Unpack your emotional bags using flowers

The London Flower Lover

Beloved Flower Lover

We are changing the way floral designers think about practising their art. We find that as we work that so many of our clients open up, so we run alongside our floral work,work from the heart.

Sometimes we talk to both men and women about unpacking their own emotional baggage so that they able heal. If they are in emotionally draining relationships, they need to find ways to unpack their resentments because chronic resentments make you reactive.To experience love, to imagine how love is possible.

This month has raised topics of forgiveness, over and over and over again.

The main thing that forgiveness offers is that it helps the victim to change their attitude towards themselves. Once they change their identity away from being a victim, to an identity of resilence, they are then open to their own healing. It seems that holding onto an identity of victimhood actually keeps you  away from feeling able to change things .  It keeps you trapped. If you identify as a victim,you will see only your weak points, your areas of damage and you may expect compensation because of the fairness of the situation you are resenting. You may even want to hurt someone else.

Identifying with one’s strength, one’s resillence is the way, the direction, the path for personal change and experience of real love. This can allow for healing and personal growth. This change, this unpacking of one’s bags can happen only when one goes through geninue forgiveness work. That means actually seeing both sides of a story.

The work of Ra un Nefer Amen, ‘Healing in the Spirit’, Ilyana Vanzant’s, ’40 day Forgiveness Diet’, Colin Tippings free ‘Radical Forgiveness’, online process www.radicalforgiveness.com

all help to unpack your emotional bags and shift your perception of your identity from victim to one of resilence.

Identity as a victim or as a source of strenght seems to be what is the source of unpacking your emotional baggage.

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We wish you peace and many blessings and to continue to enjoy flowers in your life.

The Team

The London Flower Lover


About Thelondonflowerlover

Welcome to The London Flower Lover. We are florists who create floral collections to tell your real life story. With colour and texture, we take floristry into an entirely new direction based on the challenges and joys of your life. Offering what we call 'heart based floristry' we use style, fashion, and life situations and merge them with heart based lifestyle support. This inspiring blend creates so much more for those who love flowers. Using flowers in the traditional way of course, but always using flowers to open up a floralicious conversation about relationships of all kinds. We are a sort of work in progress of compassionately confirming how we are already on the inside, the love we want to see out in the world. That is mission of The London Flower Lover. So saying yes to recognising that is at the heart of this blog and using flowers to honour that inner world is how we use the beauty of giving and receiving flowers. This blog is your blog. It's as much about cultivating your heart, as it is about enjoying the physical beauty of flowers. It offers story, poems and video to reflect the life you actually live whilst showing beautifully inspiring collections of flower designs. Hand-tied bouquets, arrangements and more. All this with sought after tips from well established experts on how to keep a happy heart. This is what makes The London Flower Lover unique and magical. Yes, and that's how we make the difference that we do. When life looks, feels, or sounds challenging, we offer a sanctuary that you may dip into. A well of refreshment and strength that you may draw from. Sharing what others have found to be successful ways of being happy in the face of challenges, whilst letting flowers do the talking when we have no other way to interpret what is going on. Use flowers to help you re-discover, reveal and remember how you can still be despite challenges. Use flowers to celebrate and to embody the possibility of your heart felt desire, fulfilled. Use flowers in your life, to remind you of the beauty of your life. Use The London Flower Lover today. We invite you to stay curious in this floral universe as you explore the love in the heart. This is a floralicious world.
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