Beloved Flower Lover
We are changing the way floral designers think about practising their art. We find that as we work that so many of our clients open up, so we run alongside our floral work,work from the heart.
Sometimes we talk to both men and women about unpacking their own emotional baggage so that they able heal. If they are in emotionally draining relationships, they need to find ways to unpack their resentments because chronic resentments make you reactive.To experience love, to imagine how love is possible.
This month has raised topics of forgiveness, over and over and over again.
The main thing that forgiveness offers is that it helps the victim to change their attitude towards themselves. Once they change their identity away from being a victim, to an identity of resilence, they are then open to their own healing. It seems that holding onto an identity of victimhood actually keeps you away from feeling able to change things . It keeps you trapped. If you identify as a victim,you will see only your weak points, your areas of damage and you may expect compensation because of the fairness of the situation you are resenting. You may even want to hurt someone else.
Identifying with one’s strength, one’s resillence is the way, the direction, the path for personal change and experience of real love. This can allow for healing and personal growth. This change, this unpacking of one’s bags can happen only when one goes through geninue forgiveness work. That means actually seeing both sides of a story.
The work of Ra un Nefer Amen, ‘Healing in the Spirit’, Ilyana Vanzant’s, ’40 day Forgiveness Diet’, Colin Tippings free ‘Radical Forgiveness’, online process www.radicalforgiveness.com
all help to unpack your emotional bags and shift your perception of your identity from victim to one of resilence.
Identity as a victim or as a source of strenght seems to be what is the source of unpacking your emotional baggage.
We wish you peace and many blessings and to continue to enjoy flowers in your life.
The London Flower Lover