Beloved Flower Lover
Sometimes the person in front of us is dying and we want to tell them stuff. They may have hurt us and we want to tell them things.Sometimes its our parent, or some authority person. Some one we love but no longer loves us.Sometimes, but our hears are precious. There is an invisible magic that is created there and ….well
If your intention is to grow up, then just listen to the consequences of your actions that they hang onto that stops them agreeing with you. listen to the hurt, listen to the impact of the feelings that others want to send to you. Listen from your heart,with a closed mouth.
Listen to feedback and say nothing. Just listen. Do it a few times. Do it many times. Listen and say nothing. Say nothing, just listen over the next month and notice what you notice.
Do not try to change them, do not try to let them see what you see, do not try to get them to love you, do not try to get them to surrender to your views, do not try to get them to choose what you choose, do not try to get them to desire what you desire, do not try to get them to understand you.Do not.Get out of the pettiness and be silent.Just listen and notice the value of the person in front of you in silence. Listen.
The London Flower Lover
p.s. do this for yourself first, thats the most important place to begin