Do ‘cheaters’ give flowers out of guilt?

Beloved Flower Lover,

Some interesting research suggests men sometimes give flowers out of guilt. That may or may not be true. And yes, in our work, we often have to be discreet about what to deliver, to who, on what specific day. Be it Mothers day, birthdays, or major holidays.Yet, there is so much more to this experiencing of cheating!

The main thing we learn from all of the people we talk to about this is that, sooner or later, there is a point when a man considers the seeds he has planted.

He may suppress it with drink or other stuff, yet  sooner or later at some point, the ‘man thing’, inside a man kicks in. It rings loudly and asks him to measure up.

He  begins to counts his results and checks himself against his own standards of integrity.  He counts his achievements. He measures his accomplishments. He checks if he had a brave heart. Did he risk? could he have said  sorry when he was ‘wrong’ or did he choose to blame the situation, the person, himself?

Having spoken to men in London involved in family life, we have been told that , “A man’s man can actually forgive himself for his mistakes once he begins a warrior path. A path to know who he really is.”

Its not airy fairy, its based on the real practical ways of life.

That it requires of him a sort of cutting with his identity, maybe old friends, old ways of doing things, old ways of seeing things and  simply separating from mistakes. This can help a man bring justice into a situation. Being able to be ‘hot’ enough to ‘blaze’, through any attacks and measure a situation from the point of truth.


Peacefully great teachers, show us that, if cheaters are looking for upgrades in their life, that the inner ‘warrior’ of a man invites him to measure his true ‘super powers’. The knowledge of self.  How, what he is measuring in his life will produce the results he is looking. And in fact where the upgrade he is looking for really comes from.

One thing the research did not show up in its interpretation was what we see all the time. Men, do and can put aside their excuses.

They can do that.

There are many we see and talk to, who have taken themselves into hand. A kind of journey. They have decided to act in a way that they can measure. With integrity and male strength.They are warriors and often not talked about.  They look after their families and walk a whole different path to those who cheat themselves.

They brighten our day.

We know they are alive, strong and growing in number.

What do you think?

If he cheats, who does he really end up cheating we wonder?

The Team

The London Flower Lover

p.s and they love to give flowers!


About Thelondonflowerlover

Welcome to The London Flower Lover. We are florists who create floral collections to tell your real life story. With colour and texture, we take floristry into an entirely new direction based on the challenges and joys of your life. Offering what we call 'heart based floristry' we use style, fashion, and life situations and merge them with heart based lifestyle support. This inspiring blend creates so much more for those who love flowers. Using flowers in the traditional way of course, but always using flowers to open up a floralicious conversation about relationships of all kinds. We are a sort of work in progress of compassionately confirming how we are already on the inside, the love we want to see out in the world. That is mission of The London Flower Lover. So saying yes to recognising that is at the heart of this blog and using flowers to honour that inner world is how we use the beauty of giving and receiving flowers. This blog is your blog. It's as much about cultivating your heart, as it is about enjoying the physical beauty of flowers. It offers story, poems and video to reflect the life you actually live whilst showing beautifully inspiring collections of flower designs. Hand-tied bouquets, arrangements and more. All this with sought after tips from well established experts on how to keep a happy heart. This is what makes The London Flower Lover unique and magical. Yes, and that's how we make the difference that we do. When life looks, feels, or sounds challenging, we offer a sanctuary that you may dip into. A well of refreshment and strength that you may draw from. Sharing what others have found to be successful ways of being happy in the face of challenges, whilst letting flowers do the talking when we have no other way to interpret what is going on. Use flowers to help you re-discover, reveal and remember how you can still be despite challenges. Use flowers to celebrate and to embody the possibility of your heart felt desire, fulfilled. Use flowers in your life, to remind you of the beauty of your life. Use The London Flower Lover today. We invite you to stay curious in this floral universe as you explore the love in the heart. This is a floralicious world.
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3 Responses to Do ‘cheaters’ give flowers out of guilt?

  1. Jay Patel says:

    Plenty to say on this, you are getting us to stand up for what matters, lots of respect for that…..and I love the flowers…thanks for doing what you are doing online here…..its helping me think about what I realy really really want to say too!


  2. Some truly rattling work on behalf of the owner of this web site, dead great subject material.


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