Should men buy flowers or gifts for the first date?

The London Flower Lover

The London Flower Lover

Beloved Flower Lover,

Well reading an article by www.evanmarckatz.com,  Master relationship coach from the US, who had an article on the subject. We found that he suggested that the general consensus was, ‘No flowers on the first date because it’s weird!

Huh!

Further research showed the opposite. Yay!

So we decided to stop and ask the question again to those close to us. The general responses were;

Why  should we even ask when it’s a form of intimate expression?

or

Choose flowers from your heart, let your heart be your guide.

Ok, we said. We stopped and pondered.

In our line of work (lifestyle florsity) we often notice that what ever you do to yourself, you do for others!

Because of that we are often led to  think about how sacred it is that someone actually wants to spend time with  us, you!

They could have remained separate,stay in, watch TV,do whatever yet opened up to share. With you. There is no need to think its creepy, or desperate just because someone just wants to share.

A lady buying flowers, was recently talking to us about her first date and said it was the man’s sincerity that led her to say yes to his invitation for a date. She went onto explain that as she stood there listening to his invitation, she thought, “here is someone who wants to spend time with me, why brush it off?”

They are now very much in love…

What we took from that, is that there is much more entertainment to be had by sharing love rather than  shrug it off, joust, or play sport with the  idea of gift sharing, under the banner of ,’ this is a form of an aliveness’. We know that when a man puts him self out, it’s a big deal. We all grow, when we participate in the great tradition of gift giving between me and women. We always like to use flowers as a gentle symbol of that tradition. Even for the rebellious types!

We guess the starting point is ‘Who Am I when I share from the heart’?

When we look through the eyes of love, what do we see. Maybe, its the ‘reality’ of the love that is already there within.

 We wonder what do you think? Who’s eyes do we look through? Would you give flowers on the first date? have you? why did you? what happened?

….this is a time of wonderful new beginnings!

The Team

The London Flower Lover

The London Flower Lover

The London Flower Lover

 

 

 

 

 

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Welcome to The London Flower Lover. We are florists who create floral collections to tell your real life story. With colour and texture, we take floristry into an entirely new direction based on the challenges and joys of your life. Offering what we call 'heart based floristry' we use style, fashion, and life situations and merge them with heart based lifestyle support. This inspiring blend creates so much more for those who love flowers. Using flowers in the traditional way of course, but always using flowers to open up a floralicious conversation about relationships of all kinds. We are a sort of work in progress of compassionately confirming how we are already on the inside, the love we want to see out in the world. That is mission of The London Flower Lover. So saying yes to recognising that is at the heart of this blog and using flowers to honour that inner world is how we use the beauty of giving and receiving flowers. This blog is your blog. It's as much about cultivating your heart, as it is about enjoying the physical beauty of flowers. It offers story, poems and video to reflect the life you actually live whilst showing beautifully inspiring collections of flower designs. Hand-tied bouquets, arrangements and more. All this with sought after tips from well established experts on how to keep a happy heart. This is what makes The London Flower Lover unique and magical. Yes, and that's how we make the difference that we do. When life looks, feels, or sounds challenging, we offer a sanctuary that you may dip into. A well of refreshment and strength that you may draw from. Sharing what others have found to be successful ways of being happy in the face of challenges, whilst letting flowers do the talking when we have no other way to interpret what is going on. Use flowers to help you re-discover, reveal and remember how you can still be despite challenges. Use flowers to celebrate and to embody the possibility of your heart felt desire, fulfilled. Use flowers in your life, to remind you of the beauty of your life. Use The London Flower Lover today. We invite you to stay curious in this floral universe as you explore the love in the heart. This is a floralicious world.
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