been long term unemployed in the UK building trade and could be a real bloke, like the rest of the blokes. Yet it dawned on him on yet another long night of playing cards, as he saw his mates return home, that the worst could happen. He could lose her.

He had melted, yielded, softened and  instead of feeling anxious and paralysed with fear as he used to. He decided instead to do something about himself.

He picked up some of her books, Marianne Williamson, ‘A return to Love’…The Celestine Phrophecy and read them on the train in the mornings to the building site. She had so many she would never noticed.

He decided to put into practise what he had learned.

This girly stuff was beginning to make sense!

He had not told her that he was secretly reading but knew that he was willing to be vulnerable and stop wasting time on things that did not matter.

He had just had another big birthday, been working now as he wanted and was able to buy things again. He was going to take a proper shot this time with her. Not quitting on himself. No more talk. Action. She was too lovely and precious to him. He was happy and felt generous with all his inspiration. Don’t take her for granted. Love and listen a lot more was his mantra. He was cheerful, optimistic. He looked at the possibility of failure but focused on his happiness instead.

He knew he had no idea how much he was going to have to discipline himself, but he was happy…and he did it.

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Where ever you are, could we invite you to think of the happiest person that you know. How are they to others?

In our straw poll, we find that they are generous. An experience of love they choose to feel and share because they have filled up their tank.

They have filled themselves up with genuine feelings about who they are. They then have a better relationship with themselves. A relationship which is loving, compassionate and life enhancing . Especially in the face of adversity.

When things have not happened in a way we would have wanted. Our identity, or our relationship to our selves, can be all about experiencing fear, sadness, grief, worry, or anger. This reference point is changed for the better as we understand the purpose of happiness.  That’s possibly how they have adjusted and re-birthed themselves as that generous person we now see.

Flowers can be a symbol of that happiness. A symbol of joy.  Or a symbol of peace. They can make us feel things when we give or receive them.

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It is our pleasure to will for you continued happiness during 2013.

To you and yours, infinite peace and joy.

The Team

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The London Flower Lover

About Thelondonflowerlover

Most busy people struggle with knowing how to really give themselves the time they deserve for genuine self caring. They can get so lost in their daily responsibilities that they lose themselves. They can get sick, tired, or just lose their way. We provide self caring and self loving packages that make use of the natural relaxing abilities of tools like flowers, and so much more, all designed to give a reliable, regular, rebalancing booster, to recharge their inner batteries so that they can enjoy life again. So welcome to this Floralicious universe, where you are the hero. Yes, that's right. We know that you have one clear desire. To be happy. We also know that something is stopping you from getting it. That is where we step in.a Things get done because you allow them to. We are your guide florists who provide you with answers for that stress. We do this using baby steps, providing you with relaxing and beautiful flowers to help you connect with your wellness. In our baby step plans we combine flowers, with a holistic appreciation of what it takes for you to be free of your challenge. In our opinion you are a hero, not a helpless victim. It is our belief that no one needs to struggle with stress if they are guided properly. We gently guide those who are stressed at work, at home or anywhere in between. We guide those who have declared that its time to stop dabbling with what they desire. And using those baby steps, we carefully guide those who are ready to experience a transformation. We would never deny the fact that flowers for your birthday, holidays and special occasions are amazing to send and receive. Those florist that specifically specialise in that line of floristry are fantastic. Yet what we are doing here points you in another direction. It's deeper. It points your attention inwards. To self. To boost yourself up on a REGULAR basis. That's a part of how we guide you through to become free of your stress. We invite you to see how life is breathing you and how you are part of life's nature. So what you uncover is really you discovering your own awesomeness. You learn how that is natural and not an exception. From that point of view , we are inviting you to let go of dabbling around . This process that aligns you with the truth of your nature,puts asleep those doubts that interfere with your desires.Putting asleep the elephant in the room and inviting you to discover your own process of moving from feeling stressed to calm, from feeling uncertainty to being confident, from feeling lonely to being in gratitude for the connections with others. We recognise what you want. We know. We have been there ourselves. We know how it feels and that all you need is a guide, to give you a plan to help you win the day. So we invite you to take the next baby step. If we don't call you to take action, then we are not helping you and life will only stay the same. It will reflect an unexplored set of feelings about your self that could harm your future. Lets put those to sleep and be focused on what is awake within you. We invite you to go forward and take the first tinniest baby step now. THE FLORALICIOUS PLAN Step 1 Sign up to The London Flower Lover blog. Open up your Floralicious conversation about relaxation, perception and flowers of all kinds. Step 2 Sign up for the empowerment plan that will work for you. At this stage are really ready to commit to your self caring. So choose your plan carefully. Each plan makes you available to the mechanics of your personal wholeness because you allow yourself to. No one is forcing you. Each plan gives you a reliable schedule of activity to bring your attention back to yourself. These plans use a mixture of techniques to awaken you . Repeatedly offered through story, gratitude journaling and more as you reflect the life you desire to breathe life into. By using flowers, you experience the boost of beautifully inspiring collections of flower designs. All you need to do is to align with that feeling. This is what makes this package a personal attunement to your natural aliveness and abundance! Step 3 You are now ready to use very specific flowers and self gifting to help you express yourself. You are ready to give yourself a licence to express yourself like never before. No longer intimidated by stress, you use flowers and self gifting to express the life that is breathing you. Your awesomeness is re-discovered, revealed and remembered. We invite you into your own Floralicious universe as you unwind, relax and enjoy happiness beyond stress.
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8 Responses to Happy, Happy, Happy 2013

  1. Clanmother says:

    Looking forward to another year of following your blog!

  2. catnipoflife says:

    Looking forward to another year with you without a doubt but most importantly,MORE of this story…this is NOT the END! Happy New Year!

  3. Cheryl Turtlemoon says:

    Wonderful post!!!!

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