Be silent, listen and grow up

Beloved Flower Lover


Sometimes the person in front of us is dying and we want to tell them stuff. They may have hurt us and we want to tell  them things.Sometimes its our parent, or some authority person. Some one we love but no longer loves us.Sometimes, but our hears are precious. There is an invisible magic that is created there and ….well

If your intention is to grow up, then just listen to the consequences of your actions that they hang onto that stops them agreeing with you. listen to the hurt, listen to the impact  of the feelings that others want to send to you. Listen from your heart,with a closed mouth.

Listen to feedback and say nothing. Just listen. Do it a few times. Do it many times. Listen and say nothing. Say nothing, just listen over the next month and notice what you notice.


Do not try to change them, do not try to let them see what you see, do not try to get them to love you, do not try to get them to surrender to your views, do not try to get them to  choose what you choose, do not try to get them to desire what you desire, do not try to get them to understand you.Do not.Get out of the pettiness and be silent.Just listen and notice the value of the person in front of you in silence. Listen.


The team

The London Flower Lover

p.s. do this for yourself first, thats the most important place to begin


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About Thelondonflowerlover

Welcome to The London Flower Lover. We are florists who create floral collections to tell your real life story. With colour and texture, we take floristry into an entirely new direction based on the challenges and joys of your life. Offering what we call 'heart based floristry' we use style, fashion, and life situations and merge them with heart based lifestyle support. This inspiring blend creates so much more for those who love flowers. Using flowers in the traditional way of course, but always using flowers to open up a floralicious conversation about relationships of all kinds. We are a sort of work in progress of compassionately confirming how we are already on the inside, the love we want to see out in the world. That is mission of The London Flower Lover. So saying yes to recognising that is at the heart of this blog and using flowers to honour that inner world is how we use the beauty of giving and receiving flowers. This blog is your blog. It's as much about cultivating your heart, as it is about enjoying the physical beauty of flowers. It offers story, poems and video to reflect the life you actually live whilst showing beautifully inspiring collections of flower designs. Hand-tied bouquets, arrangements and more. All this with sought after tips from well established experts on how to keep a happy heart. This is what makes The London Flower Lover unique and magical. Yes, and that's how we make the difference that we do. When life looks, feels, or sounds challenging, we offer a sanctuary that you may dip into. A well of refreshment and strength that you may draw from. Sharing what others have found to be successful ways of being happy in the face of challenges, whilst letting flowers do the talking when we have no other way to interpret what is going on. Use flowers to help you re-discover, reveal and remember how you can still be despite challenges. Use flowers to celebrate and to embody the possibility of your heart felt desire, fulfilled. Use flowers in your life, to remind you of the beauty of your life. Use The London Flower Lover today. We invite you to stay curious in this floral universe as you explore the love in the heart. This is a floralicious world.
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