Beloved Flower Lover,
Every one around us seems to be picking to read ‘Fifty Shades of Grey’, yet not us. Curious. Instead we have decided to enjoy listening to our inner voice and open up to be inspired by the alternative first class writings of Betty Herbert. An English woman who is the author of THE 52 SEDUCTIONS, which follows her giving into respectful and funny submissions to re-seduce her husband over one year.
Making really playful choices, she writes in an honest way about how she chooses to listen to natural ways of letting go off old patterns and instead remembering the alternative. The sexy days when they couldn’t keep their hands off each other. When they were unable to contain the urge to ‘snog’ in public. When they were capable of finding erotic suggestion in the way their partner loaded the dishwasher.
Well, Betty and Herbert experienced the playful freedom to choose to remember those days; it was just that after ten years of marriage, that memory was growing increasingly faint, fuzzy and hazy. So defiant Betty was all about playfully giving in. Listening peacefully. Letting go of what no longer served her without guilting herself. Deciding to give way and experience her fretful, fearful, frustrated energy, playfully open up into the first class place of permission, appreciation and peaceful creativity, in its own time instead.
Giving way to lingering and listening to the physical changes in the peaceful energy, rhythmically possessing her, she settled on submitting to heaven on earth. Adopting a new yielding lively approach. Giving into frisky seduction after seduction.
So, ‘THE 52 SEDUCTIONS’, charts Betty and Herbert’s adoption of yielding completely to passion. How by being honestly consenting their emotion to express the depths of their erotic pleasures, that they discovered so much more.
Betty and Herbert made a pact to consent to seduce each other once a week for a year. It was their decision that led them to realise just how rusty they were at yielding to passion. The cool thing was, they really did find having gratitude for the dry spells in their erotic life, medicine. Rather than feeling worried or fretting, they gave way to the strong erotic waves of appreciation for the dry spells . Using their imagination to consent to awakening and returning their mind to what erotic seductions could feel like, again and again.
Betty became very very attractive. She was very responsive. Very. She chose to give herself permission of releasing lies about her sensuality and from this irrestible place she practised openly yielding to the peace already in her heart desires.
Responsively, she honoured what she treasured about womanhood and that energy became entangled with her mate.
Each week she gave in. Letting go of being in control and ‘being on top’. She let herself surrender. Giving up and submitting to letting go of seeing herself as dried up. Each week, each seduction she let go of ‘fixing her life’, and concentrated on listening to the emerging feelings about how her sensuality was a blessing to herself and others. She opened up to real seduction.
Well, we have added the many alluring benefits of opening up to flowers. How they can be enjoyed by lovers, sharing the hormones of closeness you get from kissing and cuddling.
Giving and recieving flowers touch us if we allow. If we consent to yield and give way to being seduced by them in our heart. We can add flowers to the seductive excitement of monogamy which in itself is a choice, an attractive choice of immersion and a daily privilege.
Having beautiful flowers around helps us to consciously give in to choosing to concentrate on the abundance of life. Giving way to that simple action in small steps offers cumulative results. That’s seduction. Giving way to our peaceful heart, our relationships, our seductions become more vibrant.
All lovers relearn about sex differently. Some love the flower thing, others do not. That’s not the point. It’s about giving into repatterning ourselves, because as a lover believes in themselves, they will produce more of the same.
For those re exploring sex again, or not. Let’s forgive and find infinite gratitude for ourselves in all our forms. Use your heart to imagine giving in to forgiving yourself for feeling sex had been a burden, or for feeling you still do not want to change. As long as you are choosing to give way to being peaceful with your decisions then it’s all OK. Then submit to your decision to take a simple action. Something that occurs to you that you can and are willing to do in the next 24 hours. Just choose to submit do that and see where that takes you. That’s all. That’s how you choose to be the one.
Love you all
The London Flower Lover