Where is your ‘yum yum’ in your Spring Equinox Celebration?

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Beloved Flower Lover,

We were not going to write again about the Spring Equinox, the internal balancing time of equal day and night. But today an ecstatic woman talked to us about how her elder husband who she had looked up to, would ignore her over and over again for no apparent reason. And how she found a secret for her ‘flat’ and ‘blah’ feelings. This ignited our imaginations.

Mrs Gorgeous talked about how going into the ‘bliss’ of how she really felt about her husband ignited her a ‘mini blissgasm’.  And in fact meant her image of  husband was ‘transformed magically’ and he became her Greatest Ecstasy Teacher ever.

Mindfully, she talked about stepping back from putting hard pressure on her husband. From stressing out, from grieving,from demanding and expecting him to give her all the sweet pleasures she was ‘craving’.

She warmly whispered in our ears that she had found a secret. A juicy secret which lingered in our softened hearts. A secret that gently found her take a path that led her to other genuine ways to receive pleasure from different sources. (By the way, she did say no infidelity occurred  in this new pleasure creation!)

‘Go bigger’, she said she would say to herself as she got into the  creative things she enjoyed. ‘Give it up’,’turn yourself on’, she would say to herself as she would imagine herself feel her own ‘blissdom’.

She explored how immersing herself in the ‘practice of ecstasy’, was necessary for herself. It gave her a ‘new normal’  She gave thanks for how her husband taught her how to build ‘yummy vibrational ecstasy’, into her life, from the inside out.

She glowed!

the london flower lover

“Feeling how it feels, brought her clarity”, she said. That frisky focus cleared her vibration. It taught her to love her own esctasy, rather than feeling resentful and blameful of him or others. After all  she had been building this energy, gathering it up, so why not use it for what it was intended for. Her pleasure.

Just getting into her own delicious ecstasy, so delicious that it got her to ask for it again and again. That was how she re-emerged for the spring celebration. She seemed to purr with an easy light in her eye.  She knew why the feeling of esctasy was so necessary in her own life.  She talked about relaxing and slipping into her ‘blissgasm’ even as she continued to be ignored by the husband she so admired. ‘Thinking off’, she said was how she really got comfortable with herself and in fact no excuse  could be presented to her now that could stop her from triggering her own passions.

She no longer said she never had enough.

she played with different colours, different scents, different clothes, different under garments, different foods, different TV shows, different makeup, different spending habits, different massage, different music, different dance classes, different friends, different places, endless different, different, different,

She became so enamoured with passion, that she allowed this build of energy to go into her creativity of what she enjoyed about her dreams.

We were inspired by the rebalancing of this’ Goddess’,  by this talent for ‘yumminess’, that we asked ourselves what feelings could be rebalanced for us, and others.

There was no fixing of him she said, she was not depriving herself, that was never her focus. No. it was not about begging him to be bigger or faster, it was about rebalancing of herself .

So with that provocative story in mind we decided to ask the question to our friends around the world, who today and tomorrow are acknowledging that the balancing of their life.

Any aha’s?


leading edge peace and joy

The Team

The London Flower Lover

p.s.Your passion is real, we are at a turning point, how are you rebalancing and satisfying your feelings now.

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About Thelondonflowerlover

Welcome to The London Flower Lover. We are florists who create floral collections to tell your real life story. With colour and texture, we take floristry into an entirely new direction based on the challenges and joys of your life. Offering what we call 'heart based floristry' we use style, fashion, and life situations and merge them with heart based lifestyle support. This inspiring blend creates so much more for those who love flowers. Using flowers in the traditional way of course, but always using flowers to open up a floralicious conversation about relationships of all kinds. We are a sort of work in progress of compassionately confirming how we are already on the inside, the love we want to see out in the world. That is mission of The London Flower Lover. So saying yes to recognising that is at the heart of this blog and using flowers to honour that inner world is how we use the beauty of giving and receiving flowers. This blog is your blog. It's as much about cultivating your heart, as it is about enjoying the physical beauty of flowers. It offers story, poems and video to reflect the life you actually live whilst showing beautifully inspiring collections of flower designs. Hand-tied bouquets, arrangements and more. All this with sought after tips from well established experts on how to keep a happy heart. This is what makes The London Flower Lover unique and magical. Yes, and that's how we make the difference that we do. When life looks, feels, or sounds challenging, we offer a sanctuary that you may dip into. A well of refreshment and strength that you may draw from. Sharing what others have found to be successful ways of being happy in the face of challenges, whilst letting flowers do the talking when we have no other way to interpret what is going on. Use flowers to help you re-discover, reveal and remember how you can still be despite challenges. Use flowers to celebrate and to embody the possibility of your heart felt desire, fulfilled. Use flowers in your life, to remind you of the beauty of your life. Use The London Flower Lover today. We invite you to stay curious in this floral universe as you explore the love in the heart. This is a floralicious world.
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4 Responses to Where is your ‘yum yum’ in your Spring Equinox Celebration?

  1. living4bliss says:

    Good morning from across the pond. I have nominated this most lovely blog for the Versatile Blogger Award.

    To claim your award, please go to http://living4bliss.wordpress.com/2012/03/24/versatile-and-inspiring-more-awards/


    • We also want to say thank you to Living4Bliss. You are so kind, so kind, so kind to nominate us for the Versastile Blogger Award.

      It stopped us in our tracks. We danced, sang, hugged and kissed. It brought tears of joy to our eyes. We connected, we softened. Then we regrouped under that glow of bliss and came back with a floral design and a special thank you video about kindness.

      Really, Thank You.
      We hope you like our last thank you post to you.


  2. Rutha Tinker says:

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