Want to get him to open up?

Dear Flower Lover

Want To Get Him To Open Up? Send Flowers
Sometimes what brings us to flowers is emotions. Sometimes we feel that when academic research backs you up, that it’s even more important. So let us share what we have learnt about men who are closed down to you, who you may like to open up.

A recent behavioural study conducted at Rutgers University shows that men who receive flowers demonstrate increased social communication and happiness. Yes, it helped togetherness. This research expands on findings, which showed that flowers enhance happiness and social connections among women too.

Conducted by Rutgers University student researcher Holly Hale and psychology Professor Jeannette Haviland-Jones, Ph.D., the study involved two groups of men who varied in age and ethnicity. One group who received a surprise gift of flowers and a control group who did not. The subjects’ verbal cues and body language (measures of social interaction) were observed.

The men who received flowers demonstrated increased eye contact in conversation, stood in closer proximity to the researchers, and produced more and truer smiles than those men who did not receive flowers.

While in general, women displayed a greater level of emotion in their study, the effects are equal. “When it comes to receiving flowers, men and women are on the same playing field,” said Haviland-Jones. “It seems that we all express astonishing delight and increase our social behaviour.”

Happiness is a big old deal and introducing flowers into your life, makes you and others feel special, remarkable and wonderful.

So, why not replicate this study yourself and watch his face light up!

Open and ask The London Flower Lover or your local florist about how you can go about sending irrestible flowers to that man of your choice.

The Team

The London Flower Lover

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About Thelondonflowerlover

Welcome to The London Flower Lover. We are florists who create floral collections to tell your real life story. With colour and texture, we take floristry into an entirely new direction based on the challenges and joys of your life. Offering what we call 'heart based floristry' we use style, fashion, and life situations and merge them with heart based lifestyle support. This inspiring blend creates so much more for those who love flowers. Using flowers in the traditional way of course, but always using flowers to open up a floralicious conversation about relationships of all kinds. We are a sort of work in progress of compassionately confirming how we are already on the inside, the love we want to see out in the world. That is mission of The London Flower Lover. So saying yes to recognising that is at the heart of this blog and using flowers to honour that inner world is how we use the beauty of giving and receiving flowers. This blog is your blog. It's as much about cultivating your heart, as it is about enjoying the physical beauty of flowers. It offers story, poems and video to reflect the life you actually live whilst showing beautifully inspiring collections of flower designs. Hand-tied bouquets, arrangements and more. All this with sought after tips from well established experts on how to keep a happy heart. This is what makes The London Flower Lover unique and magical. Yes, and that's how we make the difference that we do. When life looks, feels, or sounds challenging, we offer a sanctuary that you may dip into. A well of refreshment and strength that you may draw from. Sharing what others have found to be successful ways of being happy in the face of challenges, whilst letting flowers do the talking when we have no other way to interpret what is going on. Use flowers to help you re-discover, reveal and remember how you can still be despite challenges. Use flowers to celebrate and to embody the possibility of your heart felt desire, fulfilled. Use flowers in your life, to remind you of the beauty of your life. Use The London Flower Lover today. We invite you to stay curious in this floral universe as you explore the love in the heart. This is a floralicious world.
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