Friday,Flowers and My Pleasure Plan!

Beloved Flower Lover,

It’s Friday, our day for flowers and pleasure. As you know we are in a season of pleasure. One part of the key to fulfil our needs.

Pleasure is the secret switch that releases any woman’s desire.


The more pleasures a woman chooses to experiences within herself for herself, the more her desires are discharged from inside of her. Joyfully!

For some women, considering pleasure is a taboo and means something beginning with  beginning with ‘s’

Silly, stupid, even si_ful!  So they put the stop button on it. Familiar?

Some others, see, hear and feel it as sensible, sane and shrewd, something to be shared, with sisters, with men, families and communities. More familiar?

Some of us were taught first to take care of our families, our children, our parents, our bosses, our partners and lastly to consider ourselves. If at all.

Some of us where never ever taught to regularly pay attention to our pleasure.

Pleasure, stolen in between a million things to do.

So right here, right now, we invite you to welcome in another practice. We would like to invite you to open up and to take the first steps of beginning to pay attention to your pleasures. We are inviting you to place pleasure higher and higher and higher on your top three things to do today. Ranked, so high that it becomes ranked number one.

We can do that now or build to it. Whatever you choose,  it’s all good. Rearrange your list of things to do, or simply rank a pleasure attitude as your priority as you go about your day to day activities. Either way plan to take up your ‘pleasure vitamin’, today in a massive dose.


Could we suggest something?

Even as you start the pleasure process of creating your desire list, could you consider how to pleasure up your body and environment so you are prepared to experience the contentment in a pleasing environment for yourself.

For example, rather than sitting cramped , scrawling a desire or two on a piece of paper,  may we suggest that perhaps you may possibly want to give yourself the permission, the time and space and place to allow yourself to listen to and savour the whisperings of the ‘delicious sweet whatever’ is in your heart.

Women are actually strengthened when they take ‘Vitamin Pleasure’. They are equipped for it’s full expression.

We respond to beauty.

Like those flowers in your meadow, those tulips, those favourite amaryllis, the roses, whatever. You are already on-line with the pleasure highway.


Let’s be humble enough, modest enough, servant enough to accommodate to that detail. Let us check that we have served, satisfied and tailored everything in our control to the needs of our pleasures.

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Gosh even writing this we can feel the energy change. Yes, they say where you thoughts go, energy flows. And we feel grateful to forgive ourselves for not prioritising pleasure before and now allowing it in. Yet everything serves to further. Regardless of whatever happened in the past we will the ‘Pleasure Vitamin’, to be top of importance.

We give thanks for this experience that will allow our imagination to rise, grow, expand and connect us to to our deepest power.

Provoked, wound up, anxious, excited? Eager, enthusiastic, we are.

Because you are open to this right now, there will be one more woman, one more man on the planet, one more family, one more community, whose desires are set free. Allowed to be birthed and born in ecstasy.

So let flowers, or any other form of beauty be a part of your space. find yourself a comfortable space in your bedroom, on a cosy couch in your living room, or in your favourite café, wherever, wherever, wherever and begin.

Perhaps, you can start by lighting a few candles. Possible take your favourite pen, paints or crafts and a beautifully fresh sheet of paper. Pour yourself something nice to drink, possible mango inspired, or any other soft drink you enjoy, turn on some music, and maybe even put a fresh flower in a vase nearby. You may buy them or cut them with permission from a garden. Whatever, opening up to pleasure is a pleasure in itself. Consider wearing something that’s comfy and makes you feel lovely, you may even play around with something fun, maybe putting on something you have saved for best. This could be a luxurious bathrobe, an outfit or cute slippers . Who knows? Even bunny ears! Just allow your imagination to express itself.

It is important to beautify the atmosphere to bring out the best in you. Why? Well, you make a desire list when you’re in a space where all your preoccupations are dealt with. So feel the calm and beauty. Your enjoyment is key.

Enjoyment and pleasure lead to an eruption of desires. And desires are creation itself.

So after you have made yourself feel delicious and look enchanting in the way you visualise enchantment and you are sitting in a space fit for the person you are, take hold of your pen, paints, crafts and paper and begin to write down, paint or design a list of anything and everything you notice you desire. Anything, anything, anything. It’s the energy that counts.

It’s not about pricing things up or putting time on it, it’s simple about enjoying and savouring the taste of the desire. The more detailed  and filled in the desire, the better. For you, for us.

Take all the time your desire requires  of you to express itself. Yes, all the time. And when you have completed the desire list (of one, two, three, four, or four hundred things, experiences, emotions, situations), place it somewhere where you can see it often and add to it daily.

Wow, how does that feel to you, us? Fun? Liberating? Natural? All of the above?

Good. That is how it is supposed to feel. We are so proud of you for taking this step in creating and raising your desire energy

“What’s next?”

Now that you have created the groundwork for your beautiful, brilliant, resplendent desires. There is one other gift you can give to yourself to quicken the process of experiencing your creation on the inside.

It’s the gratitude factor. Give thanks for everything so far that has brought you here to this point. Give thanks with a massive smile. Count your blessings with a huge giggle and laugh as you notice how your life is already a wonderful creation of previous desires. Give thanks for them all with joy and share your ever filling cup.

With so much love and pleasure,

Love you

The Team

The London Flower Lover

p.s. in our office it was hair and  gold nail polish, that got involved in the prep stage!

About Thelondonflowerlover

Welcome to The London Flower Lover. We are florists who create floral collections to tell your real life story. With colour and texture, we take floristry into an entirely new direction based on the challenges and joys of your life. Offering what we call 'heart based floristry' we use style, fashion, and life situations and merge them with heart based lifestyle support. This inspiring blend creates so much more for those who love flowers. Using flowers in the traditional way of course, but always using flowers to open up a floralicious conversation about relationships of all kinds. We are a sort of work in progress of compassionately confirming how we are already on the inside, the love we want to see out in the world. That is mission of The London Flower Lover. So saying yes to recognising that is at the heart of this blog and using flowers to honour that inner world is how we use the beauty of giving and receiving flowers. This blog is your blog. It's as much about cultivating your heart, as it is about enjoying the physical beauty of flowers. It offers story, poems and video to reflect the life you actually live whilst showing beautifully inspiring collections of flower designs. Hand-tied bouquets, arrangements and more. All this with sought after tips from well established experts on how to keep a happy heart. This is what makes The London Flower Lover unique and magical. Yes, and that's how we make the difference that we do. When life looks, feels, or sounds challenging, we offer a sanctuary that you may dip into. A well of refreshment and strength that you may draw from. Sharing what others have found to be successful ways of being happy in the face of challenges, whilst letting flowers do the talking when we have no other way to interpret what is going on. Use flowers to help you re-discover, reveal and remember how you can still be despite challenges. Use flowers to celebrate and to embody the possibility of your heart felt desire, fulfilled. Use flowers in your life, to remind you of the beauty of your life. Use The London Flower Lover today. We invite you to stay curious in this floral universe as you explore the love in the heart. This is a floralicious world.
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5 Responses to Friday,Flowers and My Pleasure Plan!

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