Surrender for love

Beloved Flower Lover

In all these Valentine preparations, we have been concentrating on the natural rhythm of love and how flowers can support its natural regeneration.   So many people talk about the real tangible impacts of love, from Ra Un Nefer Amen, Marci  Shimoff, Rumi and more. Concrete  manifestations of love are what they say we are blessed with. And it’s for us to notice them in their abundance now, what ever our situation. Yes, what ever. That’s the count your blessings, piece despite the external situation.

We all know that love makes us look and feel beautiful, replenished, refreshed, soft and supple. Yet romantic relationships sometimes makes us not feel like that at all. There can be so many changes, shifting sands, going backwards and forwards, unsettled yet indicating stability and plain ole uncertainty.  Grounded in that energy, no wonder small battles can turn into bigger battles ,turn into enormous protracted wars and ………. The warm air of peace, love and harmony as we know can appear to be devoid in the land of  shifting sands. Yet are they? Did peace just get up and leave the room. Can air get up and leave a room because you do not notice you are breathing? Is the air still there, just to be noticed again. To be breathed in at a slower rate. consciously. Calming us down, slowing us down, quieting us  right down, to a stop and into stillness as we take in conscious deep breaths.

As you know in our team we love using our flower skills to help you to achieve your own goals, in business, love, family, whatever.  Sometimes its to find out that the goal you are seeking to accomplished is not for you and to just accept that as you realise you are more than just the outcome of the goal.

We are open-hearted about that. We love to remind ourselves about the structure of love in its most scientific way as we see it being threaded through situations. We adore how understanding to apply the complementary nature of energy  in our everyday life experiences can be used to  raise the love set point.

We love to see how using flowers can assist you to shift your inner eye. To behold beauty with a new light of understanding.  To lift your spirits in times of pressure, by reflecting on the equal and complementary in the situation. If its hard,what is soft and beautiful! If it is lonely,what is connected and common to us all . We consider this as we prepare your designs.We bring that thinking to our designs so they are personalised for your situation. Work, home, romance, family, occasion-whatever.

We love to focus on  keeping up what works and to improve and make change on the inside and outside. To help  one behold a situation renewed and  as beautiful, loving, sweet and joyful. To acknowledge when things are just not going right,when it feels on a downer,just falling apart. Just being still with that knowing as things just seem to be on fire and being destroyed in front of our eyes is also  just to. So right.

Some think this is religious, just weird,  irrelevant, fanciful and just out of touch. What do you do when a man  you were sleeping with has stolen your car? Or a woman has beat you? or you witness arguments? what-go and buy flowers? Pleaaaaasssseeeee.  Yet the most practical people we know apply this science everyday to find solutions to practical life challenges. Engineers,  scientists, mechanics, electricians, builders.

To master their situation, they all have to open up to understanding and applying how complementary energy can be directed and redirected . To be able to make the bridges, the cars, the houses, the machines we work with daily.  So in all of this, they learn to apply on the outside what we are talking about applying on the inside. That’s what our great teachers are saying to us. Ra Nefer Amen, Marci Shimoff, Michael Neil, Marcus Garvey, Maya Angelou, Bob Marley. Louse Hay and more. Be Practical, live what you know and see how you become the change you want to be, benefits you and others.

Whilst embracing  what  is actually going on  in a situation,we find our own solutions on the inside . Rather than pushing it away because we are scared of it. We accept its part of the mix and then blend a new solution to take it into account.  Knowing what is really going on for us. Being honest about the  size, scope and quality of the feeling and being willing to apply its complementary opposite in our own minds eye first, is the beginning to creating the solution.

Surrender to what’s going on.  That’s where it all begins. In that understanding and willingness to imagine that change and then to continue with it. That’s using natural law. If you are hot with anger, what will cool you down on the inside? In fact one of our favourite authors, Abraham puts it this way:

 “Problem, you are equal to the solution, and when I befriend you the solution can be mine!” You’ve got to make the problem your friend, and in the moment you do, it’s what’s called ‘making peace’, it’s what’s called ‘surrender’….


We so smiled at that ,as the thing that comes to mind to surrender is if one is willing, released.

Release can be as much about releasing self blame or self-criticism as it is about doing that for the other person.

Sometimes waving the white flag is the best and right thing to do.  Do it in a situation that has got so intense. Or do it in a situation right at the beginning, where the seeds of distrust had been planted. Whatever do you do, the science tells us that it needs its equal and opposite energy to be switched into action  by your  willingness, in order to change-up the flow of things.

Surrender Now It’s so worth it.



The Team

The London Flower Lover

p..s. surrender to Valentines Day by ordering now.

  • A dozen mixed vintage coloured roses with silver garden foliage £80.00
  • White tulips with pussy willow £50.00
  • Mixed hand tied bouquet with hot pinks and reds including roses and tulips £50.00
  • a dozen premium red Grand Prix Roses £100.00  all wrapped in tissue and presented in a gift bag

Why not experience the ultimate surrender? What?-express love


About Thelondonflowerlover

Welcome to The London Flower Lover. We are florists who create floral collections to tell your real life story. With colour and texture, we take floristry into an entirely new direction based on the challenges and joys of your life. Offering what we call 'heart based floristry' we use style, fashion, and life situations and merge them with heart based lifestyle support. This inspiring blend creates so much more for those who love flowers. Using flowers in the traditional way of course, but always using flowers to open up a floralicious conversation about relationships of all kinds. We are a sort of work in progress of compassionately confirming how we are already on the inside, the love we want to see out in the world. That is mission of The London Flower Lover. So saying yes to recognising that is at the heart of this blog and using flowers to honour that inner world is how we use the beauty of giving and receiving flowers. This blog is your blog. It's as much about cultivating your heart, as it is about enjoying the physical beauty of flowers. It offers story, poems and video to reflect the life you actually live whilst showing beautifully inspiring collections of flower designs. Hand-tied bouquets, arrangements and more. All this with sought after tips from well established experts on how to keep a happy heart. This is what makes The London Flower Lover unique and magical. Yes, and that's how we make the difference that we do. When life looks, feels, or sounds challenging, we offer a sanctuary that you may dip into. A well of refreshment and strength that you may draw from. Sharing what others have found to be successful ways of being happy in the face of challenges, whilst letting flowers do the talking when we have no other way to interpret what is going on. Use flowers to help you re-discover, reveal and remember how you can still be despite challenges. Use flowers to celebrate and to embody the possibility of your heart felt desire, fulfilled. Use flowers in your life, to remind you of the beauty of your life. Use The London Flower Lover today. We invite you to stay curious in this floral universe as you explore the love in the heart. This is a floralicious world.
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One Response to Surrender for love

  1. Lisa Smart says:

    Thank you for this blog, I am awakening to what I can do with flowers. I love Hay house radio too.I am even using Flower essences ! thank you for being around


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