Beloved Flower Lover,
She walked into the studio quietly, not shining with her usual gorgeousness, instead just a bit …
“How could he stop texting or calling for a whole week after he was so totally into me for months? Why does he pull away every time we open up and close? How could he not appreciate all the great things I do for him, how great his life is with me in it? Doesn’t he understand that we were meant to be together? Why isn’t he interested in moving in with me? Will he ever commit???? Am I wasting my time with this guy? Will he ever propose???? After all the time I have clocked with him, will I ever have a chance to be a mother?
Oh wow, more women and men stories here! flowers really do bring up lots of stories for us, it opens up all sorts of things linked with giving and recieving love…….
What is going on with these guys? From what we are hearing and seeing, it seems that men seem to want you and then when they can have you, forget about it. Their confusing, conflicting, mysterious behavior can just about drive you nuts. And we’re supposed to be mysterious! Truth is, men are at least as hard to figure out as women. Their behavior can be frustrating as heck. They tease us with clever emails, thoughtful gifts, daily texts and calls, only to turn around in the blink of an eye and welll…
You are not alone… there is a pattern….and thats good to know….patterns are predictable……so you can prepare to deal with the issue…..
Who hasn’t fallen for that grand opening game, where they lure us with intimate talks, funny dates, a perfect little heart bracelet, soft kisses and more? Then things change, you become a couple and suddenly you have to make the relationship work while he does something else……that is not destiny…..we have infinite flexiblity…..so what do you want, what do you desire
Be clear, as you heal your patterns, you can heal the pattern you are now aware of… and guess what you have help available.
Dr Diana worked for over 25 years as a therapist and clinical supervisor of therapists and have heard just about every issue single guys have! She has logged thousands of hours in the trenches listening to men as they’ve completely opened up and explored their deepest issues, problems, needs and fears. Those private moments have given me a unique window into understanding guys’ fears about maturity, commitment, forming a couple or creating a family. She understands how their minds work–how men tend to view love relationships and all the different resistances they have toward choosing a woman for the long haul. She also have guided many men, (including hard-core commitment-phobes!) through the process of making a true lasting commitment to a woman.
She has identified 8 of the most common COMMITTMENT FEARS Men have in my new book, Sealing the Deal: The Love Mentor’s Guide to Lasting Love. It covers lots!
We really hope this helps, it has helped us, trust, you are not alone, we know these issues. We would love to know how you are changing and giving the love you want to yourself first.
The London Flower Lover