Flowers for challenging work days with brash people.

Beloved Flower Lover,

Sometimes to live consistent with the truth of peace and joy is not easy.  It’s like in order to do so, you must be inspired to work like a horse that pulls the plow straight ahead, bearing it’s work load and refusing to glance sideways, even to it’s mate, while the workday is in progress.

Sometimes we need to avoid trendy fashions and cliques and dig down deeply. Focusing on classic values of calm and solace helps then and your field will yield a bountiful harvest in the end.To chill with ourselves and be soft with ourselves,maybe.

It matters to us that, you matter and who ever is reading this has the ability to find their way and make progress even in difficult circumstances.  To consider the steps carefully when you are surrounded by powerful forces.

Who ever is reading this has the ability to recognise that weak and strong people can coexist when the weaker element does not impose upon the stronger, and when the weaker maintains good humor and avoids taking bold action.

It’s not about the elephant in the room, or walking on eggshells. No it’s about treading among sleeping tigers gently, so you feel calm and peaceful.

Perhaps you can use flowers to remind you of those gentle,calm feelings whilst the weak are in a position of influence over the strong. Perhaps being polite for this reason is the way to be right now. Maybe to just flow as one is particularly careful of one’s conduct.

It may be a tender time  for you and in the company of brash people, rushing wildly ahead brings misfortune.  Perhaps, now is not a good time for taking the initiative; rather, try getting by with a little grace and good humor. In fact,in the court of a powerful king, the jester often has more power than the prince.

We offer you some soft flowers to remind you of how you might like to feel at this time.

The team

The London Flower Lover



About Thelondonflowerlover

Welcome to The London Flower Lover. We are florists who create floral collections to tell your real life story. With colour and texture, we take floristry into an entirely new direction based on the challenges and joys of your life. Offering what we call 'heart based floristry' we use style, fashion, and life situations and merge them with heart based lifestyle support. This inspiring blend creates so much more for those who love flowers. Using flowers in the traditional way of course, but always using flowers to open up a floralicious conversation about relationships of all kinds. We are a sort of work in progress of compassionately confirming how we are already on the inside, the love we want to see out in the world. That is mission of The London Flower Lover. So saying yes to recognising that is at the heart of this blog and using flowers to honour that inner world is how we use the beauty of giving and receiving flowers. This blog is your blog. It's as much about cultivating your heart, as it is about enjoying the physical beauty of flowers. It offers story, poems and video to reflect the life you actually live whilst showing beautifully inspiring collections of flower designs. Hand-tied bouquets, arrangements and more. All this with sought after tips from well established experts on how to keep a happy heart. This is what makes The London Flower Lover unique and magical. Yes, and that's how we make the difference that we do. When life looks, feels, or sounds challenging, we offer a sanctuary that you may dip into. A well of refreshment and strength that you may draw from. Sharing what others have found to be successful ways of being happy in the face of challenges, whilst letting flowers do the talking when we have no other way to interpret what is going on. Use flowers to help you re-discover, reveal and remember how you can still be despite challenges. Use flowers to celebrate and to embody the possibility of your heart felt desire, fulfilled. Use flowers in your life, to remind you of the beauty of your life. Use The London Flower Lover today. We invite you to stay curious in this floral universe as you explore the love in the heart. This is a floralicious world.
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17 Responses to Flowers for challenging work days with brash people.

  1. Briana says:

    Thanks you so much for your message of kindness & softness. I get caught up in angles and hard places and need to be reminded.
    I will get new flowers today that remind me of who I really am in the world.
    Thank you ; )


  2. Alastair says:

    Flowers was the first thing I thought of for my mum on Friday when I went to see her the day after she was diagnosed with inoperable cancer. Flowers may not be much, but they cheered her up on a day when she was absolutely terrified


    • Flowers acted as your humble servant here. They found their way from your heart straight into hers.

      Flowers guided that flow of love like an arrow between mother and son. How joyful at this time of uncertainty.

      You reminded her that whatever happens to her physical body, that your everlasting love is beautifully reassuring.

      That’s what she wanted to know as true on that day and that’s the unspoken message she received. Flowers, your servants, just amplified that love. You are an empowering son!

      We send her love,love,love. xxxxx


  3. Clanmother says:

    You have an amazing way of distilling complex thoughts into words that have relevance and meaning!


    • We give thanks for listening to the what seems to be relevant at a heart felt level. The credit for this goes to the creator.That guiding ‘spark’ which lives in us all. We give thanks for your posts too,the attention to the happiness of the journey,rather than the outcome . We enjoy your posts too!


    • Oh by the way we laugh, we love our floristry as much as the writing!

      Our chat’s with our customers have moved us so much that we decided to marry them together.

      We feel like we are doing our very best now that we bring together both these expressions to enliven the complex thoughts that many share with us.

      We give thanks for your kind kind kind observation. Your presence acts as water irrigating the crops. It’s vital. Thank you and the rest of the community for being here!


  4. Flowers really can bring you back to nature, and shed light on what’s really important…great reminder TLFL 🙂 xo, Trèsors De Luxe!


  5. Great thoughts. It does often seem that women don’t give themselves permission to simply feel in the way that a man does. Maybe it’s the way we are wired differently, but I think it goes more to the expectations that women feel are put on them, whether they are real or imagined. Your post really digs deep into the idea of letting go of the mundane and the things that hold people (not just women) back from really enjoying life on a sensual level.


    • We give thanks for your comment. We sooooooooooooo relax in a comforting reassuring smile as we agree that both men and women sometimes beat ourselves up, and disallow the simple need to enjoy pleasure. For many reasons. And there are many ways that we can reverse that.

      We are thankful that we are designed in such a way to explore pleasure for its true value. Maybe we are interested in allowing love for all our sensations, because we hear so many women share their personal wisdoms after the reclaim their mojo. That rejuvenation comes from intergrating the tears with pleasures. Allowing for all of that is the flow. We are at he dawn of a new Golden Age that appreciates the deep truth buried in the post. Flowers can provide us with a simple reminder of that. Thank you again for your delightful comment.


      • Blunt,impatience and frustration keeps us away from enjoying pleasure. Somehow flowers slow us down to notice how different we feel when we choose to know that what ever we do, we can access the sensual pleasure that we seek. Because we can realise that that is who we already are. Harmony. We are the answer we seek. Harmony. We give thanks or sharing pleasure with you.


  6. Francesca says:

    There is no day that goes by that I do not look at flowers. For me, it is a magical moment. A moment of absolute beauty, perfection and peace.


  7. cav12 says:

    Wow! Powerful message. Thank you


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