Celebrate Love with Flowers at the Autumn Equinox

The London Flower Lover

Beloved Flower Lover,

Times are changing, and we love to celebrate harvest time.

Want some help? Flowers could be the ideal companion to help create that  loving conversation within yourself.

Flower’s can help you to create a story about how wonderful this time of year is.  A story like, I love life, no matter what is going on outside. Or,  life loves me, no matter what is going on outside. Imagine focusing  on just that at this time of year. Imagine how your energy goes upwards. To have a totally different, sweeter conversation with yourself. Flowers can help you change and help your conversation stay focused on what’s so much more desirable about you and your life. Such a lovely story.

Imagine, if it’s a different story to what you already tell yourself. Yes, use your imagination. It will be an even more delicious outcome for your life. Mmmmm it’s really fun.

Smiling or sceptical about this possible explanation about how to use the autumn, and it’s flowers.  Whatever, how about giving it a chance before you make the conclusion? Flowers can help you change your focus now as ‘time’, is changing. Help yourself to balance yourself out!


Have you noticed that people tend  to say aahhhhh and ooooeeeeeee when they receive flowers and in fact our bodies kinda relax. Our shoulders go down, our breathing get’s deeper and we smile to ourselves and others, as we go deeper into ourselves. Have you noticed.

In fact, we open up parts of us inside that makes all the changes.  It’s a  natural, relaxed state of mind.

Have you noticed how people just look better after they receive flowers. How you look better. It’s because we are telling ourselves something kind in their own minds. In terms of the fact,  we know that the  Autumn Equinox is celebrated on the 22nd/23rd September in the northern hemisphere, (UK) and the 20th/21st of March in the Southern Hemisphere. It’s a time for balance in our lives.


The seasons are changing, we are experiencing change  and we find that it’s a time when we might be just a little more open to suggestion. It might be a time to shift our internal focus, our internal conversation onto what is good in our lives. A time to rebalance.

It may be the time to look within and help yourself to feel good about yourself.  To change the story you are having with yourself.

Conversations with Flowers!

Flowers can help you visualise yourself feeling good about yourself because you can keep practising those feelings.  The mind will always go to what is most desirable, so imagine using autumn to repeatedly rebalance yourself, to remind yourself and others of how much they matter to you. Imagine the buzz, the energy, the love that generates, so quickly!

More Science

Let’s, go back to the science it here, at this time the Sun is directly overhead at the equator and day and night are of approximately equal lengths. At the equinox, the Sun rises everywhere on Earth (except the Poles) at about 6am in the morning and sets at about 6pm in the evening (though this can vary a little when time zones and daylight saving etc are taken into account).

NB: At the North Pole the Autumn Equinox is effectively the Polar sunset whilst the South Pole experiences it as a Polar sunrise.

Also known as the September equinox, the event signifies the first day of autumn in the UK. The autumn equinox is also used to determine the date of the traditional harvest festival which is held on the first Sunday after the first full moon following the autumn equinox. It’s a time for balance and rebalance.

More Conversations with Flowers

So much to enjoy.

We love being in tune with nature here , so it’s important to us to celebrate the change of time. So, it’s a perfect time to love yourself more, to celebrate all the loving relationships you have, to connect with people, to change the conversation going on in your heads about yourself.  It’s a perfect time to re- nurture and recharge your mind.

We love to assist you with gorgeous flowers to remind you of your beauty and your relationship with life. That relationship that let’s you know that it loves you and you love it. It may be perfect to re- nurture yourself so you can reset that emotion of nurturing of yourself.

We suggest you have your flowers in a place where you can see their beauty just before you go to bed.  In a place which you can see every day first and last thing. It can remind you that you  feel really cared for. OK, we know feng shui experts tell us not in the bedroom, and that’s so ok. So you can decide for yourself where else to put them.

The main thing to do is to hold an image in our mind’s eye just before we go to bed that let’s us feel loved for, adored, cared for and beautiful.

What are Equinoxes?

More science! Equinoxes occur when the axis of rotation of the earth (i.e. the line form the N to S poles) is exactly parallel to the direction of motion of the earth around the sun. This happens on just two days of the year, the spring and autumn equinoxes. This means that day length is exactly the same (12 hours) at all points on the earth’s surface on these days (except right at each pole, where it will be about to change from permanent light to dark, or vice versa).

Where does the name Equinox come from?

It’s a time for celebrating what work’s so well in your life. To balance yourself out. Despite the name is derived from the Latin aequus (equal) and nox (night), because at the equinox the night and day are nearly equally long. As a time where you connect with happiness, peace, and joy.  Imagine how you want to experience this time period. Are you ready to experience more love this autumn? Imagine building that happiness and love into your mind for rebalancing yourself.

Bringing out the best in you

Mmmmmmmmmmmmmmm, delish. And we ask that question because it’s so often tied to flowers and the deepest part of us which open’s up to feeling the truth of our real nature. Divine.

Imagine,  just taking some more time to experience your own self as divine and beautiful. Flowers can help you ready yourself for this experience right now. To really experience genuine love from the inside out first.

Wedding Research

Do you know when we do weddings we have found a consistent them. We ask the question, how did you feel about yourself before you married?  and the majority of them say.  They loved themselves first. That was the key. We get that message from both  men and women. Self Love then  was their  template which they could share and experience as amplified with someone else. It also suggests that if you do not have that clear picture in your own mind, you may need to create that self love template using your inner self to do that too. WOW.

So, so if you choose to, create that pattern inside yourself first, what ever happens you are in a space of love.  You can use flowers to help your subconscious see  yourself action that self love. To see yourself acting loving to yourself more and more often. Flowers,  in your vicinity,can help  you can create within your subconscious strong feelings and images of you experiencing a two way love connection.


Yes, flowers can provide you with a tangible, external reference point. To show yourself that you are ready for love, that you are warmed up for love, that you are open for love. Over and over again.


Why is this important?

Well, we encourage anyone to use the power of flowers. It’s almost like you can give them a task to do for you, a focus. They help to act as a reference point for you as you give your inner self something to tune into. Images and feelings of yourself smiling, experiencing giving and receiving genuine love.  Smiling images and feelings of being held, adored, just as you are. Images and feelings of being loved what ever your size, colour, job, income, age, health and social status. Being already happy are feelings you can create and flowers can reinforce that for you to you. Yes, it’s all about you.

What’s lovely about this giving of yourself flowers is that it tells you that you are the source of your love. It starts with you. You are the root of love. You are the resevoir for love. You are the author of love so it’s the unique way that you stimulate love that allows you to enjoy the payback of love in your life. Love therefore is  not something, or someone outside  of you. It’s the place within you that you create, using all of your senses, smell, colour, taste, movement, music laughter, joy that is an expression of happiness and peace. Only you can create it within yourself in a way that is lasting. Only you can make that home where  you are happy already. In fact, this might even mean that you are in the ideal place to be enjoying someone else  now,because you are creating from a place which is  so much  sweeter. We would love to know, how you do this self love thing , please share.

OK, but yes, some of our clients tell us the opposite. They talk of frustration, loneliness, depression, and more of what comes with all of that.  So we are sharing what we can about how to help.

Flowers  can be  a lovely companion to remind you of how gorgeous you are right now.  However, to help that resevoir of love be the first port of call, you may need to create those inages and feelings of love, beauty, joy, peace and happiness within for yourself first. On the inside first,then notice how it ripples out.

In closing , we really got into this post.  Yes it focuses on love. Self Love. It also focuses on the wonderful work of Debra Berndt to really assist you to feel love from the inside first.

Here are a few of her tips. They act as a wonderful gateway to the part of you that makes all the changes in your life. Your love reservoir.

We love these ‘Conversations with Flowers’ as we have now coined them. We love these conversations about love and seeing the change that people are having in their love lives. Yes, its all about these inner ‘Conversations with Flowers’……We can only imagine you having a beautiful autumn with these tips, plus some  stunning flowers around yourself.

Feel Cared for 

Use flowers to get used to feeling cared for. Accept flowers from yourself to  train your mind to experience love. Connect love, with yourself by receiving flowers from yourself . Yes, open yourself up for love and change the stories you tell yourself along the way.

Write a new story this autumn about yourself  about how lovable, huggable, kissable and adorable you are and give yourself flowers!

Love you

The Team

The London Flower Lover

The London Flower Lover


About Thelondonflowerlover

Welcome to The London Flower Lover. We are florists who create floral collections to tell your real life story. With colour and texture, we take floristry into an entirely new direction based on the challenges and joys of your life. Offering what we call 'heart based floristry' we use style, fashion, and life situations and merge them with heart based lifestyle support. This inspiring blend creates so much more for those who love flowers. Using flowers in the traditional way of course, but always using flowers to open up a floralicious conversation about relationships of all kinds. We are a sort of work in progress of compassionately confirming how we are already on the inside, the love we want to see out in the world. That is mission of The London Flower Lover. So saying yes to recognising that is at the heart of this blog and using flowers to honour that inner world is how we use the beauty of giving and receiving flowers. This blog is your blog. It's as much about cultivating your heart, as it is about enjoying the physical beauty of flowers. It offers story, poems and video to reflect the life you actually live whilst showing beautifully inspiring collections of flower designs. Hand-tied bouquets, arrangements and more. All this with sought after tips from well established experts on how to keep a happy heart. This is what makes The London Flower Lover unique and magical. Yes, and that's how we make the difference that we do. When life looks, feels, or sounds challenging, we offer a sanctuary that you may dip into. A well of refreshment and strength that you may draw from. Sharing what others have found to be successful ways of being happy in the face of challenges, whilst letting flowers do the talking when we have no other way to interpret what is going on. Use flowers to help you re-discover, reveal and remember how you can still be despite challenges. Use flowers to celebrate and to embody the possibility of your heart felt desire, fulfilled. Use flowers in your life, to remind you of the beauty of your life. Use The London Flower Lover today. We invite you to stay curious in this floral universe as you explore the love in the heart. This is a floralicious world.
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