Beloved Flower Lover,
We were not going to write again about the Spring Equinox, the internal balancing time of equal day and night. But today an ecstatic woman talked to us about how her elder husband who she had looked up to, would ignore her over and over again for no apparent reason. And how she found a secret for her ‘flat’ and ‘blah’ feelings. This ignited our imaginations.
Mrs Gorgeous talked about how going into the ‘bliss’ of how she really felt about her husband ignited her a ‘mini blissgasm’. And in fact meant her image of husband was ‘transformed magically’ and he became her Greatest Ecstasy Teacher ever.
Mindfully, she talked about stepping back from putting hard pressure on her husband. From stressing out, from grieving,from demanding and expecting him to give her all the sweet pleasures she was ‘craving’.
She warmly whispered in our ears that she had found a secret. A juicy secret which lingered in our softened hearts. A secret that gently found her take a path that led her to other genuine ways to receive pleasure from different sources. (By the way, she did say no infidelity occurred in this new pleasure creation!)
‘Go bigger’, she said she would say to herself as she got into the creative things she enjoyed. ‘Give it up’,’turn yourself on’, she would say to herself as she would imagine herself feel her own ‘blissdom’.
She explored how immersing herself in the ‘practice of ecstasy’, was necessary for herself. It gave her a ‘new normal’ She gave thanks for how her husband taught her how to build ‘yummy vibrational ecstasy’, into her life, from the inside out.
“Feeling how it feels, brought her clarity”, she said. That frisky focus cleared her vibration. It taught her to love her own esctasy, rather than feeling resentful and blameful of him or others. After all she had been building this energy, gathering it up, so why not use it for what it was intended for. Her pleasure.
Just getting into her own delicious ecstasy, so delicious that it got her to ask for it again and again. That was how she re-emerged for the spring celebration. She seemed to purr with an easy light in her eye. She knew why the feeling of esctasy was so necessary in her own life. She talked about relaxing and slipping into her ‘blissgasm’ even as she continued to be ignored by the husband she so admired. ‘Thinking off’, she said was how she really got comfortable with herself and in fact no excuse could be presented to her now that could stop her from triggering her own passions.
She no longer said she never had enough.
she played with different colours, different scents, different clothes, different under garments, different foods, different TV shows, different makeup, different spending habits, different massage, different music, different dance classes, different friends, different places, endless different, different, different,
She became so enamoured with passion, that she allowed this build of energy to go into her creativity of what she enjoyed about her dreams.
We were inspired by the rebalancing of this’ Goddess’, by this talent for ‘yumminess’, that we asked ourselves what feelings could be rebalanced for us, and others.
There was no fixing of him she said, she was not depriving herself, that was never her focus. No. it was not about begging him to be bigger or faster, it was about rebalancing of herself .
So with that provocative story in mind we decided to ask the question to our friends around the world, who today and tomorrow are acknowledging that the balancing of their life.
leading edge peace and joy
The London Flower Lover
p.s.Your passion is real, we are at a turning point, how are you rebalancing and satisfying your feelings now.